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How To Be Invited Back Over

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In a week you’ll be nearly all packed and ready to head to the family Christmas gathering, but will the family Christmas gathering be ready for you? What I mean is, does your family entering the doors make everyone hold their breath?

You might adore your “rambunctious children,” and make light of their rowdiness, but when they go tearing through Aunt Linda’s house, oblivious to her belongings, to other’s privacy or the work she spent getting the house just right for the gathering, your presence might not create the delightful day for her that it is to you.

The truth is, holiday gatherings can cause friction, and often it’s caused by guests that aren’t as gracious as they could be. As you prepare to head over to someone else’s home – whether they’re relatives or friends, could I encourage you to consider others as you head into their home? Here are a few tips about being a gracious guest that we ALL need to heed:

  1. Arrive on time. Don’t get there after the meal has been served or everyone is seated. Be a little early – ten minutes is good.
  2. Be prepared to help. See what needs to be done with the meal or clean up and lend a hand.
  3. Be appreciative. Let your hosts know how thankful you are for them opening their home – even if it’s your mom and “she always hosts us for holidays!” When it’s your turn, you’ll know what a hero she really is!
  4. Take a hostess gift. Suggestions are here on this post.
  5. Talk to your children before you go. Give them restrictions about what rooms are off limits, as well as what kind of behavior is acceptable. We know you love your child, but be nice and train your child so others will love him too!  =)
  6. Don’t stay too long. Know when things are winding down (that’s before children are crabby and doors are slammed!) and make a gracious exit. Before leaving, have your children clean up any messes they made in their play areas. There’s nothing like finding your child’s room torn apart after guests are gone!
  7. Send a thank you note to your hostess. Swift gratitude is the sweetest. I recently had to apologize for an overdue note! Shame on me!

A little thinking and planning ahead, along with instructing your children will make your family gathering a happy time for both you and your host. And they won’t think twice about inviting you back!

What suggestions do you have for being a gracious guest?

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Rapture

Are You Ready?

Tornado.  Twister.  Funnel cloud.  They all mean one thing – immense destruction, and perhaps death.  In April of 2011, tornadoes twirled their way through the US like cotton candy in the making.  There was much devastation even in our area of the country; an area that really doesn’t often have these kinds of storms.  Many lives were taken, homes were flattened, and communities were drawn together in an effort to recover what was taken away in just minutes of the tornadoes wrath. 

I don’t believe those well-dressed newsmen who give polished reports of tomorrow’s forecast were really taken too seriously – until the tornadoes of 2011 struck our area last year.  Now folks take heed when they hear the words Tornado watch or warning in the middle of the weather report.  That truth was very evident just last Friday.  The weather forecast on The Weather Channel said that “tornadoes were likely in the evening.”  It didn’t just say we might have severe storms.  No, they said tornadoes are coming.  It was as though as sure as we were going to have rain, a tornado would also be coming our way.  Folks didn’t yawn at this forecast.  Schools were dismissed early – even before the storms approached.  People were taking measures to make sure they’d be in a place that was safe. The news reporters were giving advice about how to be prepared – even advising that if you went to the basement to be sure to wear your shoes.  This was in case your home was leveled you wouldn’t be barefoot walking on broken glass.   No one was going to mess around and get caught unawares this time!

I couldn’t help but compare these storm warnings to the Lord’s return – His Rapture that is imminent.  We’ve all heard about it, perhaps for years.  It’s been in the forecast of our preacher’s sermons, the evangelists warnings, in message of best selling books, and in the youth director’s pleas – and we yawn.  All we see is a little rain cloud.  “Sure, sure.  They all say Christ will return, but it won’t happen while I’m living…if it happens at all.”  We may even snore because we’re so soundly sleeping in our Christian life. 

We’re not only nodding off to the warning, we’re asleep to what we should be doing while we wait.

  • Just as my mother-in-law’s neighbors came knocking on her door to invite her to the safety of their home, we should be seeking those that will be left here when Christ returns.  We need to invite the unsaved to the safety that only a relationship with Christ will bring!
  • We should be serving faithfully so that when we stand at the Judgement Seat of Christ, we will hear Him say, “Well done, thou good and faithful servant!”
  • We should be in church.  Hebrews 10:25 Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching. “The Day” is the Day of Christ’s return!  We’re supposed to be in church anyway, but as His return is nearer today than yesterday, we should gather “so much the more!”  We need each other.  We need  the encouragement!  If you knew Christ was coming this week, would you regret that you missed being in His house this last Sunday night just because you had something else on your agenda? 

Thankfully this year’s storms in East Tennessee will be taken seriously by its residents, and that fact alone will save lives.  However, when the Lord returns, there will be no “next time” to take God seriously.   The moment when the shout is made, the voice calls, and the trump sounds will be the end of this life and the beginning of eternity.  It will be the end of the warning, and for many it will then be too late.  Do you see the warning button flashing on the screen?  Make things right today…while there is still time.     Why do you doubt?  He is a God that does not lie.

For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep.
For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first:
Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air:
and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
I Thessalonians 4:14-18

With love,