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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

I’m cutting off a hunk of my heart and holding it out to you, my blog readers today.

I took a BUNCH of pictures last weekend on our anniversary get-away, but the one posted here is my favorite. This picture is personal, private and so very dear to me; that’s why I say I’m giving you a piece of my heart. This is a picture into my very personal world. I really can’t look at this photo without choking up. Let me set it up for you.

It was our anniversary day – last Thursday, June 20th. My husband took me to Whitestone Inn in Kingston, TN. It is a beautiful place owned by Christians who want to provide a safe haven for couples to come and renew and rest together. On their property are many buildings – one of them being a beautiful chapel.

After checking in, we took a walk around the property and found ourselves outside the front doors of the chapel. “Let’s see if it’s open,” my husband suggested. It was! We slipped inside, all the while “ooing” and “ahhhing” over its beauty and the scenery from its windows. My husband walked up the aisle to the front and called me to meet him. When I did, he held his hands out to me and began to sing the song that we sang to each other at our wedding – “Whither thou goest, I will go, wherever thou lodgest, I will lodge, thy people shall be my people, my Love; whither thou goest I will go.” I tried to join him, while wiping the tears that were pouring down my face.

As we looked into one another’s eyes as we sang, I thought about all the “places” our love has taken us. Oh, yes, it’s taken us to many cities, states,and countries, but even more than that, it’s taken us through valleys of discouragement, mountains of triumph, through tunnels of hard trials, and rain forests of wonder. We could have never imagined it all on the day we said, “I do.” But the wonderful thing is that, while we were singing it, we were acknowledging that it’s been worth it all, and that we’d each do it all over again.

When our song was finished, my husband took my hand and proceeded to kneel down at the altar. He began to pray. In his prayer, he detailed our married lives, the happenings – both good and bad, and thanked the Lord for the passage of each decade, and for His grace and blessings that have led the way. There were moments of laughter in his prayer as he recounted funny things the girls had done, or an event that we’ll never forget. There were tears as he prayed about the difficulties and how they made us depend on our Savior more. While he was praying, I knew I’d never forget this time at the altar, but then, realizing that I had my camera in my hand, I set it on the timer, set the camera on the floor in front of us, and snapped a picture, so I’d always have this moment captured on film.

The verse on the picture is

Psalm 127:1 – 
Unless the Lord build the house, they labor in vain that build it.

How thankful I am for a godly husband who leads me spiritually, who has such a thoughtful, sentimental heart, and who realizes that if we’re to make our marriage continue to be one that will put God on display, it will only happen when we’re both on our knees. It would all be vain. And while that was the sweetest anniversary day imaginable, today I must be on my knees, and then tomorrow I must bow before the Lord, and the next and the next, and the next.

Prayer is the only thing that will allow your marriage to survive, too. Have you prayed for it today?  

Here is a great tool to help you do just that!

From my parsonage windows,

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Freshen Up Friday


This is an exciting time – my husband and I are in the process of looking at homes so that we can purchase one! As I’ve walked through kitchens I’ve been amazed at the DIRTY OVENS! I’m beginning to think this saying I read is true:

Old joke: Oven’s dirty. Time to move.

Are you up to doing something that takes bravery? I thought so. Today, go to your oven, turn the light on, then open the door. Stick your head in there and take a look. If you want to scream instead of sigh or blush instead of bake, why not do something about it today?

I’m amazed at how many people have a self-cleaning feature on their oven, but don’t use it! Really? Why not? Okay, it gets really hot, but it’s an oven; it was made to get hot. I don’t leave the house when mine is cleaning, but nothing has ever happened as a result of the heat, except turn my splattered, messy oven into a shiny, clean cooking place! I like to turn mine on at night during the summer months so it won’t make the kitchen too hot on an already warm day. So, if you have a self-cleaning oven, turn it on, dust off your hands, and go do something fun!

If you don’t have that feature on your oven, (and I have another small oven in my kitchen that does not), here’s my favorite way to clean it out.

  • Grab a Brillo pad, a pair of rubber gloves and some damp paper towels.  
  • Remove the racks from you oven and put them in the sink for later.
  • Get the Brillo a little wet, then start scrubbing the inside of the oven. Occasionally wipe it off with the paper towels so you can see the places you’ve missed. Keep going until you’ve got it all cleaned out.
  • Wipe the whole inside down with a wet paper towel.
  • Go to the sink and, using a Brillo pad again, scrub each rack until it shines. Rinse with the spray nozzle. Replace racks in oven.
Now, stand back and smile at your oven that is clean, shiny and ready to let a prospective home-buyer peek into! =)

Be refreshed,

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Sufficient Evil

Your keys were lost. The doctor’s office didn’t call back like they said they would. Your child fell off their bike and required stitches. Your date plans with your husband got rearranged due to the babysitter getting the flu. The bank called; there’s a question about your account.
Why do all these difficult things happen to us?

Matthew 6:34 
Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. 
Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.

What this verse is saying is that the Lord gives us enough trouble (evil) for each day to drive us to Himself. We would be happily going our own way each day if it weren’t for a little bit (sometimes a whole bunch) of trouble or difficulty. But when things happen, such as in the first paragraph of this post, it makes our heart cry upward, “Oh, Lord, I need your help right now!” Or, “Lord, give me wisdom about what to do!” The wonderful promise here is that with the “sufficient evil” comes “sufficient grace!”

So when all those little irritants happen to you today, stop and consider the fact that your loving God sent them as a little nudge so that you might turn your eyes upwards towards Him. Then thank Him for the grace to see you through!

With love,

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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

Tomorrow is a special day for the two of us living in the parsonage – we will celebrate our 32nd anniversary! Whew! When I was first married and thought about being married beyond 20 years, I was sure by then we’d be rolled into the restaurant in wheel chairs! We’re not there yet, thank the Lord, but thirty-two years does bring with it lots of memories, forgiving, praying, committing, fun times, hard times, and trusting times.

Our older daughter is married and our younger daughter is engaged, and I’m thankful for God’s provision for them. I pray that by watching us they would have seen these qualities; for this is how I would advise them to live out their married years:


How blessed I am to be married to a great guy who is my friend, my pastor, my companion, soul mate and so much more! I pray that if you are married, you, too, are enjoying all that God has intended for your marriage!

What else would you add to my list?

Enjoying married bliss from the parsonage windows,