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Family Friday ~ Marriage Nuggets

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nug·get
ˈnəɡət/
noun
plural noun: nuggets
  1. a small lump of gold or other precious metal found ready-formed in the earth.
    • a small chunk or lump of another substance.

     

Valuable items don’t have to be large to be worth much and the same goes for pieces of advice.  Even little nuggets of advice can be valuable.  That’s exactly what I want to share with you today!

  • Do you remember this post from last week? I talked about appreciating the differences between ourselves and our husbands.  My little preference was about the shower bottles’ lids being closed.  I even said that my husband had no idea that that bothered me!  Every day when I cleaned the shower, I would simply snap his shampoo and body wash lids back down, but I never said anything to him about it.

Guess what?

shower pic

Ever since last Friday, his bottles have been shut tighter than a toddler’s teeth at supper time!  Yep, he read my post and took it on himself to take care of that tiny issue! (How sweet is that?!) What did it take?  Communication.

Nugget #1 ~ When there are things that bother you, speak up. 
I’m clearly not talking about little pet peeves like mine; I’m talking about things that would really cause a rift in your relationship.  Many times things go on and on simply because we don’t share it with our spouse.  Either we think he should know it (!) or we’re afraid to tell him.  Sharing what’s on your heart might not remedy the issue immediately, but at least you can get it out there where it can be discussed and prayed about, and possibly have a conclusion decided upon very quickly.

  • When I was changing our sheets this week, I noticed that the top hem was really wrinkled.  I started to continue to make the bed and then I remembered that I usually always iron the guest bed.  Then I had another thought I needed to make our sheets pretty, too.

iron

Nugget *2 – Never do for others and neglect your husband.
If he’s our priority (and he should be), we won’t want to forget to show him the special kindness that we do for other people.

 

 

  • Recently I had the chance to attend a Hand-Lettering class.  It was so much fun!!!  I determined that I was going to practice my hand-lettering every day in some small way.  What better way than to leave a note for my husband each day on the bathroom mirror and make it pretty?

calligraphy

Nugget #3 – Don’t let a day go by without sharing  your words of love and encouragement to your spouse.  Whether it’s a hand-written note, a text or spoken words, say it!  He needs to HEAR what is in your heart.  He’ll think about those words all day long and it will keep that connection between you strong.

There are three little Marriage nuggets for you to ponder this weekend!

Which nugget do you need to practice?

Be refreshed this weekend!

Denise

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10 thoughts on “Family Friday ~ Marriage Nuggets

  1. Thank you for this reminder! A little over a year ago (?) you had shared the idea about leaving notes on the mirror, and I thought that was the neatest idea! That has been such a blessing for him and for me (he started leaving little notes as well 😊). Thank you for the “nuggets” of truth you share.

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