If someone asked me what phrase epitomized my husband’s parenting as he fathered our girls, I would say,” I don’t want my girls to turn out good. I want them to be godly.” I love that, and I respect him for his desire to turn their hearts not to just good things, but to godly desires and attitudes.

The world is satisfied with good. It is enough. Having a good child means our kids aren’t into drugs. They are moral. They are honor students and respectable citizens. The world thinks if our kids turn out good we should be relieved. Whew! We got them through the hard stuff.

Would it satisfy you to know that Mary, the mother of our Lord, was a good woman? Remember that she was in need of a Savior, just as we are. She wasn’t a saint. Was she more than good? Let’s look at Scripture –

Luke 1:30 – And the angel said unto her, Fear not, Mary, for thou hast found favor with God. The only way we find favor in God’s eyes is to be like God – to be godly. We can only do that as we trust in Christ as our Savior. Mary couldn’t have found favor with God in simply trying to be good.

In verse 38 Mary refers to herself as the handmaid of the Lord. She saw herself as God’s servant, and was ready to do His bidding, spite the scandal or difficulty that was included with her calling.

Luke 1:46 – Mary said, My soul doth magnify the Lord. Her words, her heart, her whole being praised God and desired to live for Him and please Him. Was she perfect? No. Was she godly? Yes.

I see Mary’s godliness as a huge factor in her being chosen to bear the Savior of the world. She wasn’t simply a “good little church girl.” She loved God passionately and it was seen in all she said and did.

That’s where I want my heart to be. It is also my prayer for my daughters. Oh, that instead of saying “good” things to others, my words would be godly ones. Instead of acting “nice” I would act Christlike. Instead of doing a good deed, my actions would be out of a sincere love for my God.

No, it’s not enough for me to be a “good woman.” It is my goal to be godly. It will be a continual process of sanctification to be like my God until He takes me home, but it is my heart’s cry today and every day. “Lord, make me more like You! Help me to turn out godly for your glory.”

With love,

You never really know how wonderful it is to feel wonderful until you don’t feel so wonderful! You can quote me on that! =) Migraines aren’t fatal, but some days when they knock you for a loop, you kinda wish you could just move on to heaven where “there will be no more death, neither sorrow or crying; neither shall there be any more pain, for the former things are passed away”! Revelation 21:4 The migraine is passed for the time being, so I thank the Lord and press on with renewed strength. A new day is a true gift, isn’t it?

We had a sweet time at Bible study at Boones Creek Bible Church Monday night. I’m so thankful for the faithful women that have chosen to study with us and came out to share what they learned in the last lesson, and hear new things. Our new lesson is about “Pressing For the Prize.”

Philippians 3:13, 14 – Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended, but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

Have you ever been in a race? The only time I competed was when I was in college and all the freshmen were required to run a mile under a certain time limit – or else you did it again! Running has never been a favorite thing of mine. I enjoy a brisk walk outside or walking on the treadmill, but running is just…painful! As I ran that mile run with all the other girls in my class, I was determined not to be at the tail end of the group! I didn’t end up first, but I finished well enough to pass the run and have that behind me.

In preparation for the run, I learned that you never turn around and look behind you. It’s tempting because you want to know how close your competitors are! But looking behind you is dangerous! Falling is the biggest reason to keeping looking ahead. Looking behind isn’t wise because it will slow your progress. It also uses up energy you need to complete the race.

In our Bible study we learned that it is also essential for the Christian not to look back. We have a tendency to look back at the past. We are filled with regret over what has happened and we fail to recognize that what is behind us is no longer true or real. It’s over with, and we need to get over it too. Corrie Ten Boom uses the illustration of the sea reminding us that Psalm 103:12 says that our sins are removed as far as the east is from the west; they are buried in the deepest sea and there is a sign that reads, “No fishing allowed!”

Why would we want to go back and dig up what has been forgiven and is under the blood of Christ? We can certainly learn from the past. As Elizabeth George said, wisdom usually comes from failure! So we learn from the past, we log it, and we leave it!

But not only are we to forget our past sins and failures, but we must also forget our past accomplishments! Too often we live on what we did for the Lord way back when and we fail to get after anything now! People will gloat in the “Good ol’ days” when they really weren’t so good, if you take a hard look at them! Today is what matters. What is important is what is between your two feet today. Look at it and then press on! Elizabeth said that a person who knows where they’re going:

• has a sense of God’s call on their life
• understands God’s purpose for their life
• focuses on God-given goals
• moves toward those goals

Does that describe you? If not, ask the Lord now to give you His understanding of those things and then, with His enablement, move forward!

Pressing on,

Yep, it was another Migraine Day. No post until tomorrow. See you then!

We got out the Christmas dishes this weekend – it’s hard to believe it’s time for them, but I love having a change in December. I have this china, then I also have a casual daily set to use. Dishes are one thing that your family will remember. It can be a part of your family’s tradition. “That was the bowl we always used for popcorn” or “those were the plates we always used at Christmas.”

I have vivid memories of my mom’s dishes, do you? What special memory do you cherish? And what was cooking in your kitchen this weekend?

With love,