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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

It was very early in ministry at our first pastorate when the Lord taught me some precious lessons about trusting Him for the very smallest of details. Our little girl was about eight or nine months old. She was beginning baby foods – creating a tightness in our already limited grocery budget. We did the best we could, scrimping and cutting back to create funds for what was necessary. However, even that couldn’t keep the checking account from dropping to a meager forty-nine cents! The cupboards were virtually bare, and our baby’s cereal was almost gone. 

What were we to do? 

My husband and I didn’t want our parents to know, though we knew they would help. We didn’t want our congregation to know; they were doing the best they could to provide for us. We knew we must do only one thing – pray!  That’s exactly what we did. We prayed together. We prayed separately.  In my quiet time I was praying specifically for certain things we needed such as Kleenex, milk, and Gerber’s Oatmeal for our little one. 

One evening after being out we pulled into our car port and noticed the door to our house propped open.  As we got out of the car and neared the door, we saw that the reason the door was open was due to the sack of groceries that were stacked on our steps! Many brown paper sacks (before plastic grocery bags!) greeted our astonished faces. Our hearts overflowed as we carried them inside and began taking the items out of the sacks and placing them on the counter. Milk, Kleenex, and yes, Gerber oatmeal were a part of the abundance now before us!

We cried with joy at God’s provision for His children.  We marveled at the specific needs He met, and we learned that we could trust our God to take care of us.

I thank the Lord for those early lessons. I’ve recalled that scene many times over in my mind. It has encouraged my heart for the needs that have arisen over the years. I did not doubt that they would be met! If my Father in heaven can hear the cry of a mother’s heart for her child, He will love me and provide for me all my life! 

But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:19

With love,

P.S. I’ve had TONS of problems getting this post up. Sorry for the long paragraphs – it just wouldn’t cooperate and let me edit! I trust that the Lord will provide…even in this!
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Strip the Bed

A simple illustration was given us at Boones Creek Bible Church this past Sunday.  My husband covered a table with a sheet, asking us to think of it as a bed.  The sheet respresented our sin that we try to hide from others.  How do we hide it?  He then threw a quilt over the sheet – we cover it up.  No one knows it is there.  It’s hidden from their eyes. 
As I look at the picture of the beautiful bed pictured here, I am reminded that we may even, after we cover up our sin, throw a pretty pillow over the quilt and really dress it up – we convince ourselves that our sin isn’t so bad.  We may compare our sin to that of others and feel proud that we’re not as bad as so-and-so!  We are looking pretty good, really. Really?  He that covereth his sins shall not prosper…Proverbs 28:13a
But, down in our heart, the Holy Spirit keeps pointing His finger on that sin under the cover.  Isn’t He merciful to convict so we can get it right?  But whoso confesseth and forsaketh his sin shall find mercy. Proverbs 28:13b Shall find mercy!  What a wonderful God.  In His mercy He doesn’t give me what I deserve!  I deserve hell.  I deserve a stern rebuke, but I get His love.  I get His forgiveness…all because of His mercy.
If you were in our services perhaps you got things right.  Praise the Lord!  Are you still walking right today?  Have you kept true to the decision to uncover the sin, confess it and walk purely again?  If there’s something you’re hiding and you need to admit your guilt, remember that we have a loving God who cleanses when we confess and truly repent of it.
Strip the bed and be clean!
With love and care for you,
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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

The food I ate this weekend was heavenly manna, and it was so sweet!  I had the wonderful privilege of attending a ladies’ retreat at The Wilds Christian Camp.  Our group of eight left on Friday morning to begin our time away (three others from our church joined us at camp that evening).  Shopping and fellowship began nearly immediately!  My husband drove our church van for us, relieving us of the stress of the trip, directions in Asheville, and all the little things.  He only came because he was attending an ordination  in Brevard on Saturday, but I’m voting he join us again next year!  He was a sweet blessing. 
Our first “pit stop” was not McDonald’s!  It was a lovely place in Weaverville.  I’m thinking it’s a hidden secret!  Well-Bred Bakery not only has a lovely restroom with candles, scented soaps, flower arrangements and beautiful decor, they have a fireplace, comfy chairs, coffees, and delicious baked goods and entrees.  It was a beautiful and delicious place to make our first stop!
We moved on and enjoyed a couple of hours at the Asheville Mall, had lunch, then headed to another shopping center.  By the time we arrived at camp at 5:15, we had had a wonderful time laughing, encouraging (purchases!), and fellowshipping.  We were now ready to get our Bibles and sit under the teaching of the Word of God! 
We had the opportunity to do just that Friday evening.  Our speaker, Claudia Barba, shared three sessions with us about the incarnate life of Christ.  We saw in very familiar Bible stories,  how He dealt with people, pain and trials, .  He gave us a pattern to follow as He lived His sinless life.  It was convicting, encouraging, and eye-opening. 
One of the blessings of time at The Wilds is the “God and I” time.  It’s only 30 minutes – wished it could’ve been longer, but this is the time to get alone with the Lord.  If it’s pretty outside, I always head outdoors to have this time.  The quiet, the beauty, and God’s creation all make this a unique quiet time.  After I’d spent time in the Word and prayer I captured this little video of my spot.
I enjoyed 30 minutes of that!  If you listen carefully, you can hear the music being played over the intercom system.  That meant that our time was over, but the Lord spoke to my heart while I sat there.  It is always such a blessing that this time follows a session in the Word.  I was able to go over what had just been shared with us, and then ask the Lord to speak to me and point out other things He wanted to tell me.  What a blessing.  You will probably read here in days to come  what those things were!
They pamper you at The Wilds!  This weekend they also provided a Spa retreat!  They had a skit time that they are famous for that had our sides aching because we laughed so hard.  It is indeed good medicine.
Going to a retreat is a blessing because it provides for the fellowship that we so desperately need in our Christian walk.  My roommate and I hardly have time to say hello at church because of busy schedules, but we were able to get “caught up” on one another’s lives.  I know better how to pray for her and her family now, as well as for the other women that were with us. 
Sorry if you missed out on going!  I’m telling you, the spiritual food and fellowship was better than any Sunday dinner I would have fixed if I’d have been home to prepare it!  Getting home Saturday night and then setting our clocks ahead an hour spelled one thing for Sunday dinner – Cracker Barrel Carryout!  You cant’ beat it!  Call before you leave church (it’s in my address book in my cell phone!), pick it up on your way home, and then get your food and  walk past the million people still waiting to be seated.  Take your food home and put it on a pretty plate and make it look like it’s homemade!  Ta-da!  Dinner is served!
It was a great weekend….heavenly manna indeed!

Did you cook?  What did you fix?  Did you get to enjoy heavenly manna too?  Tell me about it!

With love,
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What’s For Dinner?

It’s 5:00 in the afternoon.  You stand in front of the open cupboard doors staring at its contents hoping some grand  idea for dinner will pop off the shelves.  Oh, and it needs to be something that can be fixed quickly – and hopefully it will also be nutritious and satisfy the growling sound coming from your own stomach.

Been there?  We all have at one time or another.  How do we avoid this mealtime dilemna?  Two words – Plan ahead.  If you’re groaning, perhaps you need to read yesterday’s post about taking the prescribed medicine.  =)  There really are no easy options.  If you’re going to eat at home, stay within your grocery budget and eat nutritiously, you must plan!

However, there are a couple of options for you if it’s just the planning that you’re struggling with.  One of my sweet readers, Tami, told me abut E-mealz.  This is a menu planning system where all the work is done for you!  You choose what kind of menu list you want.  You can choose from:

  • Gluten-free
  • Low carb
  • Low fat
  • Meals for 2
  • Vegetarian
  • Points system

They create a weekly menu for you for $5 a month!  That’s an incredible deal if you don’t like making up a menu.  They will also make up your shopping list using your choice of grocery stores.  I don’t think it could get much easier, unless you hired an in-house chef!  Check it out!

Here’s a neat blog I follow that shares her monthly menu plan.  You’re bound to find some good ideas to add to your family’s list of favorites!  There is some yummy stuff here at Mommy’s Kitchen!

Here’s another great blog where you can learn the basics of planning your family’s meals (plus tons of other great ideas!).

Lastly, here’s a site that helps you come up with a recipe using what you have on hand.  You type in the ingredients you already have, then let them know if you’re looking for a dessert, main entree’, or side dish, and it will give you recipes that have those ingredients! 

Now we have no excuses!  The next time someone asks you “What’s for supper?” you’ll have an answer!

By the way, none of these sites have paid me to promote them.  I just know help when it’s served on a dinner plate! 

See you in church Sunday!

With love,

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Take the Medicine

At a recent check-up at my doctor’s office, I was given some exercises to do for my knee that is “gimpy.”  The exercises are supposed to strengthen it and make it easier for me to go up and down steps.  Honestly, I sound like one of Cinderella’s step-sisters.  Remember the one whose knees made noises when she moved?  Yeah, it’s not pretty.  I came home and have tried to make the exercises a part of my daily routine…that is most days.  It’s not that the exercises are painful, it’s just hard to remember to do them. 

While I was in his office, my doctor told me how often he’ll give people a remedy for what is ailing them, but then they won’t follow his advice.  Of course,, then they end up having to make another visit later because they’re still suffering.  They return hoping for an easier solution to their problem.

Isn’t it easy to do the same thing in our spiritual life?  We read God’s Word about a command to obey, or something to avoid, and we know it’s the right thing, but we don’t obey.  Perhaps we went to someone for godly counsel and they gave us a guideline to follow, using God’s Word, yet it seems so painful – so hard to make a part of our routine, so we avoid practicing their advice.  We suffer the consequences because of our unwillingness to obey the directives we’ve been given.  “Just take the prescription,” we tell someone who won’t follow the doctor’s orders, but when it comes to our own spiritual ailments, we turn a deaf ear to the wise Doctor. 

There are no pills to replace physical therapy, nor are there quick fixes for a spiritual need.  Are you taking the Medicine that was given you?  Be smart – or you’ll suffer needlessly.

With love,