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You May Have to Eat That!

I saw a little sign in a store recently that said,

Make sure your words are sweet. For one day, you may have to eat them.  A perfect lesson for children of all ages ...:

Not long after reading that, I was eating some not-so-sweet words that I said to my husband.  He had been talking to me, and I had a thought about what he was saying, and then I let those thoughts come out.

I spoke too quickly.

As soon as I said it, I knew it should never have come out of my mouth.

Have you ever been there?  It’s awful.  There’s no way to take those words back.  I had to eat them, and it was no meal I want as leftovers!

Proverbs 29:11 says,

A fool utters all his mind; but a wise man keeps it in till afterwards.

A wise woman realizes that just because she’s thinking it, doesn’t mean she needs to say it.  Here’s a good test as to whether or not that thought should come out as words:

  • Is it true?
  • Is it kind?
  • Does it need to be said now?

All three questions need to be answered affirmatively before you should speak it, and even then it might be best not to let it from your lips.

Remember, what you say, you may have to eat.

Lovingly,

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Home making · Uncategorized

Clever Uses for Jars

I love finding simple organizing solutions to little frustrations in my routines. One area was cupcake liners.  It seems that once the packaging for Cupcake/muffin liners are opened, they’re history!  If they didn’t come in a hard plastic covering, I find them crumpled and useless, like our morning newspaper that didn’t make it into the box (bless our carrier’s heart!)!

However, I recently found a clever idea for storing them.

Pop them into a little jar!

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I already had this one on hand, so I grabbed the loose and straggling liners in my cupboard and popped them into this little jar.  I love how it has dressed up my pantry shelves!

Jars have become my best friend when it comes to kitchen organization!  Look…

I also still love the jar I store Corn Starch in.  No more corn starch showers all over the counter when I’m baking!  Not sure why I didn’t do  that YEARS ago!

Other things I have stored in jars are:

  • granola
  • pastas
  • brown sugar
  • powdered sugar
  • croutons
  • pretzels
  • popcorn kernels
  • oatmeal

Whatever you have that won’t stay fresh once it’s opened is a great candidate for a jar.  Those cellophane bags for pasta, croutons, pretzels are all frustrating if you try to clip them shut.  I’ve seen jars at The Dollar Tree, Dollar General and TJ Maxx that are so affordable and they make life so much easier AND prettier!

What do you store in your jars?

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Social media · Uncategorized

The Necessity to Be Unplugged

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I knew a little girl who, when she should have been sleeping, was listening intensely to the voices of her parents in the next room.  She leaned in to hear conversations between her mom and dad.  She wanted to be included in anything they were discussing, so she sat very still and very attentive.

She reminds me of myself during these past thirty-one days of sabbatical!  All the time we’ve been away resting, I have known that the Lord was speaking and I didn’t want to miss it!  Of course, that was a huge reason for our time away from ministry – so we could spend greater times in Quiet with our God.  Just like Whitney that little girl, I wanted to be intentional not to waste this time, or to miss His voice.

So, let me start today with sharing just one Truth I heard the Lord say to my heart:

Being unplugged is necessary for a portion of each day.  We spent time in some remote areas while we were away, meaning there was no Internet connection.  We also made the choice one day to leave our phones behind. Let me say it – it was good!  It kept me from being distracted from what was happening. It allowed me to really hear what was going on around me instead of feeling I had to jump and respond to every “ping” that happened on my phone, tablet or computer.  It made me rest.  Really, really, rest.

When I realized what the Lord was teaching me in little snippets of my day, I took this truth into my Quiet time each morning. Yep, I unplugged.  Instead of getting up in the morning and quickly checking through any new Instagram pictures, fresh email or text messages, I went straight to my Bible app for my reading plan and nowhere else.  Then while studying, a buzz or notification may have alerted me, but with God’s enablement, it did not distract me. I just ignored it. As a matter of fact, I waited each day until after I was completely dressed and ready for the day to connect once again to the Internet.

How did being unplugged help me?

  1. It allowed me to stay focused on what God’s Word was saying to me.
  2. It made my devotional time richer because I realized that I had been connecting more to what everyone else was doing every minute of the day than I was what God wanted to speak into my life.
  3. My prayer time was sweeter because it was uninterrupted.
  4. I got more accomplished each morning!
  5. It made me see how much time I had been wasting on temporal things.
  6. It made me really prioritize my time with the Lord.

God has important things to say to me and I don’t want to miss it!  I will, with His grace, continue to discipline myself in this area of my life!

Anyone can feel free to text, add Instagram pics or notify me of things on Facebook.  You won’t distract me because my phone will be in “silent” mode.  And I’ll be happy to answer you, but it will just be a little later in the day – after I’ve heard God’s voice and found out what He’s doing today!

Could you use less time on your phone or devices?  I challenge you to

  • Unplug for a period of time each day – especially needful during your time with the Lord.
  • Make meal times a “No Phone Zone.”
  • Make one day a week a Sabbath rest from your phone. 
  • Set a timer when you go to check Facebook or Instagram. That way you’ll only be on for a limited time (say ten minutes), rather than letting 30 minutes escape while you scroll.

Anyone else feel the need to Unplug?

With a listening ear,

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baking · breakfast · Uncategorized

Week-Long Muffin Batter

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Coming up with a great breakfast is difficult to me.  Oh, I know there are lots of options – French Toast, waffles, omelets, etc., but most people don’t have time to be stirring up great recipes first thing in the morning, myself included.  The best way to have a something good is to prepare ahead.

Years ago, I found a Bran muffin recipe that you stir together and put in the fridge.  I call them Morning Glory Muffins because they make the morning glorious!!!!  The batter stays fresh for a week!  During that week, you can heat up the oven, bake up as many as you need without having the work and mess first thing in the morning.  These are healthy and delicious!  This month during Sabbatical, I mixed up the batter and it was a great addition to my yogurt and fruit.  I took some batter with us when we went to Pigeon Forge for a few days, and it was great to have it all ready to bake!

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Here’s the simple recipe:

Morning Glory Muffins

Ingredients

  • 1/2 cup boiling water
  • 1/2 cup bran cereal (not flakes, preferably a wheat bran)
  • 1/3 cup (vegetable oil
  • 1 large egg
  • 1 1/4 cups
  • 1/2 cup granulated sugar
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 3/4 cup raisins
  • 1 1/4 cups buttermilk
  • 1/4 cup brown sugar
  • 1 1/2 cups bran cereal – not flakes. (Though they say “not flakes” that’s what I had on hand and used, and they turned out great!)
  • 1 – 2 tsp Grated Orange peel

Instructions

  1. In a small mixing bowl, pour the boiling water over the half cup of cereal. When cooled, mix in the vegetable oil and egg.
  2. While the water/bran mixture cools, whisk together the flour, sugar, baking soda, baking powder and salt in a large mixing bowl. Stir in the raisins.
  3. In a large measuring cup, combine the buttermilk and brown sugar, and stir into the dry ingredients. Stir in remaining cereal, then the softened bran mixture and orange zest. Cover the batter and refrigerate it overnight.
  4. When you’re ready to bake, preheat the oven to 375°F for 15 minutes. Line a muffin tin with papers, and spray the insides of the papers. Or just grease the muffin cups themselves, if you like a crustier muffin edge.
  5. Stir the batter once or twice, then scoop a heaping 1/4-cup of batter into each prepared muffin cup.
  6. Bake for 20 to 25 minutes, until a tester inserted in the center comes out clean.
  7. Remove from the oven, cool in the pan on a rack for 10 minutes before removing the muffins from the pan.

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If you want a nice hot muffin without having to be in the kitchen more than a few minutes, this recipe will be your morning glory, too!

With love from my country kitchen,

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Events

Sabbatical Post #6 – God’s Perfect Plan

When our church leaders first approached my husband about giving us a sabbatical during the month of August, I immediately began praying that the Lord would give us wisdom about how to use this time.  There is so much you could do in thirty-one days; how could we decide what is best?   I knew we needed the Lord’s wisdom.

It may seem to onlookers that we have just sat around eating, and while I admit we’ve done plenty of sitting and have also enjoyed some delicious food, we have also been moving, both in body, mind and heart. However, the movement has been slower and more deliberate than when we’re in our normal routine of ministry, and each day I watched God answer that prayer of using this time wisely.  It’s reflected even in how we spent this last week.

  • We’ve both had time to read (I finished my third book of the month).  We’ve spent lengthy times in God’s Word and in prayer, both separately and together (there’s no way to speak of the value of those times!).
  • We’ve discussed future ministry days, events and changes we need to make.
  • We’ve had fun doing things we love like bike riding, driving through the countryside, finding fun little places to browse through, and…
  • spending time with family.

Our family time took us to Kentucky.  What a blessing to visit with my parents in their home, which has always been a haven for us.

We had the fun and privilege to spend Saturday with my sisters and brothers-in-law.  The day was clear and hot – perfect for riding in my brother-in-law, Tim’s boat. We anchored the boat and went swimming in Cave Run Lake, enjoyed a pasta and shrimp lunch, and visited and laughed until we cried.

That evening we had the joy of being with nearly all the rest of the family in the area as my parents hosted a homemade ice cream social.  Every time I hear of them cranking up their electric ice cream maker while I’m in Tennessee, my mouth waters and I fight a little jealousy!  But here we were, all together, people in little groups catching up, laughing and spooning the sweet cream in with the joy comparable to Christmas morning.  I think I’ll always hold the pictures of that night in my memory – Mom, the perfect hostess, offering bottles of water or Ale 8 (a local soft drink) that she’d cooled in a small copper tub of ice.  Dad, at the sink, spooning ice cream from the tall cylinder, tempting with, “have one more scoop” to all who offered their cup to him.

Nights like that don’t happen very often when you’re my age, so when they do, you press them hard into your memory where they’ll be more secure than a glued-in picture in a scrapbook.  And why am I tearing up as I write about this?  Because it has value, and because I was there, and because our church provided this time, and because my loving God allowed it all to happen in answer to my prayers to use this time wisely.  How good is my God!

After coming home, we spent the last three days close by at a place on the lake. It was the perfect completion of the rest and refreshment that our heart, minds, and bodies needed.  There was beauty, quiet, mountains, lake, cozy spots to sit and spend time with the Lord, and the ability to be apart in separate places while still being together in a lovely cottage.

Enjoy the pictures below…they’re the physical proof of all the above.  The memories in my heart are even clearer and brighter.  Enjoy!

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My heart is just so full.  It was all so perfect and it came from the hands of a perfect God.  I could never have planned it all out the way it happened; He gets the glory.

If you’ve been following our sabbatical and wished you could have a time to be refreshed, I have just the answer for you!  Our church is hosting an event for ladies next weekend that will encourage and refresh you!  It takes place on Sept 9 and 10th at our church!  If you’re in the area, I invite you to join us for our Ladies’ Event. Our Theme is “When God Writes Your Story.” Carol Trahan is our guest speaker.  Carol is a Word-filled woman whose story is not what she would have chosen, but she has allowed the Lord to take the tragedies that have touched her life to refine and mold her into the image of Christ.  She exalts her Savior with her testimony of His goodness in her times of brokenness.

Friday night begins with a fashion workshop, some fun skits, then a time in God’s Word with Carol.  Saturday will be filled with helpful workshops you can choose from, and two more sessions with Carol.  The cost is only $10 and you’ll get three main sessions with Carol, two workshops, a catered lunch, and a continental breakfast! I pray you’ll come and bring a friend!  You can go here for more details!

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Come be refreshed!

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