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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

Old friends are wonderful guests with whom to share Sunday dinner!  We were privileged to have former church members/ dear friends here for the morning service yesterday.  What sweet fellowship we’ve had with this couple in the past years.  It was wonderful to have them at church, and then at our dinner table! Their sweet little 9-month old was in our home for the first time, and we loved having her sweet smile at our table!  We also invited a dear couple who have had us in their home many times.  My spread was nothing like she has put out!

My menu was:
Mashed Potatoes
Green beans
Angel Biscuits
Coconut Cream Pie

There are no new recipes here – it was basic Sunday fare.  I used what I had in my freezer and cupboards for the most part, because I had been out of town most of last week and wanted to simplify things. Having guests over isn’t about the complexity of the menu or recipes, it’s about sharing what you have with others and making them know you were glad to do so!
Ever just “get hungry” for something?  I decided on coconut cream pie for our dessert, because it had been a year since I’d made one, and it sounded yummy!  My recipe came from my old cookbook and is very easy to put together.
Coconut Cream Pie
3/4 C sugar
3 T Corn starch
1/4 tsp salt
2 cups milk
3 slightly beaten egg yolks
2 Tbl butter
1 tsp vanilla
1 cup coconut
1 9-inch baked pastry shell
Meringue (3 egg whites)

In saucepan, combine sugar, cornstarch, and salt; gradually stir in milk.  Cook and stir over medium high heat till bubbly.  Cook and stir 2 minutes.  Remove from heat.  Stir a moderate amount of hot mixture into yolks; immediately return to hot mixture; cook 2 minutes, stirring constantly.  Remove from heat.  Add butter and vanilla. Stir in coconut.  Pour into cooled baked pastry shell.  Spread meringue on top of pie and bake at 350 degrees for 12 to 15 minutes.  Cool.

 Since Sunday was The first day of spring, I pulled out my spring linens and table decor. In the words of my daughter, they just make me happy!

Thank you, Lord for dear friends and for allowing us to fellowship with them; to share our simple meal together.  Thank you for the bond that we share that enables us to open our hearts so easily to bear their burdens, and share our own with them.  

Thank you for the provisions to feed not only our family, but also open our home to others.  It’s a blessing, and I am so grateful for your abundance.

Thank you for spring and the newness it brings to our earth, and to our hearts.  It reminds us of our new life in Christ and how He came and made the old things new.  How I love you, Lord.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen
What was cooking in your kitchen this weekend?  Did you have guests?  Tell me about your time of fellowship!
With love,   
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Save Money With Coupons

Save money!  We’re all trying to do just that these days, aren’t we?  One of my readers asked me to share couponing tips and strategies.  I’m no pro at this, but I have learned my way around the coupon world to an extent, and have really seen a decrease in my grocery bill as a result.  Here are the few tips that I could give:

  1. Buy a Sunday paper.  I don’t mean the little local paper – I mean the big-city one that carries LOTS of coupons.  We buy a Knoxville paper on our way to church each Sunday.  If you don’t get it early, you’ll miss out!  It’s worth the $2!
  2. Use your .50 and less coupons at a store that will double their value.  Ingles and Krogers will both do just that. I wait until the items are on sale too, then I really get the value from the coupon.
  3. Use sites like Southern Savers or Money Saving Mom to simplify your shopping and coupon use.  These sites will tell you what’s on sale at each local grocery store and will also let you know if there’s a coupon that goes with that item.  They are a huge blessing!  You can even make up a grocery shopping list for each store where you shop.  It will include the price of the items, and the coupon needed (if necessary), then will tell you the final cost!
  4. You can even check the site above on Saturday night to see what coupons are in the Sunday paper.  If you see there will be some really good coupons, you’ll know to buy more than one paper.  I have kind friends that don’t coupon that share their coupon booklets with me.  Ask around; someone might be throwing the coupons you could use in the trash!
  5. Cut out the coupons out and get them organized weekly.  I have found the best way to store them is in baseball card protectors that I’ve placed in a three-ring binder.  I put labels on the pages so I can quickly find “baking items” or “dairy products”. I get stopped in the grocery store all the time when people see my binder on my grocery cart.  It’s so much easier than the accordion folders!  They stay all bunched up and you have to flip through them all when they’re in one of those folders.  The baseball card sleeves allow you to see the whole page of coupons at a glance.

I think that hits the highlights of getting the most out of your coupons.  If this has created a question, please leave a comment and I’ll answer it for you.  Happy shopping!

See you in church Sunday!

With love,

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Who’s Driving?

A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps.
Proverbs 16:9
When I read that verse yesterday a picture popped into my mind of a child in a car. ”Daddy, Daddy!  Can I drive?” the child asks their father.  The dad takes the child into his lap and allows them to steer the car around the parking lot at church while he is in control of the accelerator, brakes and gears.  They’re sure they are the ones doing the driving as they cheerfully wave to their friends passing by in the safety of the back seat of their own car.  Is the child really driving?  Of course not.  Their father is the one really in control.
Isn’t it easy to come up with a plan – to devise our way, as the Proverb says?  We think we have it all taken care of as we putter down life’s road.  Then suddenly things stop due to illness, death, trouble in our marriage or some other trial and we realize that we weren’t in control after all.  It was our Father who put the brakes on or suddenly changed gears.  How could He?  Was that cruel?  Think back to the illustration of the father and child in the car.  Is it cruel for the father to apply the brakes, put the car in a lower gear, or cause the car to turn?  No.  He saw something ahead that made him take those actions.  Our Heavenly Father also sees ahead and knows what is going on before we do.  He wisely directs our steps in a way that we may not understand, but must fully trust. 

If an earthly father loves his child, we must remember that God’s love for us is even greater.  We can trust Him with our lives.  Has your life stopped suddenly?  Realize that you are not in control after all – He is.  Feel the security of sitting in His lap and His arms around you gripping the steering wheel of your life.  He is a good God with good planned for you.  Trust Him and be thankful that He’s the One that’s really driving!

With love,

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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

It was very early in ministry at our first pastorate when the Lord taught me some precious lessons about trusting Him for the very smallest of details. Our little girl was about eight or nine months old. She was beginning baby foods – creating a tightness in our already limited grocery budget. We did the best we could, scrimping and cutting back to create funds for what was necessary. However, even that couldn’t keep the checking account from dropping to a meager forty-nine cents! The cupboards were virtually bare, and our baby’s cereal was almost gone. 

What were we to do? 

My husband and I didn’t want our parents to know, though we knew they would help. We didn’t want our congregation to know; they were doing the best they could to provide for us. We knew we must do only one thing – pray!  That’s exactly what we did. We prayed together. We prayed separately.  In my quiet time I was praying specifically for certain things we needed such as Kleenex, milk, and Gerber’s Oatmeal for our little one. 

One evening after being out we pulled into our car port and noticed the door to our house propped open.  As we got out of the car and neared the door, we saw that the reason the door was open was due to the sack of groceries that were stacked on our steps! Many brown paper sacks (before plastic grocery bags!) greeted our astonished faces. Our hearts overflowed as we carried them inside and began taking the items out of the sacks and placing them on the counter. Milk, Kleenex, and yes, Gerber oatmeal were a part of the abundance now before us!

We cried with joy at God’s provision for His children.  We marveled at the specific needs He met, and we learned that we could trust our God to take care of us.

I thank the Lord for those early lessons. I’ve recalled that scene many times over in my mind. It has encouraged my heart for the needs that have arisen over the years. I did not doubt that they would be met! If my Father in heaven can hear the cry of a mother’s heart for her child, He will love me and provide for me all my life! 

But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:19

With love,

P.S. I’ve had TONS of problems getting this post up. Sorry for the long paragraphs – it just wouldn’t cooperate and let me edit! I trust that the Lord will provide…even in this!
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Strip the Bed

A simple illustration was given us at Boones Creek Bible Church this past Sunday.  My husband covered a table with a sheet, asking us to think of it as a bed.  The sheet respresented our sin that we try to hide from others.  How do we hide it?  He then threw a quilt over the sheet – we cover it up.  No one knows it is there.  It’s hidden from their eyes. 
As I look at the picture of the beautiful bed pictured here, I am reminded that we may even, after we cover up our sin, throw a pretty pillow over the quilt and really dress it up – we convince ourselves that our sin isn’t so bad.  We may compare our sin to that of others and feel proud that we’re not as bad as so-and-so!  We are looking pretty good, really. Really?  He that covereth his sins shall not prosper…Proverbs 28:13a
But, down in our heart, the Holy Spirit keeps pointing His finger on that sin under the cover.  Isn’t He merciful to convict so we can get it right?  But whoso confesseth and forsaketh his sin shall find mercy. Proverbs 28:13b Shall find mercy!  What a wonderful God.  In His mercy He doesn’t give me what I deserve!  I deserve hell.  I deserve a stern rebuke, but I get His love.  I get His forgiveness…all because of His mercy.
If you were in our services perhaps you got things right.  Praise the Lord!  Are you still walking right today?  Have you kept true to the decision to uncover the sin, confess it and walk purely again?  If there’s something you’re hiding and you need to admit your guilt, remember that we have a loving God who cleanses when we confess and truly repent of it.
Strip the bed and be clean!
With love and care for you,