Not long ago, I was wanting to snap a picture on my computer’s web cam.  So, I furrowed my brow and started looking at all the apps, hunting for the web cam one.  Finally I found it, and I clicked on it.  A couple minutes passed and then suddenly, the camera was projecting my face – furrowed brow and all!  It was as frightening as seeing something crawl towards you in a dark basement!  The camera revealed my concentrating, searching expression and it was not pretty!  Once I realized the camera was on me, I “straightened up my face” and replaced the scowl with a smile!

On a recent trip to Dollywood – the area’s amusement park, it was really surprising to me how many happy moms I bumped into!  Everyone seemed to being having a ‘good day.”  That’s kind of sad to say, isn’t it?  But think about it – when you’ve been out in public how many moms with her children in tow are smiling?  How many are speaking to her offspring in sweet tones?  It’s been my experience that they are few and far between.  Most are agitated, grumpy and demanding.  Scowls are the prominent facial expression.  I’ll call it “The Mommy Look.”  When she speaks, there are a few sighs peppering the conversation to show her deep frustration with her children.

When I see a mom out in public that looks as I just described, I wonder if her disposition would change if she realized she was being watched – if she knew the “camera was on her face,” so to speak.  Would she “straighten up her face” and turn the scowl into a smile?

I understand, moms.  I’ve been down your road.  I know there are days that you wonder if you’ll ever get that child trained, if you’ll ever see them turn towards the Lord, or if they’ll ever have a compliant attitude.  At times I’d forget that the the Lord had his “camera” on me and I’d scowl at my girls.  I’d scowl at the cat.  I’d scowl at the hard days of motherhood.  How sad and how scary!

The Lord’s camera on our face isn’t to shame us, but to reveal what’s really in our heart.  Motherhood isn’t about changing our children; it’s about changing us.  Motherhood reveals what’s in our hearts.  That shouldn’t be scary – that should be a good thing, revealing a smiling face, rather than a scowl.

It starts early in the morning, before the children arise.  The first way to change your facial expression is to change your heart.  A mom on her knees before the Lord will certainly wear His image on her face through the day!  Get up, spend time in the Word and prayer.  Get a change in your behavior so that it will influence your face!  His camera is on you and He can change the look on your face when He changes your heart!

The second practical suggestion I have for moms is to ask the Lord to help you be aware of your facial expression and tone of voice.  Think about what your face looks like when you’re correcting or instructing.  Is it necessary to knit your eyebrows together?  How is your tone when you’re asking your son to do a task?  Make it sweet; that’s how the Lord calls to us, isn’t it?

So, careful – there’s a camera on you today.  Take a peek into your heart and see if you  need to change the look on your face!

How do you ensure that you have time with the Lord each day in the midst of being a busy mom?

With love,

A Peek Into My life this week

My husband was gone for a few days last week, so I took that time to putter in my house, changing this, and updating that.  I don’t do it while he’s away because he would mind if he were here, it’s just that I seem to have more time to do that sort of thing when he’s gone!  I like to spruce things up and let him come home to a special look in our home!  Let me give you a peek at what I did:

One thing I love about having a fireplace is having a mantle!  It’s so much fun to change it out, and I do that  frequently. Why? Because it begs for it!  I had a Fourth of July mantle recently, and once a holiday is over, I’m ready to replace it with a more relevant theme.  Since it’s summer and growing season, I went with a flower, tree, seed, bird kind of theme.

I have so much fun drawing on my chalkboard as seen here, here, and here.  These are not all of the drawings I’ve done, but just some I’ve posted.  I got an adorable card for our anniversary and loved the picture on it, so I used it as my inspiration for the drawing on my chalkboard.  Here’s a close-up:

Then another little change I made was to add some texture and print to my bookcase.  I did that simply by placing sheets of scrapbooking paper at the back of the cabinet.  I was surprised how much it added!

Here’s a contrast shot of the before and after:

You could use wallpaper, or you could paint the back wall of the cabinet for a striking addition. You could do this to a china cabinet, book shelf or even a  cabinet that has glass doors.  I’m loving it.  It was easy and inexpensive and makes a huge difference to me.

Does anyone else change things around while their husband is away?

With love from my country porch,

Thirst sent me to the fridge to grab a carbonated beverage as we headed out for the evening church service.  That carbonation quenched the parched feeling in my mouth and was refreshing me until…the car lurched forward like a frog jumping at a fly.  The liquid that was just trickling into my mouth also lurched – right into the back of my throat, causing me to swallow it in such a way that coughing and sputtering followed for hours afterwards!  It just didn’t go down the right way and made me choke!

Later in the evening something else made me choke!  I was looking at some posts on Instagram.  Someone I follow said they got so inspired when they read this post by Joel Osteen:

I’m sorry, but I wrote that quote with the crossed out application, because I wouldn’t want anyone to think that I’m endorsing what he said!!!!!!!!!!!!!  How sweet all that sounds. How “syrupy.” Our flesh loves that kind of talk, but hold on a minute!  If you could read that and swallow those words without “choking,” can I sweetly say, you need to check that against the Scriptures!  Where do you read in the Bible that you should celebrate yourself?  Where are we commanded to give ourselves a compliment? Or where are we told to keep ourselves encouraged (other than encouraging ourselves in the Lord)?  Let’s help this go down much easier by weighing this against the Word of God.  It says:

Happy Monday!  I trust you had a wonderful weekend.  Mine was a blessing!  Details later.  Let’s move on to food, shall we?  

I am always reminding myself  and others that Sunday dinner at home is possible and it doesn’t have to be stressful!  I made a Sunday dinner where the meat – a Pork Tenderloin was cooked completely before I left for church.  Then all I had to do was warm it up when we got home. Talk about easy! 

I also finally found a freezer biscuit that can be made ahead of time and frozen, then popped into the oven in a frozen state. How great that is for a Sunday dinner!   

To make the Hot Crash Potatoes really easy for Sunday, I boiled them before church and set them in a bowl, then finished them off while the biscuits were in the oven.  Another really easy step for Sunday dinner!

Found the recipe for the biscuits Here.

Ingredients
2 cups all purpose flour
4 tsp, baking powder
1/2 tsp cream of tartar
1/4 tsp salt
1/2 cup vegetable shortening
2 tbl. sugar
2/3 cup milk
1 egg (beaten)

Directions
1 Mix together flour, baking powder, cream of tartar, sugar, & salt.
2 Cut in shortening.
3 Beat milk & egg together & add to mixture.
4 Knead for a short time, just until dough form a good ball. Probably about 8 or 9 times. Not much!
5 Roll out dough and cut biscuits.
6 Freeze on a cookie sheet then remove and store in a
freezer bag. Keep frozen until needed.
7 DO NOT THAW BEFORE BAKING.
8 Remove required number of biscuits from freezer & bake in oven at 425° for about 20 minutes or until done.

I LOVE my first cup of coffee in the morning.  Just thinking about it helps motivate me to get up!  Steaming, hot, bubbly.  It’s de-lish!!  I’ve never been a fan of a glass of coffee with big ol’ ice cubes floating around in it like life preservers in the backyard pool.  Bleeech!

However, on one recent sweltering day, I had had my usual one cup of coffee, but needed a pick-me-up.  So, I filled a glass with crushed ice.  Then I added the amount of flavored (Peppermint Mocha) cream that I would add to a normal cup.  I also added a little less than a tablespoon of chocolate sauce beore adding the coffee.  I stirred it to combine the flavors and was blown away with the way this stuff tasted!  It was every bit as good as any iced drink I’ve tried at Starbucks!  No special ingredients – just leftover coffee and my normal cream.  You don’t have to add the chocolate sauce, but if you want it to be like a little treat or dessert, you really should!  The glass full of crushed ice really made it refreshing.

If you need a little something to refresh you this afternoon and you still have some of this morning’s coffee in the pot, make yourself a Crushed Iced Coffee!  You’ll have enough caffeine to freshen up your Friday and get you through the day!

What kind of iced drink do you enjoy?  Do you make it at home?

Be refreshed,