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Stop Worrying!

I’m planning on doing something soon that scares me.  

I’m considering moving my blog to another site!   Perhaps you’re saying, “Is that all?!”  Big deal.  I know.  But…

With a little more than 1,600  posts on this current site, I’m fearful about losing all those entries! I put myself, my very heart and many hours into those posts, and now here I am considering moving to another site.

There are a couple of issues that are pushing me to make this decision, but I’m fearful.  I’m asking myself what would happen if I lost all the posts I’ve written here.  I’m wondering if it will be hard to learn the process of posting on another site.  I’m afraid I won’t be happy with it.  I’m fearful it will cost more than I’d anticipated.  Yet, a decision needs to be made.  What to do?

Wait!  Why do I vacillate? Why am I worrying?  God cares about this little ministry that I do.  So I will pray.  I will ask the Lord’s guidance.  Then I will take the plunge towards whichever direction He leads.

Are you as guilty as I am about worrying?  We waste much time in deliberation when all we need to do is ask the Lord to step in and reveal His will, provide our needs or answer and do what only He can do.

My issue may seem small to you, but to me it’s large because it’s important to me.  Guess what?  That makes it important to God, as well!  What are you worrying about today?  To the Lord, it is also small ~ oh not insignificant and unimportant, but to an infinite God, it is small.  It’s not too hard for Him, nor is it too trivial with which to be bothered.

A (n)…
fear
child
parent
unsaved friend
lost item
financial need
decision
illness
longing
sorrow

all these matter to God!

Stop mulling it over in your mind and just talk to God about it.

Then you can move on in your day with the load lifted and an assurance that He is at work on your behalf!

Are you worried today?  I’d be happy to pray for you.  Leave your name and I’ll call it out to the Lord today! Oh, and I’ll keep you posted about the new site for my blog!  Pray with me that I’ll find the perfect spot to land!

With love,

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A Peek From My Porch

If you could have seen me at around 9:30 – 10:00 p.m. a couple nights ago you’d have seen a furniture moving frenzy!  All it took was a browse through my new Southern Living Magazine to put me in the mood to do a little redecorating!  You see, I saw a picture of a desk in a living room and it was facing a window…

“Brilliant!  Why don’t I do that with my desk? It would be great to have the view of the backyard instead of a wall!” I thought to myself.  It sounded like a quick little turn of one piece of furniture.  An hour and half later I was done!

My new view from my desk!

 Of course after moving the desk, nearly everything else in the room had to be moved as well!  As a matter of fact, only my bookcase stayed where it was.  But I love the new look!  I had originally used the couch as a divider between the kitchen space and the living room area.  I decided to open it up so that each seat could enjoy the fireplace.

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I tried to add layers in the living room.  Accessorizing with a throw on the couch or ottoman, a runner on the coffee table and rugs on the floor adds a dimension of warmth to the room. If I had a wool scarf that matched, I’d tuck it onto the mantle.

Speaking of the mantle, it has also been changed for the winter season (I’m hoping for some snow!).

My husband likes the change, but said he’s afraid he’s doing to forget about the rearranged furniture and replay the Dick Van Dyke trick and trip over the ottoman or couch. (Do you remember how the show began?)  Poor guy, he’s doomed.  Now that I know how much fun it was to move this stuff around, he’d better not walk into this room without a light on!

Anyone else love to move the furniture around?

With love from my country porch,

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Letting Your Child Go

When I create a new project I love seeing it on display.  My chalkboard drawings, freshly sewn curtains, a seasonal wreath or a homemade loaf of bread…it doesn’t matter.  It’s fun seeing it fulfill the purpose for which it was made.  I’d never dream of taking my new chalkboard and sliding it under the coach!  It sits on my fireplace mantle so it can embellish the rest of the living room!

If you’re a parent you have probably heard many, many times about the necessity to train your child. You’re creating a life that God wants to save and then use.  You must train them in God’s ways; you need to bring them up in with a biblical view.  There’s also the importance of teaching them how to act, respond and speak.  They need guidance about relationships, table manners, common courtesies, and decorum.  Decision-making is also huge.  Every single day as a parent you’re molding this life for the purpose for which they were created.

But you know what?

I think most Christian parents who attend a sound Bible-preaching church understand what they must be doing right now.

I believe the problem often comes when it’s time to release them and let them go.  Parents want to hang on…and on…and on.  Rather than letting them go and seeing them “on display,” if you will, for God’s glory, they’re full of fear and so they do all they can to keep them close.

Sadly, many mothers, especially, hang on.  I hear many moms mourning the loss of their “babies” (now in their 20’s or better).  I hear them talk more about their children than they do their husband.  I see them keeping the circle very tight, now allowing their grown adult children to soar into new adventures.   The reasons?  Perhaps…

  • Fear of losing control
  • Fear of not being needed
  • Fear of being neglected as an important person in the child’s  life
  • Fear of being replaced
  • Fear that the child isn’t ready
  • Fear of change in this new season of life
  • Fear of the reality of her marriage
We are doing our children a great disservice when we don’t take our grip off of them and allow them to follow God’s leading in their lives.  We can still direct and guide them in their decision-making, but they need to be encouraged to go.  If we hang onto them we will only pass along our fears into their hearts and hinder them from watching God change them as they trust Him for their life.

Let’s think about the blessing of some biblical mothers who let their children go:
There’s Moses’ mother, Jochebed, who had to let Moses go to Egypt so that his life would be protected and God could raise him up as a leader of Israel.  Hannah released Samuel to serve in the temple when he was a young lad.  David, the shepherd boy was allowed to work in the field and had to do manly tasks – including fighting a giant!  The three Hebrew boys who were thrown into the fiery furnace were separated from their parents and knew how to respond.  These are just a few mothers who give us good examples to remind us that we can trust our children into God’s hands, and I doubt that any of us will have to make the kind of early sacrifice many of them had to make!

Now then, how can we prepare ourselves for letting go?
  1. Create a daily on-going time of prayer for your child and commit them to God’s care.  As you learn to trust a sovereign God, you will be more apt to let go.
  2. Begin to let go when your child is growing up – allow them to:
    • Go to church activities for their age – Sunday school parties, youth group outings, etc.
    • Send them to a great Christian camp in the summer.  Some camps even have a little weekend camp for junior campers.  This gets them warmed up to the idea of being away in the summertime without Mom and Dad!
    • Allow your teen to work a job. Chick-Fil-A is a great place for teens to work.  There’s a high work ethic, and high standards and responsibility  are expected!  Perhaps they could clean houses or babysit for people with whom you are familiar.
    • Get your children involved in public outings like story-time at the library when they’re little, running a 5K, volunteering at the hospital.
  3. Be sure to stay connected with your husband and build a great marriage while your children are home.  Give yourself something to look forward to when the children are gone.  The Empty Nest should be something to look forward to, not dread!

Can I lovingly encourage you to pray daily that the Lord will help you know when it’s time to let your child go?  He has a great plan for them!  Build into their heart an excitement to go do whatever God has called them to do!  Then take your hands off and trust them in the greater hands of a Sovereign Creator Who can do more for them than even their mother could!

With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Country?

Creamy potatoes, delectable pieces of ham, crunchy bread topping ~ these are all the makings of a LIGHTENED version of Scalloped Potatoes and Ham that I’ve been making for years.  I found the recipe in Better Homes and Gardens Cookbook, Family Favorites Made Lighter.  

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One reason I love this recipe is that the scalloped, milky part doesn’t curdle when you cook it, like some other recipes do!  The other reason I love this recipe is because it’s been lightened up in fat and sodium.  You won’t miss a thing, I promise.  Whenever I make this, my husband feels it necessary to “even out the lines left in the dish,” giving him another little helping, and another…  It’s that good!

Creamy and delicious!

Scalloped Potatoes and Ham
1 Can lower sodium Cream of mushroom Soup
1/2 cup skim milk – I used 2%
1/2 tsp dried marjoram
1/8 to 1/4 tsp pepper
1 1/2 cups cubed, ham
1 cup chopped onion – 1 large
4 1/2 cups thinly sliced peeled potatoes – 4-5
2 Tbl. fine dry bread crumbs
1 tsp snipped parsley
1 tsp marg., melted

For sauce, in a medium mixing bowl stir together the soup, milk, marjoram, and pepper.  Set aside.  In a 2 quart casserole layer half of each of the ham, onion, potatoes and sauce.  Repeat layers.

Bake, covered in a 350 degree oven about 1 hour or till the potatoes are nearly tender.  In a small mixing bowl stir together the bread crumbs, parsley, and melted margarine.  Sprinkle atop casserole.  Bake, uncovered, for 15 minutes or more till potatoes are tender.  Let stand for 10 minutes before serving.  Makes 4 servings

I served it with green beans and a light version of Angel biscuits.

Now you know how to use up that little bit of ham you froze after Christmas dinner was over!  It’s a great winter dish, full of comfort and no guilt!

What’s been cookin’ in your kitchen this week?

With love from my country kitchen,

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Freshen Up Friday

My recent Aldi’s haul!

Who isn’t looking for a way to lower their grocery bill?  It’s amazing how everything that’s healthy for you is so expensive, isn’t it?  I love buying fresh produce, but it can sure take a cut out of the grocery funds!  Aside from couponing, there are other ways to save money on groceries!  Finding stores that have reduced prices is one.  I’m going to tell you about a store where I used to shop when we lived in Indiana that’s opening two new stores in my area!              =0 (Excited face!)

Aldi’s is a no-frills, German-owned grocery store where the product is guaranteed and the  prices are affordable!  When we shopped there years ago and our girls were young, they were quite humiliated unimpressed that we were shopping there!  One certain daughter, who will remain anonymous, is now shopping at Aldi’s herself saying, “I go there because the prices are so reasonable and the produce is unbelievably affordable!”   It’s so true!

Recently on a trip home from seeing my parents, we stopped at Aldi’s in Corbin, KY to pick up some necessary items for the week.  I bought 23 items and spent $35!  That’s pretty incredible considering that I bought produce, milk, Blue Cheese, Monterey Jack Cheese, onions and other items.  My fresh pineapple was only 99 cents!  It wasn’t on the sale rack because it was old – that was the weekly price.

Now, if you haven’t shopped at Aldi’s yet, there are a few things you need to know:

  • They don’t accept coupons – you don’t need them!
  • They don’t bag up your groceries or even provide bags for you.  You must either bring your own, purchase their reuasable bags or grab an empty box in the store.  Then after you make your purchase, you scoot over to the side to a long shelf where you can bag everything up.
  • You have to put a quarter into a cart outside the store to take one in.  No worries ~ you get your quarter back when you return the cart after shopping.  This is one of the ways they keep costs down ~ no one has to go track down the buggies that are coasting down the parking lot!
  • You won’t find major brands in the store ~ they sell the Aldi’s brand that is backed with their Double guarantee.  Their inventory is less than a regular grocery store, but they have the “fastest moving items” that most stores sell.
There are two Aldi’s getting ready to open  soon in our area – one in Kingspport on Stone Drive and another in Johnson City on West Market.

So, if you’re interested in refreshing your grocery bill, find an Aldi’s near you and at least try it once!  You might like the extra jingle in your wallet!

Have you shopped at an Aldi’s?  What did you think?

Stay refreshed,