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Around My House At Christmas

It’s so cold outside here. The temperature was 12 degrees when I got up yesterday morning. This was the view outside the window of our guest room…

Step inside and warm up a bit! I’ll take you around and show you my decorations; they’re simple, but I have plenty all over the house!

The living room buffet has a little embellishment…

I love this ornament too much to hang it on the tree and let it get lost in all the other ornaments.

My china cabinet dishes have been replaced with my Christmas ones.

Of course the tree is the glory of the living room! Liza thinks so too! She doesn’t offer to touch it, but she loves to sit in front of it and just look! She’s not supposed to be on the arm of that chair, but she looked so cute that I snapped her picture, then made her get down!

Here’s the little pencil tree in my kitchen. I saw this idea of the old forks and spoons on a blog I read and thought it was a cute idea for my kitchen tree.

I’m still adding little touches as the month progresses. It’s a stretched out process this year! I’ll continue the tour tomorrow.

How are you coming with your decorations? Are you finished? Have you added something new? Tell us about it!

With love,

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Wedding Cupcakes For A Great Marriage

My kitchen has been busy the last couple of months with my Kitchen Aid running lots! No, I don’t have tins full of Christmas cookies, I have a freezer full of cupcakes and buttercream icing! Our daughter didn’t want a traditional wedding cake for her reception, but opted for cupcakes instead, so I offered to make them for her.

I found a great recipe and got after it a couple months ago. Being the “do-ahead” person, I made a batch at a time and froze them in double wrapped Ziploc Bags to keep them fresh. After the cupcakes were done, I started making double batches of Buttercream icing. Those bags are also stored in the freezer waiting to be the crowning glory of the cupcakes!

I won’t ice the cakes until the day before the wedding, but this weekend I did a trial run to see how they’d look. I bought a special decorating tip to pipe on the icing. Wow! Did that tip ever help! Here’s the finished product complete with sugar crystals…

These little cakes remind me of what a great marriage is like.

1. For the Christian couple, there is a recipe to follow for your marriage to work.

  • Ephesians 5:22 – Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as unto the Lord. This isn’t an option for women – it’s a command. I must let go of my life and let my husband lead.
  • Ephesians 5:33a – Let every one of you love his wife as himself – This is every wife’s greatest need – to be loved.
  • Ephesians 5:33b – And the wife see that she reverence her husband. – This is every man’s greatest need – to be respected by his wife.
  • Philippians 2:3 – Let each esteem others better than themselves.

2. It’s our choice to keep the marriage fresh. Too many couples get married then quit dating each other. When children come along, they make them the focus so much that the marriage suffers. “Double wrapping” our marriage like I did the cupcakes means making real effort to keep communicating, spending time together, and building on the love that brought you together. Mommies are usually the one reluctant to leave their baby and go out on a date. Leave that little one with someone for an hour or two and go spend time with your husband! The baby will be fine! Your husband needs you too.

3. New tips will help your marriage. My new tip was a real help with getting the icing to be beautiful. After marriage, keep looking for Biblical helps for your marriage. Those “tips” can be found in the form of books by godly people, a couples’ retreat, or advice from a godly mentor. Keep challenging yourself. Keep learning and growing as a wife and homemaker. Having trouble keeping your house tidy? Ask someone that does that well how she does it! Can’t get a meal on the table quickly? Ask an older woman to teach you, or read books on quick cooking. We can all benefit from new tips!

4. Embellish your marriage with extra attention to detail. See those little crystal sugar sprinkles on top of the cake? That’s the part of marriage that takes it beyond having a good marriage to having a great one. It requires extra attention to – just like the cupcakes. They would taste fine without the sugar, but the embellishment makes them really special.

I am so blessed to have a husband who pours on lots of sugar (not just that kind) – the kind that lets me know that he really loves me. He brings me coffee in the morning poured into a mug he knows I’ll love. He leaves me notes on the bathroom mirror about something that just the two of us understand. He picks up the slack at home when I’m busy with life and he’ll fold a load of laundry or set the table when the meal is almost ready. He doesn’t have to do those things; our marriage would survive without all those sprinkles, but boy, it sure makes an ordinary marriage extraordinary! I am so blessed.

The point here is that we have to look for opportunities to pour it on. Buy his favorite candy bar, pick up his dry cleaning, run an errand for him even if it’s out of your way, or send him a text when he’s stressed. We have to look for ways to show our love in little ways and think of him instead of ourselves.

Recently I was at Cracker Barrel’s store and this older woman was reading their greeting cards. She saw me walking towards her and she said, “Here’s a good card! It says, ‘To my husband at Christmas, it’s not about what you give me for Christmas, it’s about what you give me all year long!’ That’s the truth and the men need to know that!” she said in a disgusted tone. I told her that I had a husband who was very thoughtful about doing little things for me all year. She looked at me like I was from Mars and then she said, “Well, you better appreciate him!” “Oh, I do!” I assured her. It’s easy to get the focus on ourselves and what our husband’s doing or not doing. Instead, we need to get out the sugar and sprinkle it on with great determination to let our love for him really show!

In today’s world, it’s rare to see a marriage that lasts longer than a batch of cupcakes. These are very simplistic analogies, but I encourage you to follow God’s recipe, keep it fresh, learn new tips, and then add the little touches that will not only help your marriage to last, but will take your marriage from average to fantastic!

Dedicated to my daughter, Whitney who will be a bride in three short days!

With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

A Christmas party for the 30’s Sunday school class my husband teaches took place in our church gymnasium Saturday evening. The meal was “potluck” – so there was a little bit of everything. We ate first, then had a family game of Cat in the Hat. This is a game that is played at The Wilds. Pretty sure that Wild is a great description of the game too! I vowed I was not going to get aggressive, but before the game was out, I had used force to remove a little 4-year old from the chair I was pursuing! Bless his little heart, but it was all a part of the game…really!

While the story of Cat in the Hat was being read by my husband, everyone was either Mother, Sally, or Fish. If your story name was read, you were to leave your chair and find an empty one more than one seat away from where you had been sitting. It looks like they were dancing, but here are a couple groups scrambling to find a chair.

There was one less chair than people. If you didn’t get a seat, you remained in the middle and got a point against your team. =( Even the little ones enjoyed it, well, all except when the adults took their chair. Ah-hm!
For our meal, I signed up to bring a casserole and opted for Enchilada Casserole. Rather than making individual enchiladas, you layer all the ingredients in a baking dish.

I topped it off with lettuce and sour cream. Delish!

I made the entire casserole the night before. I wasn’t sure if that would make the tortillas shells soggy with enchilada sauce, but it didn’t. So, here’s a great do-ahead dish!

For dessert I took a Kentucky Derby Pie. This is a Thanksgiving and Christmas tradition at our house. It’s so full of chocolate and gooey filling – all you need is a small piece. It whips up very quickly and disappears just as fast!

Here are my recipes:

Enchilada Casserole

2 lbs ground beef

1 onion, chopped

2 cans Enchilada sauce

1 can Refried Beans

Tortilla shells

4 cups Cheddar or Mexican cheese

Brown hamburger and onion. Drain fat. Stir in one third enchilada sauce. Spread another third on the bottom of a greased 9×13 pan. Place three tortillas over sauce, tearing to fit bottom of pan. Spoon half of meat mixture over tortillas; sprinkle with 1 1/2 cups cheese. Add three more tortillas. Spread refried beans over tortillas; top with remaining meat. Sprinkle with 1 1/2 cups cheese. Layer remaining tortillas; top with remaining sauce. Sprinkle with remaining cheese. Bake, uncovered at 350 degrees for 35-40 minutes. Let stand 10 minutes before cutting. Serve with sour cream, chili peppers, lettuce, and/or guacamole.

Kentucky Derby Pie

1 stick butter or margarine, melted and cooled.

3/4 cup sugar

2 eggs

1 tsp vanilla

1 cup walnuts or pecans

1 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips

Unbaked pie shell

Add sugar, eggs, and vanilla to cooled butter. Stir well. Stir in nuts and chocolate chips. Pour into unbaked pie shell. Bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes.

What’s been cooking in your kitchen? Are you baking up Christmas traditions? Tell me about it!

With love,

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Ten Years of Remembrances

This weekend marks a special event for our family. You see, ten years ago this weekend we moved from Indiana to Johnson City, Tennessee. Uprooting our family at that time wasn’t easy; we were leaving a 7 year-old church behind that my husband had started. The believers that worshipped with us there had experienced the birth pangs of this new church and we had become very close. We had endured the hard days of setting up for services in an old country church way out in the boonies where the ladybugs outnumbered us 10 to 1! There were new believers, matured saints, and freshly baptized Christians, and the future for this little church was promising – but we were leaving.

Our girls were 9 and 16. Whitney was excited about the move because it would put us closer to The Wilds – the place she loved so dearly because of its profound affect on her life. However, Allison was a typical 9 year-old who didn’t see why she had to leave “her church, friends, and bedroom.”

For me to leave the ladies with whom I’d had the joy to minister was a very typical emotional drain. We shed many tears as our ladies’ Sunday school class sat in our little corner and read and prayed together. Praise the Lord for eternity where there will be no goodbyes! Thank the Lord, too, for Facebook and cell phones so we can stay connected, even with all the busyness of our lives. We didn’t necessarily want to leave, but we knew God had a plan and we knew we could trust Him as he directed our steps.

I will never forget the Sunday afternoon we left Indiana and began to make our way to Tennessee. There were difficulties right from the start that made me question if we were doing the right thing. My husband drove the moving van and he had Whitney and one of our cats. I followed with Allison and our “Houdini” cat in our Mini van. That cat got out of her carrier before we even made it to the interstate! She was dancing her way across the dashboard, in what would have been funny at any other time, but at that time seemed a danger to our very lives! I’d cried so much as we left our church family that I had a migraine that was pounding louder than Barney’s cymbals when he played with the Mayberry Band! The moving van would stall if my husband turned it off, so we had to make progressive stops at the rest areas so that someone stayed with the moving van while its engine held on for dear life.

We made it to my parent’s home in KY that night and it was such a respite for us. They had hot chocolate and treats for our stomachs, warm beds for our weary bodies and comfort for our sagging spirits. We left their house the next morning much more encouraged, and when we arrived at our new home that afternoon, we were greeted with a house FULL of people. They had our belongings unloaded, beds set up and made in a very short time, and even left us with a pantry full of food and a hot supper for that evening’s meal. Yes, these folks were why we had come. We would minister with and to them and were happy to be here!

We had no idea what the Lord had in store. Blessings. Trials. More blessings. New believers. New church members. Peace. Joy in serving. Love from new friends and believers. A new church family. Dear friends. Opportunities to minister. We couldn’t have imagined how our hearts would become entwined with the dear people at Boones Creek. The Lord has taught me so much in these years, but as I look back , I sum it up with this –

  • God wants the best for my life.
  • Sometimes He has to bring change to make me realize how much I need Him, and to remind me that I must take my hands off my life and trust Him do what I could never imagine.
  • He provides for me in abundance; though I am so undeserving.
  • Obeying God is worth any discomfort, for it’s only temporal, and the end result is always joy.

To my Boones Creek church family, thank you for loving me and my family for these ten years. Thank you for the lovely parsonage that we’ve enjoyed making our home. Thank you for ministering to us and allowing us to serve with you. Thank you for listening when we teach, for caring when we hurt, and letting God use you to provide for us as the Philippians did for Paul. I thank my God upon every remembrance of you. Philippians 1:3 I don’t know what the Lord has in store for the future, but I know this – we can trust Him!

With much love,

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Homemade Gifts From Your Kitchen

I have a few hostess gifts to give and as I pondered what to take, my mind ran, as it usually does, to the kitchen! I love to cook and I got to thinking about ideas of things to bake for our hosts and hostesses.

I heard about these little wonders last year…

See this blog for Rolo turtle candies and the super easy recipe! I must try these! Caramel, chocolate and pretzels. As Ina Garten would say, “How bad can that be?” =)

We’ve all seen the Cookies in a Jar, but this is Brownie Pie Mix! Talk about a handy thing to receive. Pie all ready to dump and bake!

Go here for the recipe for the Brownie Pie Mix.

Little loaves of bread given “wrapped” in the little bread pan and accompanied by a cute little dish of butter would make any one’s day! If you’re not a bread baker (hello, Christy – sorry, couldn’t resist!), you could even buy the frozen loaves and bake them! It could be your secret!


This little jar holds homemade granola and would make several jars at once. It looks so yummy!

The Granola would be so unique – and even healthy, if there was someone who couldn’t eat sweets. This is sweet, but not like cookies or fudge!

I loved the presentation of this next gift. The cookies are any little snowball cookie your family makes, but then they popped them into those little candy wrappers, cut off the lid to a cardboard egg carton and made that their tray! Clever!

Here’s another simple, but very elegant gift – chocolate dipped candy canes. They rolled them in some kind of little sprinkle to embellish them even more. Wrap them in a simple white box with tissue and a red ribbon. What a lovely gift!

I think I’ve decided to make these Cream cheese Coffee Cakes for two of my gifts. I’ve made these cakes for years. The recipe makes four at a time. You make the dough the night before – so you split up the process a bit. They are as good as any coffee bread you’d get at Panera! I’m going to buy a Christmas oven mitt for each cake and slide the cake inside of it. The bread will be longer than the mitt, so it will be seen and make a nice presentation. Try this recipe! I’m telling you, it’s so good and not as hard as you’d think! You can wrap them and freeze them until they’re needed. You don’t have to give them away – you probably won’t want to! Save them for Christmas morning for your family!

Happy baking!