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Open to Change

I love being around people that love life; people that aren’t afraid of trying something new and that embrace life with a smile instead of a scowl. It’s easy as we age to become leery of change. If someone does something in a way we’ve never seen done we may tend to shy away from it because it is unfamiliar to us.

I was recently with a couple that is probably in their late 60’s. They were a joy to be around simply because of their attitude. Whatever we did was greeted with a smile and enthusiasm. When we suggested they try a hamburger place near us that is only a drive through and would require us eating in our van, the wife said, “Oh, that will be fun!” When they watched our service order at church and saw things being done a bit differently (nothing unbiblical, only different) they praised my husband for his courage to not let things get into a rut.

This couple encouraged me! Proverbs 12:25 says, Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop, but a good word maketh it glad. Their words encouraged me. We can be that kind of encouragement to those around us today. When our husband suggests doing or going somewhere with him, let’s be quick to say, “Sure!” When our children (or grandchildren)are playing a new video game or our teens are texting on their cell phone, let’s ask them to teach us how to do it! If a co-worker suggests a new way to do something you’ve been doing forever, be open to their way!

Being open to change will encourage a relationship; scowling and shaking our heads will bring distance. Let’s lift someone’s heart today by our good words – even if it requires change.
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Preparing for Easter

I love Easter week! It holds so much for us as believers. Without the resurrection we would obviously have no living Savior, and with no living Savior we would have no salvation. With no salvation we would have no purpose for our life or hope for eternity! The tomb is empty, but it’s full – full of blessing!


As with every other holiday, I’ve created traditions in our family to help make this weekend a special one. Things change as the children grow up, but let me share with you some of the things we did when our girls were small.


On Good Friday we would gather together and read the Scriptures about the crucifixion, but remind the girls this was not the end of the story! One year we used objects that reminded us of Jesus’ suffering and told the story with those objects. For example, a sponge, a nail, a thorn, etc.


On Saturday we had what we called, Easter Saturday. We would have an Easter egg hunt in our yard in the afternoon, followed by a hunt for their Easter baskets. I always made an Easter cake that looked like a basket and had green-colored coconut and jelly beans on top, then inserted a handle made of cardboard and covered with ribbon. We would finish our time by having a piece of cake together. Many people have varying opinions about all that I just described – but we found that doing these fun activities on Saturday was just another way to incorporate fun family times and traditions without combining them with Easter Sunday.


Then on Easter Sunday we would try to get up early and have our own Easter sunrise service. We lived in cold Indiana while the girls were small and often had to really bundle up to go outside that early, but it created some teeth chattering special times! My husband had built the girls a tree house in the backyard and we’d climb the tree house, Bible in hand and go up there and read the Scriptures about the women coming to the tomb early and finding it empty. Then we’d sing “He Lives” and “He arose”. We concluded with prayer, thanking God for our risen Savior. Then we’d go inside and have Easter breakfast together and get ready for church and a day of worship.


This week is such a great opportunity to hand out tracts and let folks know the reason for the hope within you. Be prepared with tracts in your purse and in the car so you’ll be ready for those opportunities.


I pray that this will be a special week for you as you meditate on the cross and the empty tomb, as you prepare to make it memorable for your family, and as you share the Good News with others!

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Blessings in a Storm

Today, April the third, is an anniversary of sorts for our family. It was the day in 1974 that 148 tornadoes struck the US, 26 of them in Kentucky. I don’t think I’ve missed a year since then remembering the devastation the storm brought and God’s hand of protection over us when it ravaged through the city of Winchester.

I was a member of our approximately 100-member high school band that was travelling to Pittsburgh, PA to perform in a concert on that day. As the Greyhound buses we were riding in came through the city of Xenia, OH terrible thunderstorms were rolling all around us. The buses pulled off the road in Xenia to determine if they should wait out the storm or move on. After some deliberation we pressed on. Blessing #1 We later learned that Xenia was devastated by a tornado that killed 32 of its residents. If we had stayed there we would have been right in its path.

When we reached our destination in Pittsburgh, the students all called home and learned that a tornado had touched down in Winchester. However, when my sister and I tried to reach our home we couldn’t get through. Our band instructor said we would continue to try to reach our parents. Then while sitting in a concert listening to another band, my sister and I were called out and asked to come to the lobby. It was there we met with our band instructor and learned that our house had been destroyed in the tornado. Blessing #2 Our mother, who was there by herself during the storm was spared and was at some one’s home being cared for.

I then learned the details that led up to the tornado. A thunderstorm preceded the tornado and cause the electricity to go out. My dad was at work, and my mom was there by herself. She decided to read by candlelight (you can call that trust in the Lord!). At some point she heard a noise that sounded like a train and decided that she should get herself into the basement. As she headed down the steps, a beam from the ceiling came down and hit her across her arm; that bruise was the extent of her injuries. She went downstairs and laid on the floor until it was quiet. When she came back upstairs she could see the sky! The entire roof of our house had been torn off and thrown across the street in a million pieces. Electrical wires lay dangling from the walls, debris was everywhere and she was bewildered and in shock. Neighbors came over to check on her and care for her. The rains came then, soaking everything that was now completely exposed in our roofless house.

I’ll never forget that night in Pittsburgh as I got out my Bible to have my devotions, the booklet I was using led me to Matthew 6:25-33. Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are you not much better than they? Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature? And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the filed, how they grow, they toil not, neither do they spin. and yet I say unto you, that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. Wherefore, If God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and tomorrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith? …But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof. Blessing #3 The Lord had prepared His Word to comfort me and teach me a valuable lesson. Life is more than things. Blessing #4 The shelves in the closets dropped down and covered our clothes, protecting them from being ruined in the heavy rains that followed the tornado. Blessing #5 I had such sweet peace that night as God surrounded me with His presence and care for me.

As a fifteen year-old the Lord taught me things that I obviously haven’t forgotten and wouldn’t have learned without the storm. It’s a continual reminder that the Lord does bring storms (in many forms) to teach us about Himself, His provision, and His never-ending love. Thank you, Lord, for the memory of April 3, 1974.
I wish I could find the music for this so you could hear this song if it’s unfamiliar to you. I pray the words will be a blessing in themselves.
It Takes a Storm Now and Then
All my dreams were shattered
and all that mattered
was gone on the winds of sorrow.
Everything I had planned
swept out of my hand
and I saw no hope for tomorrow.
With my heart near to breaking,
I cried, “Lord, I can’t make it
by myself. I just can’t carry on.”
And with the storm at it’s darkest
came His words, “I’ll never leave you.
You are loved. Let myStrength be your own.”
Chorus:
It takes a storm now and then
to remind me to depend –
to depend on the Lord
And to rest in His word.
For in the wind and the rain, I
learned to call on His name
And I thank Him in my song
It took a storm to make me strong.
When my feet are stumbling
and my hopes are crumbling
The Lord is there guiding
He is peace.
He is calm in the midst of the storm
the Lord is there abiding
He is grace. He is power.
He is strength for each hour.
He is comfort and safety from all harm.
There is joy in my soul
for the Lord has control
and beneath are His everlasting arms
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Around My Kitchen Table

In our kitchen is a round oak table that we purchased twenty-some years ago while living in Indiana. As I wiped the table off after supper tonight I thought about the all the people we’ve been privileged to have sit around that little circle. My husband and I love having people in our home and have a guest book full of names of folks that have been seated there. I’ll never forget in my early years of entertaining how frightened I was to have people over – especially pastors or evangelists. I have a couple of memories that put that fear in me!

One such time was when I was in high school. My parents had invited our pastor to our home for a meal. My mom made an English Trifle with Jell-O, fruit and cake and was topped with whipped cream. When it came time for dessert she asked me to serve our guests. I brought the trifle to the table with the serving dishes and put the spoon into the bottom of the dish to serve the first piece. The Jell-O caused a suction-like problem and when I went to lift the spoon out, the trifle came flying out of the dish and landed on the lapel of my burgundy colored jacket! I looked like I was wearing a whipped cream corsage…very embarrassing for a 17 year-old!

My next horrific memory was when, as a single school teacher, my roommate and I decided to invite our pastor, his wife, and our guest evangelist for a meal during our week of revival meetings. I was in charge of dessert. I had heard that the evangelist loved coconut cream pie, so I set out to make one. I got the pie crust into the oven and got busy on the cream filling, working diligently to make sure it came out smooth and delicious. Pretty soon my roommate and I smelled something burning – the pie crust!!!! It was a lost cause and needed to be thrown away. Not wanting our guests to walk in and be greeted by the smell of burned food, I decided the best thing to do would be to set the crust out on the back porch and light some candles in the house to disguise the odor. Then I reinvented my pie by pouring the filling into parfait glasses and calling it coconut pudding parfaits! Our guests arrived, walked into the living room and the first words out of the evangelists’ mouth were, “Smells like you burned something!” I think all those candles did was point a finger to the burned crust! I believe our guests were leery about the meal from that moment on…wondering what they would be served that had been charred. When I served dessert our evangelist held up his hand and said, “If it’s all the same to you, I don’t believe I care for any.” So much for disguise! I think he had it all figured out – nothing in the main meal was burned, so it had to be the dessert!

I lived through those minor experiences, and there have been plenty others I can tell you, but the thing I’ve learned is, as long as you can laugh about it and not make a big deal over it, it won’t matter to your guests either. The blessings that have come from those gathered around our table have far outweighed the awkward experiences. Our kitchen table is far more than a piece of furniture; it holds memories of dear people that have gathered around that circle and shared more than just a piece of pie…or a pudding parfait; we’ve shared laughs, ministry blessings, tears, prayer requests, answers to prayers and salvation testimonies at our table. We’ve also seen sinners repent there and Christians bow in contrition to get right with the Lord once again. My kitchen table is a journal of blessings and I thank the Lord for each one.

Do you have a special memory from your kitchen table? Please share it with me; I’d love to hear about it!

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A Continual Resort

I get emails weekly from a resort in our area that offers specials for manicures, pedicures and massages. I have been treated by my family on Mother’s Day to this luxurious place, and the spa tries to lure me back with their discounts. When I think of that resort I remember the refreshment it brought. The massage I received worked the kinks out of my neck. I was relaxed and felt great when I left! I have confidence that the kink I’m feeling in my neck today they could get rid of because I remember what they did for me last year when I was there.

This morning as I was reading Psalm 71 I read of another place I can resort. David writes in verse 3 – Be thou my strong habitation, whereunto I may continually resort… What a blessed privilege it is for us to run to the Lord throughout the day, continually! When we turn to Him we find that He is just what we need – always enough.

As we continue through the chapter we find that David knew he could trust the Lord throughout his entire life. Verse 6 says, By thee have I been holden up from the womb. Verse 5 reads – For thou art my hope, O Lord God; thou art my trust from my youth. We read in verse 9 and 18 a reference to the future – Now also when I am old and grey headed, O God, forsake me not. No, David would not be forsaken by God in his old age. He remembered what God had done for Him in the past and had every confidence that He could resort to Him and find help for today. He is the Rock to which we may also continually resort.

The kinks that the Lord worked out in my past He is still able to work out today. I remember Who my God is and I know I can resort to Him continually through my day and all through my life. What a wonderful God He is!