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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

Ahhh, spring is here!  It brings with it rain showers, flowers, pollen, warmer weather, and the need to clean!  Spring and spring cleaning are synonymous, aren’t they?  After the house has been closed up for the winter, the house needs to a good scrubbing to get rid of dust bunnies, cob webs, and plain old dirt!  Right now I’m in the middle of taking winter clothes out of my closet and drawers.  I don’t have room to keep all seasons out, so I have to pack up the out of season garments.  It feels good to get things put away and the closet and drawers straightened up.

It’s easy to get overwhelmed with spring cleaning when you sit and realize all that needs to be done, but if you take a room at a time it’s much more do-able.  I have always enjoyed Emilie Barnes’ approach to cleaning and organizing.  She sets a timer for 15 or 30 minutes and works until the timer goes off.  You could decide what needs to be done, look at how much time you have, and work on one project at a time. 

There are tons of lists available to help you see what needs to be cleaned in each room.  This one is from Martha Stewart.  You can print off the list and work in small time slots until your house is cleaned to your standard of clean.  I like using a list like these because it reminds me of those special areas that only get cleaned once or twice a year.

Have you heard of Fly Lady?  This is a secular site that give tips to help you clean your house and keep it that way.  She believes in working in small time frames as well.  You can even sign up for reminders of what needs to be worked on that week!  If you need a little motivation, this might be just the place to find it!

Getting things freshened up just feels good.  De clutter the closet when you put your winter clothes away.  Get a black trash bag and toss anything in there that you didn’t wear this year.  Shoes, purses, coats – go through it all and get rid of things you don’t use.  Take the bags to your car trunk and never peek into the filled bags!  The next time you’re going to town drop it off at Goodwill. 

De clutter “stuff” too.  Dishes you’re not using, kitchen linens that aren’t fresh looking, rugs that need to be tossed all either need to find the trash can or the Goodwill box.  Again, just go through one room at a time so you don’t feel overwhelmed.

Yep, it’s time to spring clean the parsonage, so I’d better get back to work!  Do you have anything that motivates you to clean and de clutter?

With love,

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Great and Mighty Things

I write this post to praise my God for all He has done.  He alone is worthy of praise.
Call unto me, and I will answer thee and shew thee great and mighty things which thou knowest not. 
Jeremiah 33:3
This is God’s promise to us.  Why, then am I so amazed when God answers prayer?  Maybe because He’s answering my prayers.  
Several months ago I began to pray, “Lord, please use my life.” I’ve given the Lord my life a long time ago, but I just felt like I wasn’t doing all I could be doing at this time of my life.   At the same time, unbeknowns to me, my husband had prayed, “Lord, Enlarge Denise’s coasts.”  Shortly after this, I received several invitations to speak which included a pastors wives’ conference and a marriage conference. Then an invitation came  to speak at a ladies’ event in South Bend, Indiana in April. Answers to prayer Connecting what we had both prayed with these invitations made deciding whether or not I should go a fairly simple task!  I am blown away that the Lord would use me.  I am nothing, but I so desire to be a vessel that is useful for His Kingdom.  
Now I began praying about several things regarding the ladies’ event in April:
  • What passage the Lord would want me to share from to follow their theme – By the Sea. I have absolutely nothing to say unless the Lord fill my mouth with His Word.  I poured my heart to Him in prayer to guide me in my study.  I wanted to hear from God, so I could speak to these ladies what He had taught me.
  • My flight.  I asked the Lord to prepare women to sit by me on my flights so I could share Christ with them.
  • The details of my flight connections.  Having never changed planes in Detroit (on the way there) or Atlanta (on the way home), I asked the Lord specifically to make the connections in the same terminal.  Everyone told me I would have to take a tram to another building, but it was easy to follow.  I continued to pray that the connections would be in the same terminal.
  • The ladies preparing the event in Indiana.  I asked God to give them unsaved and unchurched women to invite.  I asked Him to give me something that would challenge their hearts and meet the needs of their lives.
The Lord put a passage of Scripture on my heart almost immediately from John 6 about the disciples being in a storm on the sea.  I began writing my outline, and every time I studied this chapter, the Lord kept teaching me new truths. Answer to prayer  As time drew near, I had a real sense of God’s peace about what I was to share with these ladies.  That in itself is an answer to my husband’s prayer for me.  He knows that whenever I go to speak somewhere I usually become overwhelmed with doubt just before I leave about what I’ve prepared!  By that time it’s too late to choose something else, and I have to realize that it’s Satan’s tactics to discourage me.  But there was indeed a peace and assurance that this challenge on, “It is I, be not afraid” was what the Lord wanted me to share. Answer to prayer
The day I flew to Indiana, I boarded my plane in Asheville.  A sweet 18 year-old girl was seated beside me.  Answer to prayer As I began chatting with her, the Lord opened the door for me to ask her the Share Jesus Without Fear questions Answer to prayer  She was so open and interested.  She didn’t receive Christ, but promised to read the tract I gave her.  I’m praying she will trust Him very soon.
When making my connecting flight in Detroit I got off the plane and found the screen that told me where my next flight would connect.  It was about three gates awayAnswer to prayer
I boarded the plane and found myself seated beside a grandmother aged womanAnswer to prayer  She seemed preoccupied in her book, but when I offered her a piece of chewing gum she starting chatting with me about how she had a hard time chewing gum…One thing led to another until I found us in a conversation about heaven.  She asked me what I believed.  I opened my New Testament and was again able to share the truths from God’s WordAnswer to prayer  She didn’t receive Christ, but the truth was given and she gladly received the Gospel tract and said she would read it.
The ladies’ event in South Bend was such a blessing. The pastor’s wife picked me up at the airport and I was taken to the home of a sweet lady who definitely has the gift of hospitality.  She was so kind – even serving me coffee in my room the afternoon I arrived.  She served it on a lovely tray with a beautiful pot and china cup.   Breakfast the next morning was  as good as any bed and breakfast I’ve ever been to – and was served in her sunroom.  Lovely!  The love of God shone brightly from this dear lady and her husband.
The church ladies were so sweet.  They were open to listen as I shared the Word of God, and were responsive afterward, many sharing that it helped them or challenged them.  Answer to prayer 
The pastor’s wife has become a dear friend in the ministry and we enjoyed good fellowship in the evening.  She has been a source of encouragement and is someone with whom I feel a “kindred spirit.”
As I made the last leg of my journey Saturday morning, I found myself seated beside a sweet lady from Florida.  Answer to prayer She seemed engrossed in a book, but because I’d prayed the Lord would open the door, I decided to test the waters by just asking her a question about her trip.  She closed her book and talked with me for nearly the whole flight!  Again, after asking questions to her, she began asking me questions about eternity.  I opened my Bible to John 3 and a wonderful conversation beganAnswer to prayer Before leaving the plane, she gave me her boarding pass with her whole name and email so that we might keep in contact…what a blessing.  I pray that she will have an assurance of heaven, and also that we might remain in conversation about the things of the Lord.
When I got to Atlanta, my heart soared as I looked at the screen and realized that my connecting flight was literally down the same hall where we had just landed!  Answer to prayer As I sat in the airport I said, “Lord, I’ll be obedient if you give me one more person to witness to on the flight to Asheville, but Lord, I sure would like to rest; I’m so tired.”  When  I got on the plane I was the only person that had an empty seat beside them!  God’s kindness  It was as though the Lord was saying, “Denise, take a rest now.”
I saw God at work at every turn of this trip and it was wonderful!  My heart is overflowing with the good things that I’ve seen Him do.  He has answered so many prayers!  How can I not take this time to brag on my faithful Heavenly Father?
Have you had a recent answer to prayer?  Tell me about it so I can rejoice with you!
With a grateful heart,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

I didn’t cook Sunday dinner yesterday because of two reasons:

  1. I had been in South Bend, Indiana over the weekend and flew home Saturday evening.  I had a menu planned, but…
  2. Our dear youth pastor’s wife called my husband while I was gone and said she was making a Mexican Lasagna for our Sunday dinner so I wouldn’t have to cook! 

Not only was that the sweetest gesture, that lasagna was also delicious!  I plan on asking her for her recipe so I can share it with you.  She also provided us with a fresh green salad and muffins.  Christy is a blessing, and a true servant.  How I thank the Lord for her kindness.  Here’s a picture (albeit a bit fuzzy) of our dinner that was provided for us.  (My camera died last week – sadness! This pic was taken on my phone.)

We were in revival meetings last week (What a blessing!), so I didn’t do a whole lot of cooking!  We were in and out with the evangelist, Morris Gleiser and and his sweet wife, Lynn, and mealtimes were a bit off the norm.  I like that, don’t you?  Every now and then we need to get out of our routine and do something different! 

On Thursday evening I had the Gleiser’s over after the service for a light meal and time of fellowship.  I served one of our favorite things – tortilla chips and bean dip.  This recipe is so good.  It’s from Cooking Light.  I do like to make one change to the recipe…I add a few more calories and fat to it by softening a 1/3 less Fat cream cheese block and spreading it in the bottom of a pie plate, then I pour the bean dip over top of it.  It is FANTASTIC!  You’ve got to try this!

Tex-Mex Black Bean Dip

1 (15-ounce) can black beans, drained

1 teaspoon vegetable oil

1/2 cup chopped onion

2 garlic cloves, minced

1/2 cup diced tomato

1/3 cup mild picante sauce

1/2 teaspoon ground cumin

1/2 teaspoon chili powder

1/4 cup (1 ounce) shredded reduced-fat Monterey Jack cheese

1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro

1 tablespoon fresh lime juice

Place beans in a bowl; partially mash until chunky. Set aside.

Heat oil in a medium nonstick skillet over medium heat. Add onion and garlic, and sauté 4 minutes or until tender. Add beans, tomato, picante sauce, cumin, and chili powder; cook 5 minutes or until thick, stirring constantly. Remove from heat; add cheese, cilantro, and lime juice, stirring well. Serve warm or at room temperature with fat-free corn or flour tortilla chips.

Last week was a very busy week, but one that was full of God’s goodness.  God is always good because He cannot act outside of His character, but there are times that we see His goodness more up front and personal, and this was one of those weeks.  I’m thankful for this outlet where I can share what He’s been doing in my life.  Check back tomorrow – I plan on sharing what He’s been up to.  I just have to brag on my God!

Now tell me, what’s been cooking in your kitchen?

With love,

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A True Southern Belle

Can you make out the caption for the picture on this truck?  It says, “I’m the New Southern Belle.”  I was sitting at a red light this week and saw this truck across the intersection.  I about choked.  She’s the new southern belle?  How pathetic.  Let me give you a closer look:
Before I go off explain my reason for disgust, let’s first define the word belle.  The dictionary describes a belle as “a woman admired for her beauty and charm.” Can we just set beauty aside for now and talk about charm?  Another word for that is grace, or gracious. Does a woman who slugs a milk jug to her lips with such gusto that she lets it run down her face really portray a charming, gracious woman?  I really don’t think so.  
There are certainly times when you and I have been hot and thirsty from exercise or heat and have devoured a glass of water or Coke…or even milk.  But this advertisement is saying, “Things have changed in our world.  A woman doesn’t have to be charming and gracious any more to be a lady.  Take a look at this woman!  She represents our world today.” 
That last phrase is sadly true. Many women are no longer gracious – they can handle what comes their way, and they’ll do it in whatever manner suits them.  I watched an elderly man and his adult daughter walking on a sidewalk recently and watched as they approached a double door.  The man (probably, due to the way things used to be when he was raised) made an effort to scurry to the door and open it for his daughter.  She reached up and opened the door on her side of the walkway, and  he walked through the door on his side and they entered the store side by side, instead of her entering before him.  A gracious woman would have hung back and allowed him to open the door for her.  My husband does that for me, and I am thankful (and try to say thank you each time he does this act of kindness).  My father also does this for me when we’re together, and I appreciate being treasured as a lady and a daughter by the men in my life.
This post isn’t to tell you not to drink from the milk jug.  I’m writing this to say, let’s be true ladies.  A gracious woman retains honor.  Proverbs 11:16  Retain it – hold on to it!  Be a lady…a True Southern Belle instead of the “New Southern Belle!”
See you in church Sunday!
With love,
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A Remedy for a Troubled Heart

Have you ever had an unsettling feeling in your heart?  Perhaps you wake in the morning and your heart is heavy; it’s bothered by something.  Sometimes you know exactly what it is that has caused the trouble there.  Perhaps you’re grieving, you’ve had a huge disappointment, heard disturbing news, or are in the midst of a physical illness.  Your heart is uneasy.  You’re not sure what to do, how to respond, or what the next step should be and your heart is troubled.  Sometimes, as women, we’re just agitated or frustrated and not even sure why.  We could blame it on hormones, and it might be, but whatever the cause for the troubled heart, we need the right cure.

In John 14:1 the disciples were anxious because Jesus had just told them about the suffering that was coming for Him.  Perhaps their faces revealed what they were feeling.  Maybe they were full of sighs and tears. Jesus comforts them by saying, Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. This is His remedy for the disciples, and for the bothersome feeling in our spirit as well.

  1. Believe in God.  Think about His attributes, His provision, His providence, His goodness, His presence.  Consider Him!
  2. Believe in Christ.  Through Christ we are brought to God.  Without our Savior there would be no hope beyond this trouble-filled life.  Believe in faith what He did for you on the cross, and walk with Him today.
  3. Remember eternity in heavenIn my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.  John 14:2,3  Remember that this is not all there is of life!  Matthew Henry says that Heaven makes amends for all! 

Look upward, Friend, and let not your heart be troubled.  Christ may return for us today!

Looking up,