Family life

A Peek Inside the Parsonage

Books were a very integral part of my growing up years, therefore, when I became a mother, I wanted my children to also have a love of good books.  I began reading to my girls very early in their lives – as a matter of fact, I read to them before they were born! 

When they were infants, I would hold my girls in my lap, a book in front of them, and read the story while letting them see the pictures.  Hence, both of my daughters have grown up with a love for reading.  We read at playtime, after supper, before bedtime, and often several times in-between!

There is one book that we read for many years and was always associated with Thanksgiving; it was,  Amy’s Goose, written by Efner Tudor Holmes and illustrated by the infamous illustrator, Tasha Tudor.   It is the story about a flock of geese that come each fall to the same farm as they are headed south for the winter. The little girl, Amy, that lives there, has come to consider these geese as “her geese.”  She could hardly wait for their return each year.

“Dinner seemed to Amy to be taking unusually long.  Ordinarily she loved sitting there in the dining room with all three of them together, and the candles casting soft shadows on the warm wood-paneled walls.  The room smelled of freshly baked apple and pumpkin pies.  But Amy’s thoughts were with the geese out on the moonlit lake.  Her geese, she thought.  They had remembered, and had come back to her again!”

This little girl finds that one goose is sick and nurses it back to health, then struggles to decide whether to keep it on the farm or let it be free.  It is a sweet story of love and surrender.

I can’t resist each Thanksgiving of getting out our copy of Amy’s Goose and setting it on the coffee table. It speaks as loudly of family time for the Cunningham’s as Tom Turkey in the middle of the dining room table does for others.   As we sat together in those early years to pour over the pictures and words of our books, we were also pouring into one another’s lives, and it knit our hearts together in a way that no other form of media really could. 

Though the story tells of love and surrender, when I see Amy’s Goose, I think of love and togetherness, because that’s what that book and many, many others created in our parsonage home.

Do you have memories of reading in your childhood years? What are some of your favorites?

From inside the parsonage,

Christian Life

Every Moment is a Gift

Take a deep breath.  I’m serious. Inhale.  That is a blessing!  Swallow.  That is a blessing.  Did you eat today?  Another blessing.  Do you have sight, smell, the ability to walk, work, and laugh?  All blessings.  I’ve experienced them all today, and I’ve learned that they really aren’t so little.  What if they were all taken away tomorrow?  We would have wished we had been more thankful – that we had taken time to tell the Lord how grateful we were for the ability to live a somewhat “normal” life. 

After watching one of our dear church families lose all of this on Sunday after a meal, as a result of getting choked on a piece of meat, it’s been very real to me that we have so much to be thankful for every single day. The people with whom we live, those that we love, can be taken from us in a matter of minutes.  Do we verbalize our appreciation for them? Or do we only talk about the frustrations they bring?  If we knew they’d be gone, or even changed forever in the next hour, how would we live differently right now?

I don’t mean to sound so sober, but you know, when you watch someone else face death, it makes life sober indeed.  I have been thinking a great deal about the Lord’s many undeserved blessings in my life.  I thank Him for my own salvation, for the godly parents that brought me up with a knowledge of God, for my sweet sisters, who not only shared my home, but my heart.  I have a husband that loves me, daughters that are such a blessing to me, a church family that others covet, and you dear readers of this blog!  I won’t enumerate here in this post all the other things for which I’m grateful, but I will mention them to the Giver while on my knees in prayer.  I am so very blessed!

Oh, may I not grow apathetic and ungrateful for the smallest of blessings that all come from my great God’s hands. This moment is a gift…and this one…and this one. Have you told Him thank you?

With a grateful heart,

main dish

What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

After a church service on Sunday, what’s better than coming home to the smell of dinner in the oven?  Not much! I’m only going to share one recipe today (due to a very busy day yesterday), but this is a real “go-to” dish.  The reason is that there are a minimal amount of ingredients necessary, they’re very common items, and it’s super good, yet, it tastes like a fussy kind of recipe!

 Delmonico Deviled Chicken



This picture doesn’t do the chicken justice.  My cameral died and I don’t do very well using my husband’s fancy camera!  ~sigh~
The chicken was golden and crispy…pure yumminess!

2-1/2 to 3 lbs chicken, in quarters – you could also use thighs and breasts, as pictured above
4 T butter, softened
1 T prepared mustard
1 T vinegar
1/2 t salt
1/4 t cayenne, or to taste (I use about 1/8)
1 C bread crumbs (I like to use Panko bread crumbs, found with the Japanese food)

Wash chicken and pat dry with paper towels.  Preheat the oven to 375 degrees.  Place chicken in shallow roasting pan.  Mix all ingredients, except bread crumbs – will be like a thick paste.  Rub mixture on topside of chicken.  Sprinkle with bread crumbs.  Bake 45-60 minutes, or until juices run clear.

To prepare this on Sunday, I use bone-in chicken and baked it at 300 degrees, covered.

Please give this a try…it’s so simple and delicious!  I served this with roasted potatoes drizzled with olive oil and fresh rosemary, and peas.  The chicken turned a simple supper into something a little more special!

What’s been cooking in your kitchen?

From my parsonage kitchen,

Refreshment

Freshen Up Friday

Take time to play!

There’s just something plain ol’ fun about playing games.  It takes your mind off the stress you dealt with today and allows you to laugh and enjoy someone else’s company (unless they skunk you, of course! Just kidding!).  As pictured here, I often leave my Scrabble tiles out on the coffee table in the living room (see the bowl to the left with the rest of the tiles?). They’re not just for decoration, but also so we can play a quick game of “Take Two”.  It’s the fast version of Scrabble that’s played without a game board.

Each player takes 7 tiles and proceeds to use them all up making intersecting words on the table in front of them.  The first person who uses up their seven tiles says, “Take two!” and each player adds two more tiles with which they must incorporate into their crossword.  You can reconfigure as needed.  Contractions and proper nouns are allowed in this version, making it easier to be successful coming up with words with your limited resource.  When all the tiles are used, everyone reads the words they’ve created, points are counted and a winner is declared!

Another fun thing to do is leave a jigsaw puzzle out on a table somewhere.  This is fun to do on Thanksgiving.  People can just stop and work on it for a while.  If you leave one out for several days, it’s fun to just stop for a little bit and de-stress yourself by spending time putting a few pieces in.

So, take time to play and see how it refreshes you!

See you in church Sunday!

Be refreshed,

temptation

Take the Next Exit!

Interstate travel is a very popular route for people who don’t want to travel the backroads and be slowed down by small towns and stop lights.  However, it can be tricky to watch the signs that enable you to take the correct exit so you will actually get to your destination, rather than “timbuktu”.

There have been times that I’ve been driving on the interstate, then realized, with a sinking heart and a backward point of my finger that the exit we just passed was the one I was supposed to have taken. After a long speech from Nigel, (the voice on my GPS) who repeats over and over that I need to “make a U-turn”, I finally find myself turned around and headed to the place I should have been much earlier.  It’s a frustrating situation, to say the least!

But you know, there is another experience of missing to take an exit that’s not only frustrating, it’s downright dangerous!  Proverbs 16:;17 says,

The highway of the upright is to depart from evil.
Here’s my paraphrase of that verse –
If you’re traveling life’s highway and you encounter evil, take the next exit!
Evil is usually in the form of temptation first.  This verse is a reminder that a godly person won’t keep cruising along with evil lurking – they get away from it!  They know that they must get off the interstate of temptation and make a fast exit! 
One way to do that is to simply get away from whatever is tempting you.  Be like Joseph who ran out of the room where Potiphar’s wife was tempting him.  He ran so fast he didn’t even bother gathering his coat!
Another way to do that is to set up hedges of protection so that you will avoid the temptation that could be lurking.  Think ahead of time of what you must avoid.  For instance:
  • I will never be alone with a man, other than my husband.  This will include being alone in a room, a car, office, or home.
  • If I send an email, Facebook message or text to a man, I will include my husband’s address as well so that it is not a private message.
The list could go on, of course; those are just a couple of examples.  The reason we would set up hedges like these is to avoid temptation.  You may say, “Oh, that’s silly!  It’s only so-and-so!  I would never fall for a sin like that!”  That’s when we are most at danger.  I Corinthians 10:12 – Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall.
After these previous precautions are taken, we must be on the alert for evil that could present itself when we’re unprepared.  On the recent broadcasts of Revive our Hearts this week, the guest, Julie Peterson, said that a male friend of hers gave her a two-second hug that sent off an explosion of emotions inside her.  Rather than fleeing, she allowed the feelings to continue, allowed the contact with this man to increase, and soon found herself in an adulterous relationship.  If she would have “taken the next exit” and removed herself from him and the temptation, she wouldn’t have the regrets she has today.  We must be on the alert, then distance ourselves, if we are to remain on the highway of the upright.

Have you set up hedges that will protect you from potentially sinful situations?  Will you be wise and flee temptation when it is at your door?  Don’t be foolish and think you can play with sin.  Instead, remain upright and take the next exit!

With love,