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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

I hope you know that I try to lead by example.  I don’t suggest you do something if I’m not willing to do the same thing!   Last Friday I suggested that you unclutter your bedroom.  Today I’ll show a few pictures of my room that’s been tidied. 
I took down the heavy red drapes for spring and summer.
I love the chaise lounge.  It’s great for television view or reading…or a cat nap as Liza is getting ready to demonstrate!

Here’s the dresser that’s going to be painted once the weather cools off and I can take it outside.
Don’t you love these vinyl sayings?

So, how did you do with your room?  Did it overwhelm you to tackle it?  Did you finish it?  If not, take little snippets of time to keep clearing it out.  It’s amazing what just 15 minutes can accomplish!

Cleaning and decorating is a work in progress.  It really never stops.  Once you get a place straightened up, maintain it by daily keeping things put away.  Emilie Barnes says,

Don’t put it down.  Put it away.” 

That’s a great motto to keep house (or parsonage) by!
From my parsonage window,
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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

Monday found me doing my normal Monday things in the parsonage – changing the sheets, doing laundry, and general housekeeping, but my husband had made one requirement for my day – everything was to include REST.  I tried to finagle a RESTaurant, RESTored nails (spa treatment) and RESTyled hair out of him, but that wasn’t quite what he had in mind!  =)  So, I did only what was necessary at home, and then we headed out for the afternoon – each of us with a book to read.
I’m reading a book that has been on my list for some time. 

I’m reading this to prepare for our ladies’ ministry this year.  The Lord has directed my heart to have our ladies study it together.  Before I ask them to go through this book, I thought I’d read it through.  So on this past Monday afternoon, on my husband’s day off, we headed to the mountains to rest and read for a few hours in a beautiful spot. 

These flowers were to my left while I rocked in a wooden rocking chair.

These old bikes and the mountain view beyond were to my right. 

 Not long after we got here we sat and watched a thunderstorm roll in slowly like a tip-toeing toddler.  We witnessed the sky change from sunny to dark gray with heavy sheets of rain being introduced by rolling thunder.  Then in time, the skies changed back to brilliant blue with clouds that looked like piles of cotton candy sitting atop the mountain peaks.

After the rains passed we moved to a higher spot where we could watch the sun set.  Again, the sky changed constantly – both in color and substance.

It was an unbelievable afternoon and evening.  It was not only beautiful, it was also amazingly quiet on this mountaintop. It was a quiet that allowed me to listen – not to nothingness, but God’s voice.

Reading Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World  in that setting was so appropriate.  This book is about the story we read in Luke 10.  You remember the story of Mary and Martha – Mary was sitting at Jesus’ feet while her sister Martha was rushing about preparing a meal for Jesus and his disciples.  In her frustration Martha asks Jesus, “Lord, don’t you care that I’m serving while my sister is sitting?”  Jesus gently rebukes her by telling her that Martha was worried and troubled, but that Mary had chosen the better part – worship. The book is all about how to learn to sit at Jesus’ feet; how to have a quiet heart of worship instead of an anxious, worried one. 

With the rain and then stillness all around me, the Lord spoke to my heart so sweetly as I read. “Be still – even in a storm.  Leave the heavy things that I don’t intend for you to carry.”  He knew I would need these truths.  He knew I would need to be reminded not to be troubled, because trouble came even before we left the mountain.  But God had spoken in the quiet, and now I was running back to those truths as an anchor for my heart. One truth from the book was this quote: “Worry magnifies the trouble.  Prayer magnifies God.”

“This is your burden, Lord.  I’ll let you carry it.  I choose to pray and magnify you instead of worry.”  As the sun was setting over the mountain, my husband and I clasped hands and did just that – we prayed and gave the care to the One who had also brought the thunderstorm and allowed it to pass.  “This too shall pass away,” I thought.

“In the meantime, Lord, give me a Mary heart that I may worship at your feet instead of being distracted by a storm.”  I returned to our parsonage home with a quiet heart – a Mary heart in this Martha world. 
Thank you, Lord.

From inside my parsonage window,

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Substance or Fluff?

Imagine that you are on your way home and are super hungry and in need of something to eat now.  You stop at the grocery store, dash in and, not wanting to take long to get something to eat, you head right to the check out line.  There you find an assortment of sweet things – candy bars, M&M’s, mints and chewing gum.  Knowing that this will at least ward off your hunger, you purchase a couple of your favorite candy bars and head out to the car.  Eating the candy bars on your way home, your hunger is pacified…at least for a bit.

We’d call the stuff they sell at the cashier lane “fluff”.  It’s nothing substantial.  We’d never go get our grocery cart and buy a weeks worth of candy.  Why not?  It won’t promote growth or health and it won’t satisfy.

If we won’t do that consistently for our body’s sake, why do we often live off of “fluff” in our spiritual lives?  We dash into God’s Word, get a quick little something sweet and dash back out again, having satisfied our need for something spiritual.  However, it’s not lasting.  It won’t promote growth or spiritual health. 

Where do you have to go in the grocery store for things of real substance?  We go into the depth of the store for those things – back where the meats and dairy products are, also the produce and grains.   Proverbs 8:21 is speaking of the Wisdom we find in God’s Word and it says,

 That I may cause those that love me to inherit substance; and I will fill their treasures.
We will also find what is lasting and filling when we go deep into God’s Word.  If we make a quick grab of the first thing we see and think we’re going to grow by that, we’re deceived.  The treasures of God’s Word are there for those that seek for them.  Verse 17 says, I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me. We must be hungry for time with the Lord and seek out the meat of His Word, and when we do, we will find it. 
To make your study of God’s Word deeper, let me make some simple suggestions:
  • Stop before you open your Bible and ask the Lord to teach you today.  
  • Sing a song of praise to the Lord.  Worship Him.  Sit at His feet.
  • Slow down.  Read slowly and contemplate what you’re reading, just as you would contemplate each item you put into your grocery cart. 
  • Study a verse that you don’t understand by using a commentary.  Matthew Henry commentaries are available on-line and are a great resource.
  • Script it.  Write down what you learn. 
If you follow a pattern like this with a heart to hear from God, I promise you, your heart will be satisfied because you’ll be taking in real substance.  Taking in only fluff will leave you weak and unable to cope, but it’s the Truth that will anchor you and cause you to see spiritual growth in your life. 
It’s our choice – will we choose substance or fluff?  Are you really hungry?  Christ alone can satisfy!
With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

Don’t you love it when the Lord, goes ahead of you in  such sweet and loving ways?  You might not see it at the time, but by and by you understand that because He knew the future and your needs, He protected you from things of which you are unaware. That happened to me yesterday. I tried several times to invite folks over for Sunday dinner only to find that they were busy.  Hmph!  I was prepared to have guests, but for some reason the Lord was shutting the door on my invites.  Then our  rainy Sunday morning came, and with it, a lovely headache that developed into a migraine.  I was able to make it to church before it got out of hand, but by the end of the service I was in no shape to have guests in my home.  Thank you, Lord, for protecting me – and my guests.  So, it was just my husband and me for dinner yesterday.   I was thankful that there wasn’t much to do once I got home.  This is another good reason to prepare your meal ahead of time – you never know when you’ll wake up not feeling well!
We will be having leftovers today because there was enough for more than just the two of us, but that’s okay.  I’ll eat it and be thankful for the reminder that God loves and cares for me.  I sure don’t deserve it, but I am amazed at His personalized attention on this small servant.
Here’s what we ate:
Mashed potatoes & Turkey Gravy
Fresh Corn cut off the cob
Homemade applesauce



Green Tomato and Vidalia Onion Gratin



A sweet friend of mine told me about this Green Tomato and Vidalia Onion Gratin and brought me the tomatoes and onion to make it.  It is super good.  If you click the link for the recipe, you can also watch a video of how to assemble it.  I did most of it Saturday night.  I added the cheese and bread crumbs after getting home from church, then popped it into the oven while I was mashing the potatoes and making gravy.  Great new side dish!

I learned this great tip for cutting corn off the cob.  If you place it on the middle part of a bundt pan, the corn doesn’t wiggle everywhere while you cut it off. Also, the corn falls into the pan instead of all over the counter.  It works great!  To have this corn ready in a jiffy for Sunday dinner, I cooked it on the cob Saturday night, let it cool, then cut it off.  Sunday I put it into a skillet with a little butter and warmed it up.

Ready for the oven

The herbed-roasted turkey (also a new recipe) was so flavorful.  You mix together a paste of the herbs and olive oil  and put in on the turkey breast, as well as under the skin. I roasted it slowly in the oven while at church, then bumped up the heat to brown it a bit once I got home.  The gravy from a turkey is so good.  I just added a little chicken broth to the pan drippings and thickened it a bit with corn starch. 

I will look forward to eating these leftovers!  Mmmmm!

What’s been cooking in your kitchen?

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Freshen Up Friday

After time, doors need oiling, shoes need polishing, cars need refueling, pantries need restocking and

women need refreshing!
Today is Friday and you’ve accomplished much this week – perhaps  homeschooling your child, taking care of a sick loved one, encouraging your husband during a difficult time, mentoring a younger woman, washing100 loads of laundry (or it seemed like it!), cooking meals, encouraging a friend and dealing with your own needs – physical, emotional and spiritual.  Friday is a good day to find time to refresh yourself, and there are lots of ways to do that.  It doesn’t take the whole day, but just a part of it, or part of the evening to do something that will get you ready to face the weekend and then another week.

Is there something that you love to do, but you’ve stuffed it away, waiting for time to get to do it?  Is it a scrapbook, a quilt, a painting, a garden, a plan to walk, a craft or a decorating idea you want to do in your home?  How about just a simple thing like polishing your nails or sitting out on the swing outside with a glass of tea?  Take time today to do it – or make plans for it for next Friday. Women don’t often allow themselves the time to do something just for themselves, but taking out time to do something you love will refresh your heart and help you be ready to give to your family again. 
What will you do to freshen up on this Friday?
See you in church!