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Be An Encourager

Friday was a great day.  So many of you commented and wrote such encouraging words about this simple little blog.  I really wasn’t asking for pats on the back in your comments – just a “Hey, I love that National Peach Ice cream Day is coming up!  Think I’ll pull out the freezer and make some.”  You, know, just comments.  

But you know what?  Your encouraging words were a blessing to me.  As I stated in my comment on Friday, it does get lonely on this side of the computer sometimes.  I find myself wondering if there’s anyone out there really reading.  So I must say you thank you.  It’s good to know that you like the variety and are refreshed when you stop by here.

You know, encouraging words are something everyone needs to hear.  We all tend to wonder if what we’re doing is really useful.  Do you, Mom, ever wonder if you’re making a difference in the lives of your children?  We don’t expect them to come up and encourage us on the road of motherhood, but a word from an onlooker can go a long way to keep your spirits up, can’t it?  Think back to a time when someone encouraged you.  Hopefully it wasn’t too long ago, but even if it was, remember what it did for you.  Perhaps it gave you what you needed to keep doing right.  Maybe it kept you in your marriage.  Did it propel you into following God’s will – even though it seemed like a difficult calling?  In a time of sickness, those encouraging words may have reminded you that you’re not alone. 

I recently taught my Sunday school children about Barnabas.  His name was Joseph, but the disciples changed his name to Barnabas – son of encouragement.  All through the Scriptures we find Barnabas with that wonderful characteristic pouring out of his life.  He believed in Paul when the rest of the disciples were skeptical.  He came alongside John Mark when Paul preferred not travel with him.  What a blessing a person like Barnabas is!

We all appreciate encouragement from people like ol’ Barn, but are we encouragers too?  Some people are far better at being Eeyore’s.  You know – they carry the rain cloud over their head and are happy to share their stormy day with anyone who gets near them.  Let’s ask the Lord for someone with whom we could share encouragement today.  Don’t delay when the Lord shows you someone.  Do something for them now before the moment passes, before the burden subsides.  They need you, just like I did on Friday!  Do it, Barnabas!  Do it!

Thankful for each of you,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

I’m excited to have another guest blogger and cook today!  Johanna Galyen is a young wife and mom of four.  She has lots on her plate, yet I often hear her talk about what she’s fixed for Sunday dinner.  This is a young woman who works as a nurse, home schools her two boys, cares for two busy little girls, attends church faithfully, and still manages to have dinner on the table on Sunday.  It can be done!  I recently read her Saturday night status on Facebook which said, “Got the Corn shucked, Sweet taters washed and wrapped, sweet tea is in in the fridge, The ham is ready to go. Now I just need someone to eat it!”  I’m sure those that gathered at her table were thankful for her hard work, and if I’m not mistaken, that was a Sunday that she fed not only her family, but also guests. 

She has learned to plan and prep ahead so that the meal is ready when they get home.  Smart girl! 

Here’s her menu from last week.  This looks like a great meal!  Read on and I think you’ll agree!

Sunday. The busiest day of the week. The one day you want everything perfect…everyone dressed in their best, hair looking just right, your children (hopefully) on their best behavior, and of course the perfect Sunday meal. Most people look forward to the weekend, yet I dread it. Friday night and Saturday are traditionally favorite times to spend with family, but not in our house. When your husband works in food service, “weekends” start on Monday nights and end on Tuesday morning, sometimes they show up on Thursday, but almost never on Friday. With our days constantly changing, Sunday meals must be easy, flexible, and require very little preparation.



This past Sunday, I served the Ugly (but Tasty) Duckling. On Saturday night right before bed, I pulled the frozen whole chicken out of the freezer. I set it in the sink and ran some cold water over it for a couple of minutes (just to get the thawing process started). During the Sunday morning frenzy, I simply opened the now thawed chicken from it’s packaging and gave it a rinse and removed the giblets(we don’t eat those wretched things). I gently separated the skin from around the chicken breast area and put 1-2 tablespoons of butter and put about a tablespoons of the salt/pepper mix in and around the skin/breast area. Add some of the mix to the inside cavity and rub the rest on the legs/thigh area.

Add onions, carrots, and potatoes (you can peel the potatoes if you want, we just left them to save time). Add 3/4 cup water. Place lid, and cook on high for 4-5 hours.

When we got home, I simply drained the broth into a pan and cooked it till it was thick. I thickened it with 2 tablespoons cornstarch (mix in cold water before adding it). Carefully remove the bird and veges and place them on your serving platter.

My dinner rolls are delicious and SUPER easy. I buy the frozen dough balls (only Kroger stocks these) and place them in a buttered dish and set them in my empty microwave  This way, I know no bugs will attack

them and it’s slightly warm in there anyways.

They rise all through church and when I get home, I bake them at 350 for 15-17 min.

Serve them with some apple-butter or fresh strawberry preserves and they are SO delicious!
***One note: Know your crock-pot AND your preacher. Sunday meals have to be flexible. You want the food to be done (165 for chicken), and burnt sacrifices need to be reserved for the Old Testament. So practice with your crock-pot. I’ve found it’s easier to try a Sunday meal on a weekday and see how long it will take for my food so on Sunday I’ve got an idea of how many hours I need to for something to get done.




Salt/Pepper mixture — take a clean bowl and put 2 tablespoons of salt and 2 teaspoons of pepper. Mix it together.

Thanks, Johanna for sharing how to get it all together on Sunday – burnt sacrifice not withstanding!  =)  I will be trying this chicken…and I must buy some of those rolls!  Yum!

Tell me, what’s been cooking in your kitchen?

From my parsonage kitchen,

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With Obedience is Joy!

The last recorded words of a person are often notable.  Consider:

Adams, John Quincy (1767-1848) “This is the last of earth! I am content.”
Addison, Joseph (1672-1719) “See in what peace a Christian can die.”
Washington, George (1732-1799) “It is well, I die hard, but I am not afraid to go.”
Reading recently in the book of John, I read of Jesus’ first miracle – turning the water into wine.  Mary, His mother turns to the servants and says the last words we have recorded by her in Scripture, and they are noteworthy. In John 2:5 we read:
His mother saith unto the servants, Whatsoever he saith unto you, do it.
As I read her words the other day, I thought of what a profound truth is taught in that verse!  What wisdom for a mother to share that truth with her child!  Oh, that we would we each look into the faces of our children and say, “Whatever the Lord tells you to do, do it.”  What encouragement a Sunday school teacher would be to her students to remind them of the blessing that comes from doing whatever the Lord tells them to do!
You see, the world doesn’t teach the principle that with obedience to the Lord is blessing.  They say, “Get all you can.  Live it up!  You are in charge of your life!  You can be anything you want to be!  There’s room at the top.  Reach for your dreams.”  While there is nothing wrong with being at the top, if the Lord puts you there, or enjoying life, our young people need to know the truth that when you do whatever He says to you, there is blessing beyond understanding!  The servants at the wedding of Cana had no idea that their obedience to Christ would provide the best wine for the wedding guests. 
We need to be exciting our children with the wonderful joys that come from doing whatever the Lord tells us to do.  That includes obedience at home, witnessing to others, or going to the mission field.  Perhaps we need to remind ourselves of the blessing of obedience so it will be easier to take our hands off of our children’s lives and allow them to be at the Lord’s disposal to “do whatever He tells you.”
With love,
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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

I loooooove getting the inside scoop from the pros about decorating.  I’m always on the lookout for helpful tips and beautiful ideas to copy in my own home.  Last weekend I got to attend another free design class at Gracious Designs in Jonesborough.  Those folks not only decorate graciously, they receive their customers graciously and are so willing to help with their design dilemmas!  That’s why they offer these classes – to help us have a home that is a delight to our families and our guests.  Of course they sell beautiful accents too, but they’re really lovely people!
The class I attended last weekend was one I was really looking forward to.  It was on Kitchens and Baths. The designer said that the most common complaint about a person’s kitchen is not enough storage.  Are you in agreement with that?  Even if we have a good amount of cabinet space, it seems we can always use more.  Her suggestions were simple:
  • Be creative!
      • Use baskets and trays to corral like items
        • Make a list of the activities you do every day in your kitchen and create stations to accomplish that task easily.  Keeping all the coffee items together will make the task of making coffee much simpler.

        • Make a basket or tray of your baking supplies.  Put your most used spices out for easy access.  Add your measuring cups and pretty canisters for brown sugar and/or confectionery sugar.
        • Use a basket to collect the mail
        • Use baskets to store linens
      • Get a 2-tiered stand for veggies and fruits

      • Use wall space wisely – Use hooks for aprons, towels, or oven mitts.
I asked the designer how you keep the kitchen from looking too cluttered with all these containers, and she said to use the same material for them all.  I happened to have light colored baskets.  You could go with black metal containers, or white baskets.  Making them all the same will keep a good flow to the room.
  • Add a bookshelf to your kitchen if you can.  If not, at least create a basket with your most frequently used books.  We all probably use the same ones over and over, so get those out where they’ll be at your fingertips.
  • Soften surfaces with little touches
    • Greenery in a vase
    • Linens 
      • Use cloth napkins for valances!
      • Place mats
      • tablecloths
      • runners
      • aprons
    • Add lighting
      • Battery operated candles
      • light sticks
      • sconces
      • hospitality lights
  • Add pieces with character
My dad made my stained glass years ago
and got me started on my Rooster theme.
My house is a work in progress!  I came home from the class and rearranged things for a couple of hours.  Her tips were so helpful.  I feel like the room is more unified with the like-colored baskets, and it’s more convenient with the “stations” she suggested we create.  Shopping for what you need in your own home is free!  When I needed another basket I’d go through the house and find what I needed.  You’d be surprised what you can do with what you already have!
I trust there’s some idea here that I learned that will inspire you to organize and decorate your kitchen so it feels just like the place in which you’ll love to create something delicious!
From inside my parsonage kitchen,
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Sticktoitiveness

Super glue was invented in 1942 and it’s success is widespread.  One advertisement says, “it’s there to stay!”  It’s a popular product because of it’s sticktoitiveness!  When other glues won’t hold, Super glue comes to the rescue. 

How much sticktoitveness do you and I have?   When others around us quit, do we?  It’s so easy to get started on something, but quite another thing to actually finish that something!  I have purchased paint to re-do my dresser and it’s sitting in the can not yet touched.  How many books have bookmarks standing at attention in the covers, because I started reading and then lost interest?  Who has started a diet, then dropped it when a craving took over? 

What about spiritual works we begin? 
  • Reading through the Bible in a year
  • Memorizing a passage of Scripture
  • Doing a Bible study with a group
  • Attending a small group study
  • Mentoring a younger woman
  • Attending church services faithfully
Yeah, quitting is easy and it is common.
But look at our Savior.
 Jesus saith unto them, My meat is to do the will of him that sent me, and to finish his work.
 John 4:34
He came to do and finish the work that His Father sent Him to do.  It’s a blessing for us, because His finished work bought our salvation! 
His finished work is also an example for us.  Whatever He has called us to do, we need to finish because a finished work accomplishes that which God has willed.  So, how can we make it easier to finish a work we start?  Let me offer a few suggestions:
  1. Pray before committing to an obligation to seek God’s will. If He leads you to begin it, He will give strength to finish it.
  2. Align other priorities around that responsibility.  If you’ve committed to attending a Thursday night study, don’t agree to babysit for a friend that night.  If you’ve committed to attend Sunday school faithfully and your family has planned a reunion for Sunday, tell them you’ll be there after the morning service.  Keep your priorities in line with what the Lord has led you to do.
  3. Keep your other activities to a minimum around the time of the real duties.  For example, if you’re seeking to read through the Bible in a year and you’ve decided to read each morning, don’t also plan to meet a friend for coffee at 9:00.  You’ll feel rushed and either not get to it at all, or won’t get anything out of your reading.  If you’ve committed to attending a Bible study on Monday nights, don’t pack Monday full of errands and shopping that drain your energy.  With the energy will go your desire to follow through.  Be wise in planning.
  4. Ask someone to make you accountable.  Knowing that you will give a report of your faithfulness to a friend will help you to stay faithful.
Quitting may be easy and common, but there are things we can do to follow our Savior’s example so that we, too, may be able to finish the workLet’s be like super glue and have the tenacity to stick with it until we finish what we begin.
With love,