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Keep The Fun!

I have a reputation.  It’s not good.  Are you ready? I have been pulling little pranks on my family for years – especially on April Fool’s Day.  Yep.  I lie.  I trick.  I cause innocent people to be startled.  I have no reason other than …it’s fun!

This little rubberband around the spray nozzle was the cause of the wet shirt on my husband.  =)

I take that back – there is another reason, and that is  to keep the fun in every day family life.  We are so serious about raising our children.  We are serious about doing right.  We are serious about walking with God.  We are serious about discipline and homeschool and music lessons and budgeting and housekeeping and laundry and teaching manners and a million other things that fill our hearts.  There has to be an intentional ingredient added – and that is FUN.   It’s the kind that makes you belly laugh until your sides ache.  

Proverbs 17:22 –  
A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.

Times of family fun are indeed good medicine.  Tell a silly joke.  Play a game.  Tell stories about hilarious moments.  Watch a funny movie.  Don’t let your bones (or your face) dry up!  Laugh!

I’m glad I have a husband who can take a little joke (not that I won’t get paid back, trust me).  After his shirt got sprayed at the kitchen sink yesterday morning, I heard him in the kitchen laughing – really laughing.  Of course, then he came after me to give me a hug  get me soaked too!

In the seriousness of life, don’t take yourself too seriously, and don’t let your family life get too serious either.  Look for opportunities to add some family fun, laughter, and yes, even a little prank or two!

What do you do to add some fun to family life?  Do you have memories of things your family has done to laugh together?

With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

Easter dinner plans were to fix my traditional meal and then share it with several guests.  
God’s plan was to have one guest – a new friend and young believer who got saved three weeks ago.
Sometimes the best thing about having a meal isn’t the food, it’s the fellowship around the table!  Such was the case yesterday.
We had a wonderful time with Amanda, a sweet young woman who is hungry to learn more about her walk with God.  We had the sweetest discussion about how to grow and add more knowledge of God to her life on a daily basis.  What  a blessing to talk with someone so young in the faith who has a desire to change and grow!

I was so desirous to make her at ease that I didn’t get a picture of the food buffet.  That’s okay.  You’ve seen spiral ham before.  But here are all three of us at the table enjoying pie and coffee with a huge slice of sweet fellowship!

My Menu:
Spiral Brown Sugar Glazed Ham
Twice Baked Potatoes
Fresh Green Beans
Deviled Eggs
Coconut Cream Pie New lighter recipe!


Can you believe that a “normal” piece of Coconut Cream pie has 423 calories and 23 grams of fat?  This one from Cooking Light has 281 calories and 9 grams of fat…and you would never know it!  I’ve changed over, friends.  This is my new “go-to” recipe!  It’s yummy!!!!!!

Coconut Cream Pie

Filling:
1/4 cup all-purpose flour
1/2 cup sugar
1/8 teaspoon salt
2 large eggs
3/4 cup 2% reduced-fat milk
3/4 cup light coconut milk
1/4 teaspoon coconut extract
1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract

Italian Meringue:
3 large egg whites
2/3 cup sugar
1/4 cup water
1 tablespoon flaked sweetened coconut, toasted

Preparation

Prepare and bake Pie crust in a 10-inch deep-dish pie plate. Cool completely on a wire rack.
To prepare filling, lightly spoon flour into a dry measuring cup; level with a knife. Combine flour, 1/2 cup sugar, salt, and eggs in a large bowl; stir well with a whisk.
Heat milk and coconut milk over medium-high heat in a small, heavy saucepan to 180° or until tiny bubbles form around edge (do not boil). Gradually add hot milk mixture to sugar mixture, stirring constantly with a whisk. Place mixture in pan; cook over medium heat until thick and bubbly (about 10 minutes), stirring constantly.
Remove from heat. Spoon custard into a bowl; place bowl in a large ice-filled bowl for 10 minutes or until custard comes to room temperature, stirring occasionally. Remove bowl from ice. Stir in extracts; spoon mixture into prepared crust. Cover and chill 8 hours or until firm.
Preheat broiler.
To prepare meringue, place egg whites in a large bowl; beat with a mixer at high speed until soft peaks form. Combine 2/3 cup sugar and water in a saucepan; bring to a boil. Cook, without stirring, until candy thermometer registers 238°. Pour hot sugar syrup in a thin stream over egg whites, beating at high speed until stiff peaks form.

Spread meringue over chilled pie, and sprinkle with coconut. Broil for 1 minute or until meringue is lightly browned; cool 5 minutes on a wire rack. Serve immediately.

My girls made Easter dinner at their house yesterday.  Whitney told me about her salad, and after she described it to me,  I asked her to please share the recipe! I don’t like jello salads that take 50 steps. It sounds simple and they said it was really good!  Take a look – I think you’ll agree!


This is called Orange Fluff Jello Salad; she used Cherry Jello instead.  

You will need:

20 oz can of crushed pineapple
small box of orange Jello
8 oz of cream cheese
8 oz of whipped topping

Add entire can of pineapple (undrained) to a sauce pan and bring to a boil.  Add orange jello and stir well.  Boil about 2 minutes.  Dice cream cheese and add that to jello mixture.  Stir until most of cream cheese is melted.  Pour into a large flat dish and put in the freezer or refrigerator.  Once your mixture starts to congeal remove and stir in the 8 oz package of whipped topping.  Put your dish in the refrigerator to set up for at least 3 hours before serving.

What did you serve up for Easter?  Did you have guests?

From my parsonage kitchen,

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Freshen Up Friday

The Place of the Skull, very possibly where Jesus was crucified

This is my favorite weekend of the year and it starts with today – Good Friday.  It’s not a religious day – it’s a day of the greatest love and it’s the day that changed history!  Today as we remember what Christ did for us on the cross, I pray we will each see with new eyes our wonderful Savior and His amazing sacrifice for us.

Could I encourage you today to celebrate?  We typically wait to celebrate until Easter, but that long weekend began on the day that Jesus was crucified on the cross, on Friday.  I imagine how sad the hearts of those that loved Christ were.  But you and I have “read the back of the book” and we know that He arose!  He is alive today. Therefore, we can celebrate!  We have victory over sin, a home in heaven, and a relationship with him today all because He willingly laid down His life for us on this Friday.  Yes, this is a good day.  Good Friday.

How could you celebrate?  Consider:

  • Serve Hot Cross buns today – if you can’t make them from scratch, then make cinnamon rolls from a can and put the icing on top in the shape of the cross.
  • Go to a park – either alone or with your family and read the crucifixion story from the Bible.
  • Sing some songs about the cross – At Calvary, Beneath the Cross of Jesus, The Old Rugged Cross, At the Cross.
  • Talk about what the disciples and Jesus’ followers must have been thinking and feeling at this time of the day on that Good Friday.
  • People are always asking, “How are you?”  Why not purpose to tell them how special today is to you and why!  They asked!  Tell them!
Be refreshed today as you contemplate the cross!

Because of Christ,

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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

I enjoy hearing about people’s favorite things.  You can learn about products, places, and sites you otherwise would never know was out there!  So I thought I’d share a few of my favorite things with you today as you take a peek inside the parsonage.

My New Favorite Tool:


I’ve recently become the owner of a Kindle Fire HD.  I had resisted owning one before because I love books, but when my husband put this one in my hands on Valentine’s Day, it was love at first sight.  =)  It’s so great to pop my Kindle into my book bag and know that it’s the only thing I have to take with me! I had about a dozen magazines downloaded, as well as that many books when I boarded my plane to Indiana last weekend.  No worry about not having enough reading material on hand!  Then I learned that Money Saving Mom has started a site just to share daily deals from Amazon for Kindles.  It’s called e Reader Girl.  Each day she shares about books that Amazon is listing for free or for a very small fee.  You need to check the price before you download; the “free” status doesn’t last forever.  I have gotten some great books for my favorite price – nothing!

A Couple Favorite items at Sam’s Club:

Aside from great produce and huge bulk baking items, Sam’s Club has a multi-Grain Tortilla Chip that is addictive.  The good thing about them is that they’re on the healthy side!  They have just the right amount of salt.  If we are low on these, we just about have to make an emergency run to town!  They’re great with salsa, but also just out of the bag! Only three dollars a bag!

Did you know that you can buy Panera Bread’s Soup at Sam’s club?  Their Broccoli Cheddar is so good.  I think it was about $11 for the two containers, but that’s a whole lot cheaper than what you’d pay at the restaurant.  Each container serves about 3 servings.  You can freeze these, too!

My Favorite Cleaning Tool:


These little erasers are amazing.  One day I used them on my white toaster and found that they took of the scum that nothing else would touch.  They work great on appliances.  I read that they are great on the flat cook tops, taking off what nothing else could remove.  They will take the soot off your jar candles.  It keeps them looking pretty instead of nasty on your counters.  They’re great for scuffs on doors and fingerprints on walls and door frames.

My favorite Phone Apps:
Photo Grid is a great place that allows you to make collages with your photos.  Like this…

I told you recently about Pair; an app for Couples.  Hope you downloaded that one so you can stay connected to your sweetheart.

The Droid Light has been a blessing when I pull up to my door at night and it’s dark.  I pop that super bright light on my phone and I have no problem finding the doorknob to put the key in!

One app that I use every morning is the You Version Bible app. I have just finished reading through the Bible in a year using the blended reading plan.  I have really enjoyed it.  They have many translations of the Bible, an audio feature and a verse for the day.  Love this!

Okay, now it’s your turn!  What is your favorite in any of the categories I listed?

From my parsonage windows,

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Responding to Bad News in Marriage

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We all love to hear good news, don’t we?  My younger daughter, Alli got some REALLY GOOD NEWS this weekend; her boyfriend asked her to marry him!  The fact that he wants her for his wife was good news! My husband and I couldn’t be happier for them; this was good news to us too.  The proposal was a minute by minute plan that Andrew pulled off with the help of several of their friends.  The wedding will be next May, so there’s lots of time for planning, preparing and dreaming!  Fun times!

I pray that their marriage will be full of days and years of “good news,” but the reality is that every marriage is also made up of some situations that contain some bad news.  No one enjoys it, but it’s those tests and trials that  strengthen the relationship.  There can be the bad news of…

  • a job loss 
  • the depletion of funds
  • illness
  • pregnancy problems
  • sin issues
  • differing opinions
  • child-rearing issues
  • and so on…
What is a couple to do when bad news is the order of events for the day?  Do they pack up and each go their own way? Of course not.  Here’s my advice for myself, for Alli and any other wife who gets some bad news instead of good news in a day of marriage:

  1. Run to the Lord FIRST.  Before you do anything else, go to your Quiet place and tell the Lord what’s hurting your heart.  Psalm 55:22 Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.
  2. Open your Bible and let the Lord speak Truth to you. Write down what He tells you. Psalm 119:76 Let, I pray thee, thy merciful kindness be for my comfort, according to thy word unto thy servant.
  3. Keep the issue to yourself if it’s a problem with your husband (unless we’re talking about abuse). Don’t go call your mom, your sister or friend and spill all. Let love cover it.  
  4. Do a loving deed for your husband – even if you think he’s the one with the problem.  He’s probably feeling pretty low; do something to encourage his heart and let him know that you still love him. Proverbs 21:14a A gift in secret pacifieth anger.
A neat detail about Alli and Andrew getting engaged on March 23rd, is that on that day, my parents were celebrating their 58th anniversary!  I know that they’ve had many occasions where some “bad news” came to their marriage, but it’s my prayer that you and I, and Alli and Andrew will last 58 years because we’ve handled it in a way that brought honor to the Lord.

Have you had any good news lately?

With love,
Denise