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Freshen Up Friday

Sooooo, what did you do with the Christmas cards you received this year?  Are they in a stack somewhere?  In a box?  A drawer?  You’ll come across them this spring when you begin your deep cleaning and give them a chuck into the trash can, right?  Hold it!  I have two suggestions to make good use of that hard work and money your friends and family put into sending you a holiday greeting!

  1. Find all the cards that were those adorable Christmas photo cards.  Snap a picture of it on your phone, and then make it that person’s contact photo!  
  2. Place all the cards into a non-seasonal basket and place it near your dinner table.  Each night at supper, pull out a card and pray for the sender of that card.  Pray specifically for each member of that family, for their salvation, and/or their walk with God.  Pray they will seek Him this year.  Pray they will be used of the Lord for His service.  Pray they will have wisdom and clear direction to make each day profitable for Him!  Why not also send them a note, telling them you’ve prayed for them?  I’ll bet it will refresh and encourage them!
Wouldn’t you appreciate knowing that your Christmas card was being used that way?  It turns a simple greeting into a double blessing – first to you when you received it, and secondly to the sender, for whom you are praying and thinking of each time you see their update picture on your phone!

Be refreshed,

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The Brake Principle in Child Training

When you were learning to drive, what was the first thing you father, mother, or instructor showed you?  Was it the ignition? I doubt it. The accelerator?  Hardly!  It was probably the brake!

“This is how you stop the car!  Put your foot here!  Press down.  Understand?  
Stop the car with this!”

Just as it is the most crucial thing in driving to know where the brakes are, so in every area of life, a child must learn early on how to put on the brakes. Let me explain.

When a toddler doesn’t get what they want, their temper accelerates.  They scream.  They throw themselves into the floor and have a tantrum. Let’s say it’s dinnertime and the child will not tolerate sitting at the table for even 5 minutes.  The fit begins.   Enter the instructor (parent).  Now is the time to teach the applying of the brakes. Don’t merely distract them.  Teach them.  You get the child’s attention so they look you in the eye and say lovingly, but firmly,

 “Julia, No. You may not get down.  Mommy has your dinner here.  It’s time for us to eat.”  Give them a bite of food.  If they continue to throw a fit, remove them from the table, and go to another room.  Then apply a couple of stinging swats on the top of her leg with a ruler or other small paddle. This is brake application!   “Mommy loves you and has your dinner for you to eat.  You must obey and sit at the table with us.”  Then pray briefly with her, “Jesus, Help Julia obey Mommy and sit at the table and eat her dinner. Amen.”  Then return to the table. Repeat every time it’s necessary. 

If you help her “put on the brakes” every time she starts to “accelerate,” pretty soon, you’ll stop having head-on-collisions with your child!  Oh, she will test you, but her will will be broken eventually and there will be fewer wrecks on the highway of her life.  She must learn to obey! The sooner the better.  They key is consistency in your instruction.

If you want to stop fearing the impact of taking your child anywhere, and want to start enjoying the ride, remember The Brake Principle; it will keep many disasters from happening!

With love, 

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A Peek From my Porch

Waiting.

Some have been waiting for it to snow.

Our “good” snowfall that we’d been waiting for came yesterday!

I was one of those “some.” I call these winter weather days we’ve had since Saturday “Delicious.” I don’t mean that I’m stuffing down toasted marshmallows and other luscious comfort foods, though this kind of weather begs for it! What I’m saying is that these days just are delicious all in themselves. They are meant to be enjoyed and savored, just like an exquisitely prepared meal.

How did I relish these days? I have had the pleasure of staying in bed a wee bit longer, wrapped in my down comforter, the warmth of the fireplace at my bedside. Delicious. Normal routines that would have called for busyness and flurry were replaced by the luxury of being in no hurry whatsoever. Delicious.

Yesterday while it snowed out here in the country, plans for the day were changed. So instead I:

  • Leisurely mopped and dusted wearing my comfy, warm slippers
  • Listened to all my favorite radio preachers 
  • Filed recipes
  • Cut out coupons and sorted them
  • Worked on “a project” at my sewing machine
  • Read and studied near the window (and the fire)
  • Sipped on extra cups of steaming coffee
  • Oh, and I looked out the window a LOT
The parson and I also took a walk in the snowy dusk.  The shadows made the snow blue. The quiet was deafening and …yep, delicious!
It sure is pretty out here.  This snow was worth waiting for! It was a gloriously (delicious) day!

What do you enjoy doing on days like these?

With love from my snowy porch,

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Do This First

David’s situation had become onerous. Sin was enjoyed for a season, now came the reaping of it. The consequences were fair, but difficult. Nathan the prophet told David that he would not die, but his infant son would. What would you do? I can see myself hanging over the side of my baby’s crib crying my heart out, but what does David do? II Samuel 12:16 tells us that David therefore besought God for the child; and David fasted, and went in, and lay all night upon the earth.

He prayed and fasted. He knew that prayer was the thing that mattered the most; not crying, pacing, shouting at the Lord…praying. That was what would make the difference. And it did.

Wait! You might say! The child died! What good was it to pray? The evidence of the impact praying did is in David’s response to hearing that his son had died:

But when David saw that his servants whispered, David perceived that the child was dead: therefore David said unto his servants, Is the child dead? And they said, He is dead. 20 Then David arose from the earth, and washed, and anointed himself, and changed his apparel, and came into the house of the Lord, and worshiped: then he came to his own house; and when he required, they set bread before him, and he did eat.

Instead of falling apart at the horrific news, he got up, washed, changed and came to the God’s house and worshiped! Could he have done that without prayer? Hardly. He would have been a basket case – just like I am when I attempt anything without taking it to the Lord first.

Anything done without prayer is

  • fleshly 
  • faulty 
  • fleeting 
  • fragile

What are you attempting to do today?

  • Work at your workplace?
  • Witness to a lost person?
  • Be a help meet to your spouse?
  • Mother your children?
  • Be a light in the world?

Have you prayed about it? Then and only then will you have a right response if things don’t go the way you’d hoped (or even prayed) they would! You won’t fall apart. You won’t accuse God. You will be able to bow your head, and with a hurting heart whisper, “Thank you. I accept this from Your hands. I worship You.”

Prayer. It’s the only thing we must do.

With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Country

We are huge fans of homemade soups for winter supper meals. What could be better on these frigid cold days than having a steaming bowl of soup after being out in below freezing temps?

Last weekend I made a Baked Potato Soup that is so hearty and delicious. This great recipe came from Cooking Light, but you’d never know it. It’s as rich and scrumptious as any baked potato soup from a restaurant!

To accompany the soup, I made Super Sloppy Joes; an award winning recipe from Taste of Home. They are full of good things and could stand alone, however these were great together! I love having a batch of this Sloppy Joe mixture in the freezer. It makes a great quick lunch. I toast the hamburger buns a little so they’ll be warm and crispy on the inside. Mmmm. I spray the buns with cooking spray and toast them in a skillet just until lightly browned.

Here are the recipes. I know you’ll want to try them during this cold snap most of the country is experiencing.

Baked Potato Soup
Ingredients

4 baking potatoes (about 2 1/2 pounds)
2/3 cup all-purpose flour Note – I reduce this to 1/3 Cup!
6 cups 2% reduced-fat milk
1 cup (4 ounces) reduced-fat shredded extra-sharp cheddar cheese, divided
1 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon black pepper
1 cup reduced-fat sour cream
3/4 cup chopped green onions, divided
6 bacon slices, cooked and crumbled

Preparation

Preheat oven to 400°.
Pierce potatoes with a fork; bake at 400° for 1 hour or until tender. Cool. Peel potatoes; coarsely mash. Discard skins.
Lightly spoon flour into a dry measuring cup; level with a knife. Place flour in a large Dutch oven; gradually add milk, stirring with a whisk until blended. Cook over medium heat until thick and bubbly (about 8 minutes). Add mashed potatoes, 3/4 cup cheese, salt, and pepper, stirring until cheese melts. Remove from heat.

Stir in sour cream and 1/2 cup onions. Cook over low heat 10 minutes or until thoroughly heated (do not boil). Sprinkle each serving with cheese, onions, and bacon.

Super Sloppy Joes
Ingredients
2 pounds ground beef
 1/2 cup chopped onion
 2 celery ribs with leaves, chopped
 1/4 cup chopped green pepper
 1-2/3 cups canned crushed tomatoes
 1/4 cup ketchup
 2 tablespoons brown sugar
 1 tablespoon white vinegar
 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
 1 tablespoon steak sauce
 1/2 teaspoon garlic salt
 1/4 teaspoon ground mustard
 1/4 teaspoon paprika

 8 to 10 hamburger buns, split

Directions
In a Dutch oven over medium heat, cook the beef, onion, celery and green pepper until meat is no longer pink and the vegetables are tender; drain.
Stir in the next nine ingredients. Simmer, uncovered, for 35-40 minutes or until heated through, stirring occasionally. Spoon about 1/2 cup meat mixture onto each bun. Yield: 10 servings.

Have you tried any new soups this winter? I seriously hope you’ll make this soup and sandwich!

From my country kitchen,