Family life

The Hearth in the Home

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Will you indulge me to repost some of my “way back yonder” blog posts on Thursday’s? I’ll pick through some of my favorites and find things that I think will be relevant to my readers today. Let’s start with one that focuses on one of my favorite topics: Home.

In yesterday’s patriotic service at our church I participated by reading a monologue as it would be written by the Statue of Liberty. An ending phrase has gone over and over in my mind as I’ve pondered its meaning in my country and my own heart as well. It read…

 “O people, restore me to where I can once again see a land of beautiful homes – A land where homes are never separated – a land where home is viewed more by what is on the inside than what is on the outside – a home where these three gifts will always be: the hearth, the flag, and the place of prayer.”

What does it mean to you that you keep alive the gift of the hearth? Wikepdia says that a hearth is “a brick– or stone-lined fireplace or oven used for cooking and/or heating. Because of its nature, in historic times the hearth was considered an integral part of a home, often its central or most important feature: its Latin name is focus.[1]This concept has been generalized to refer to a home place or household, as in the terms “hearth and home” and “keep the home fires burning.” In fireplace design, the hearth is often considered the visible elements of the fireplace, with emphasis upon the floor level extension of masonry associated with the fireplace mantel.

Following this definition I see the hearth as a symbol of the warmth of a family inside a home. It’s not the kind of warmth a real hearth would have brought, but the kind of that comes from being together, spending time talking, sharing in the lives of those that live there with us. I believe this can only be done by the diligence that it took to keep the fire burning in those old- time fireplaces.

One integral part of family warmth is mealtime. I don’t mean the hurry-up and eat and get out of here kind of meal. This is the mealtime where the meal is lingered over, empty plates are pushed back and conversation happens. We have often read a book together after our supper meal. Having Bible reading or devotions works well at this time of day when everyone is gathered together.

The hearth’s warmth can be spread outside to the front porch or the deck. Last weekend we enjoyed having company and spent Friday and Saturday evenings out on the deck talking, sharing dessert and coffee, and also listening to stringed instruments being played and hymns being sung. I could just feel those “home fires burning” during those sweet times of fellowship.

Often the piano in the living room has served as our “hearth.” Because our girls play we have the blessing of being able to gather ’round it and sing together. Game boards have also served in bringing us together in laughter and closeness as games were played with stiff competition and fun.

Each family may interpret the “hearth” in a different way. The important thing is that we do all we can, with the Lord’s strength to keep it burning, and that we each understand that the hearth in the home truly is a gift.

Are you making the most of the gift of your hearth?  How are you accomplishing that?  Ask the Lord to give you ideas, if that gift isn’t being maximized!  

From my hearth,

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A Peek from my Porch

 

I am enjoying the blessing of spending part of this week with my parents in Kentucky.  I’m always so thankful that my husband encourages me to go and visit them.  They live four hours away, and with busy ministry lives, we don’t get to see them too often.  To stay connected, I’ve come to see them by myself pretty much every spring for quite a few years.

I love our times together.  We visit, eat delicious treats (see below), make runs to town, and share stories, laughs, and memories of their lives.  I’ve heard many of their memories before, but I never tire hearing about the years of living during the Depression, the wars, and the simpler days of the 40’s and 50’s.

We’re having a great time!  How about a little peek?

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My mom cooks delicious meals, and knows how to serve them up beautifully! I love eating out in their sun room. It’s so pretty out there with the backyard views, birds , sunshine and the decor of the room itself.

 

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What would Memorial Day be without homemade ice cream? Sad! However, our day was a happy one, because they can crank out some of the best, as evidenced by this bowlful!

 

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I always get a little R&R while here, and the hammock was a perfect spot to do just that!

 

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I love this shot of my veteran dad and the American flag flying just outside the garage where we were sitting.

 

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My mom has a curio cabinet that is filled with lots of lovely treasures. She started out collecting miniature shoes, then the compilation grew to other gems, like Wedding cake toppers and little dishes. I offered to dust the curio cabinet and had so much fun pulling each piece off the each shelf, dusting it, hearing its history, and returning it to its rightful place. This is a picture of a part of one shelf. Isn’t it gorgeous?

It’s been a great visit, and I still have a couple days left!  I feel blessed, privileged, and a teeny bit spoiled (okay, more than a teeny bit!).  Having family hours away from you is hard, but it seems our visits are all the more special.  I don’t want to take a minute for granted.  Now excuse me, while I go for another bowl of ice cream and a nice, long chat.

What do you do to stay connected to your family?

With love from a Kentucky porch,