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Word to the Wise Wednesday – Set Goals

Yesterday’s Bible study was about serving others. My prayer was that the Lord would help me to put into action what I’d studied. God will answer that prayer if you ever pray it! I stayed very busy all day obeying the Lord’s directives and it was such a blessing! It was wonderful to see God working and nudging me. If I’d only do that every day instead of going my own way!

Proverbs 1: 30, 31
They would none of my counsel: they despised all my reproof.
Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices
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I’d rather have God’s way than mine, wouldn’t you? 🙂

Recently we’ve been encouraged in our ladies’ Bible study to set spiritual goals because “if you don’t have a goal you will surely hit it!” If you’re a part of our Bible study, I pray you’ve gotten started on your “five fat files.”

Let’s think about some other goals today – Summertime goals. Think about five or ten things you’d like to accomplish this summer. Write it down somewhere. Post it on your fridge, or put it somewhere where you’ll see it and be encouraged to get started. Then check each item off as you complete it. Make a list and then get after it. It’s June 2nd, so you’ve got three months – 92 days. Wow! We could accomplish lots in that amount of time if we start today!

My Summertime Goals: (for starters)

  • Paint the bathroom
  • Read three books on the topics in my five Fat Files
  • Finish cleaning out the back of the basement
  • Have a yard sale to get rid of basement “stuff”
  • Entertain on Sunday nights on the deck
  • Memorize a verse a week
  • Meet with a younger woman each week

Proverbs 13:19

The desire accomplished is sweet to the soul…

What goals will you have for the summer? Inspire me!

With love,

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Best Friends in Marriage

Yesterday found my husband and me in the basement going through some boxes of “stuff.” Stuffed animals, old toys, pictures, school annuals, dolls, dishes, and books were sorted through. I was down there for several hours – not because I got so much accomplished, necessarily, but because when I go through old things it brings back memories and I have to stop and reflect! My husband and I passed many pictures back and forth to one another. “Oh, remember this?” “Look at us! How hilarious!” (You will not be seeing any of those pictures posted here!) Not only did we recall many special times from our past, but it was a sweet time together recounting good memories and numerous blessings.

I also leafed through a couple of the books that I hadn’t read in a while. One book was on marriage and there was a chapter on being best friends with your mate. The highlights were how important it is to spend time together having fun, talking, sharing your heart, and being open with one another. I smiled – we had done that even in a cool basement on Memorial Day when most of our neighbors were probably out at the lake or at the park having a picnic with their extended family. We had shared secret memories of times and places when notes were found written in our handwriting. We’d laughed. We’d talked about times when our girls were growing up. This is what friends do.

After we’d had our grilled hamburgers later in the evening, we headed out for a drive through the countryside. Opening the sun roof on the car, the warm air blew through as we pointed at beautiful homes, the clouds over the mountain or a row of flags in a front yard. We even stopped for an ice cream at Dari ace – so cute! It was a great end to a fun day spent with my best friend.

Are you still best friends with your husband? Are you spending time together? I don’t mean time living – I mean time just being together. What tone of voice do you use when you speak to him or repeat an answer to his question? Is it the tone that one would use with their best friend? God gave Adam a wife so he would have a companion. Are you and I being the best kind of completer that we could possibly be? Best friends give each other the benefit of the doubt, love when no one else loves, and enjoy just doing little things together. Is your husband the one you spend that kind of time with? Don’t replace his companionship with that of your girlfriend, sister or parents. That is not God’s plan for a married woman.

I am planning on re-reading that book I found. It was a good reminder for me. We all need to be encouraged in what a godly marriage looks like. I’m thankful for a day in the basement that helped me to be refreshed in the friendship part of our marriage!
With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

Allison, our 18 year-old, is now at The Wilds for staff training week. She will spend the summer waitressing there. Her three weeks of rest are over and her bedroom is once again packed up, quiet and very empty. That’s okay – I’d so much rather have her at a place like The Wilds all summer than here with me. What a blessing to know the opportunities she’ll have to serve the Lord, as well as learn. I’m excited about that and can’t wait to hear what God is doing in her life!

While she was home she put in many requests for her favorite foods that she’d missed while she was in college. One of the many requests were for muffins – Strawberry Muffins and Blueberry muffins. I made the blueberry ones to have as a quick breakfast the morning we headed to camp. They are so good. If you like blueberries, you need to make this recipe! My sister shared this with me years ago and it’s my favorite blueberry muffin.

Mix:
1 Box White Cake mix
2 Tbl. flour
1 tsp baking soda

In another bowl, mix:
2/3 C milk
1/3 C oil
3 eggs

Add liquid mixture to dry mixture. Add 1 Cup blueberries. Pour into paper lined or greased tins (only fill about 3/4 full). Sprinkle with crumb mixture and bake at 375 degrees for 15-20 minutes. This makes lots of muffins – I make a dozen regular-sized ones and a dozen small ones. If you don’t have a small muffin tin, it would probably make 6-8 more regular sized ones.

Topping:
1/3 Cup flour
1/3 C brown sugar
1 tsp cinnamon
2 Tbl soft margarine

What’s been cookin’ in your kitchen recently?

With love,

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Summertime Cooking Helps

I just love my old copies of the Southern Living Cookbooks. I have a collection of about ten of them and they are my absolute favorites. I’m always finding new recipes! If you find a Southern Living Cookbook on Amazon or at a yard sale I’d say snag it, because their recipes are tried and true. I can’t think of one recipe from their books that I’ve made that we didn’t like.

However, one of the neat things about the cookbooks is that they don’t just have recipes in them, they have all kinds of valuable information. I will get a book and sit down and read through it and learn information such as how to choose a ripe melon, ingredient substitutions and equivalents, or entertaining tips.

Last night as I was reading one edition I came across some tips on Summertime meal preparation. The information is really good for any time of the year, but for the hot months when you don’t want to spend a lot of time in the kitchen, they shared some tips on how to reduce your cooking time and yet still have a good meal on the table each night. Let me share some of their ideas:

  • Make up a menu at the beginning of the week (this is soooo needful!)
  • Choose recipes with few ingredients, quick preparation and easy-to-follow directions.
  • One-dish meals are ideal – lasagna, chicken & rice dish, etc.
  • Recipes using chicken or seafood are speedy as well as delectable.
  • Prepare the recipe the night before, and refrigerate until time to cook or reheat.
  • Or prepare part of the recipe ahead, such as a sauce.
  • Marinating food overnight adds flavor and requires little effort.
  • On weekends or when you have extra time, cook double batches, freezing the extras. All you have to do is defrost foods such as meat sauces, breads, waffles, cookies, cakes, soups and meat loaf in the microwave oven or overnight in the refrigerator; then heat.
  • Use the microwave oven for side dishes or reheating.
  • Stir-fry meals are convenient when time is short.
  • Make salads ahead of time; refrigerate the dressing and other ingredients separately.
  • Gather all necessary ingredients and utensils for the recipe you are preparing.
  • Clean up as you cook; then you don’t have a big mess left when you’re finished.

I know for women that work full-time, meal prep can be difficult, but these suggestions should help you get a jump start and aid you in getting ahead. If you can begin your preparation early you’ll be that much closer to suppertime after you get home!

Here’s a fruit salad recipe I made this week from one of my Southern Living Cookbooks. The citrus dressing is so good on the fruit.

Fruit Salad with Citrus Dressing

1/4 tsp grated orange rind

2/3 cup orange juice

1/2 tsp grated lemon rind

1/2 cup lemon juice

1/3 cup brown sugar

1 (3 inch) cinnamon stick

1/2 tsp cornstarch

4 oranges, peeled and sliced

2 kiwi, peeled and sliced

2 cups fresh pineapple chunks

1 cup seedless red grapes

2 cups fresh strawberries, sliced

3 bananas, sliced

Combine first 7 ingredients in a small saucepan; bring to a boil, stirring constantly. Boil 1 minutes. Cool.

Combine oranges, kiwi, pineapple and grapes. pour dressing over fruit; cover and chill. Add strawberries and bananas; toss gently. Serve immediately. Yield: 6-8 servings

I used half amounts of the fruit for my family and reserved half of the dressing in a Ziploc bag and put it in the freezer to use another time – an example of having a sauce on hand for a quick salad.

Happy cooking!

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Wednesday Word to the Wise

(All You Magazine)

I have learned lots of cool little tidbits from All You Magazine. I’ve mentioned this relatively new magazine before, but I’m telling you, if you haven’t gotten a copy yet, if nothing else, you’re missing out on lots of good coupons.
I love the ice cream cone idea they shared this month (pictured above). Dip the cone in melted chocolate (white or dark), then roll in colored sprinkles for a festive cone for your Memorial Day picnic.

However, as I mentioned, it has lots of helpful tips in it. Here’s a great idea they share about the uses of baking soda!

What did we used to think baking soda was for? To sit in the back of the fridge? Read why it’s back where it belongs―in every room of the house!

1. To put out a grease fire, scatter baking soda over it by the handful to extinguish flames.

2. Clean the dishwasher and coffeemaker by running an empty cycle with baking soda.

3. Add ½ cup baking soda to your bath for an at-home spa treatment.

4. Polish jewelry with a paste made of water and baking soda. It’s safe on both silver and gold.

5. Scatter baking soda in the kitty box, then add litter on top to keep smells to a minimum. Or make a DIY litter, mixing a small box of baking soda with 3 inches of sandy clay.

6. For instant relief from bug bites, sunburn and poison ivy, mix baking soda with a little water and apply it directly to the sore.

7. Make a fluffier omelet by adding ½ teaspoon baking soda for every three eggs.

8. Pour in 1 cup baking soda followed by 1 cup hot vinegar to quickly unclog the kitchen drain.

9. Fight dandruff by tabling the shampoo for a few weeks and massaging your wet scalp with a handful of baking soda instead.

10. Gargle with baking soda, or use it as mouthwash.

11. Soak toothbrushes in a mixture of ¼ cup baking soda and ¼ cup water; let brushes stand overnight for a thorough cleaning.

12. Use a pinch in a gallon of freshly-brewed iced tea, to take out the bitterness and prevent cloudiness.

13. Use baking soda to brush your pets’ teeth. (Sorry, I am not brushing my cat’s teeth!)

14. Scatter baking soda on icy sidewalks―it’s not as corrosive as salt.

15. Discourage weeds by sprinkling baking soda into the cracks on your driveway and walkways.

16. Surround Fido’s food bowls with baking soda to keep pests away.

17. Mix a little baking soda into your conditioner and lather on your hair to keep it healthy and resistant to split ends.

18. Have heartburn? Create an antacid by mixing ½ teaspoon of baking soda with ½ cup of water.

19. To clean a toilet, add ¼ cup baking soda to the bowl, swirl, then scrub.

20. Exfoliate your skin with a paste of 3 parts baking soda to one part water. Apply gently with your fingertips in a circular motion, then rinse.

Love not sleep, lest thou come to poverty; open thine eyes, and thou shalt be satisfied with bread.

Proverbs 20:13

Here are a few more Memorial Day ideas:

Surprise your kids with this fun and festive shake! Put two scoops of ice cream and about 2 cups of milk into blender. Blend for about 30 seconds. Add a couple ice cubes and a few drops of blue food coloring and blend for another 30 seconds. You can add a little more coloring if you need to. Pour into tall clear glass. Add whipped cream to the top of the shake/glass. Add some festive sprinkles and top off with a cherry, and add a straw!! Also, for an added surprise, slip a “toothpick flag” into the straw for decorative purposes only, and slip a mini flag or red, white and blue coaster under the glass. Enjoy!

If you live where there is an Ingles grocery store, you can buy a carnation bunch for $2.50 this week. They have a red, white, and blue mixture. Buy a bunch, snip the stems then place them in something as simple as a canning jar. Pop in a small flag, then tie a red ribbon around the neck of the jar for a quick and festive centerpiece!

Use red bandannas for a table runner or cloth napkins at your picnic. They’re inexpensive and colorful.

A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.

Proverbs 25:11

What good ideas do you have? Do you use baking soda for something other than the ways mentioned here? Do you have a great Memorial Day idea? I’d love to hear!
With love,