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A Heart for Spiritual Growth

The heart of him that hath understanding seeketh knowledge: but the mouth of fools feedeth on foolishness.
Proverbs 15:14

What parent is there that would want their child to remain an infant all their life? As cute as our babies are, we rejoice at each step of growth as they mature. In the same way, as we continue on this journey of walking with the Lord, we have learned in our study by Elizabeth George, that we must first have a relationship with God by receiving Christ as our personal Savior. After that, the natural outflow from our spiritual life should be growth.

We all experience dry spells, but for the most part, we should be making progress spiritually. It is aided by purposeful focus. We will purposefully seek knowledge if it is our desire to grow in the Lord more each day.

Elizabeth learned from an older godly woman that in order to go beyond just floating along in our Christian life, we need to dig deeper. The means that she used to do that was:

  1. She never bought a skirt or pair of pants without pockets in it. At the beginning of the week she would write a new memory verse on a 3×5 card and would take it out all day long and read it and work on hiding that verse in her heart. What verse are you currently working on memorizing?

  2. She had “Five Fat Files.” She purchased five file folders in order to tuck away information on Biblical subject matters. She was to pick five areas in which she wanted to grow in expertise so that she was filling herself up with knowledge in these areas.

    In order for us to follow this advice we need to ask ourselves (and pray about) what we’d like to be known for. Do you want to be known as a woman of prayer? Mentoring? Soul winning? After you’ve chosen your five Biblical topics, seek knowledge in these areas. You’ll then know what subjects to be studying. We can’t read everything, but when we have chosen five areas, we have a better idea of what kind of books we should be looking for. We’ll know which workshops to attend when we go to a ladies’ retreat. We’ll clip articles from magazines on those subjects, or print off information we read on the Internet. We can talk with people who are excelling in those areas and ask them questions.

It really helps to funnel our attention to a much smaller focus, and then to seek knowledge especially in those five areas. How will this aid your spiritual growth? You’ll be anxious to get out of bed in the morning to jump up and get in God’s Word to learn more what He says about those five subjects.

Along with filling your five fat files, Elizabeth encourages us to code our Bibles. If you’re seeking knowledge about prayer, mark a P next to each verse you read about praying, a person who prayed, how to pray, Jesus’ prayers, etc. If you make a study of the Women of the Bible, role of women, older women, place a W beside each passage you find about them. Each day as you read your Bible, read it with a pen in hand; that is an act of faith, revealing that you’re certain the Lord is going to show you a nugget that you need to mark.

This kind of study is the main stream to ministry. As you fill yourself up in these five areas, you’ll be like a teapot jumping on the stove. You’ll be so filled with knowledge from God’s Word that you’ll be pouring out on other people. Like the woman that Elizabeth learned from, women will seek you out to get wisdom from the areas in which you have grown.

So, what kind of ministry will you have from the outflow of your spiritual growth? By His grace, let’s each choose those five areas and start growing!

Because of His grace,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

Springtime brings a couple pastor’s conferences for my husband to enjoy. Preachers need preaching to just like we do! He spent a good bit of the last week away from me at The Wilds for their Power in the Pulpit Conference. What a refreshment it was to him!

I wanted to plan a special meal for him to have upon his return home, so I planned this grilled Sirloin with Charred Tomato Salsa. We enjoy grilling steaks, but I typically always make the same Teriyaki Marinade. This recipe is a great change. It tastes healthy and really wakes up a plain ol’ grilled steak! I had a little extra meat and salsa left over – that will make some delicious beef burritos!

Charred Tomato Salsa

1 14.5 oz Can of Fire Roasted tomatoes

1/2 Cup Red onion, thinly chopped

1 tbl red wine vinegar

1 tsp olive oil

1 tsp. dried basil

1/4 tsp. salt

1/4 tsp. black pepper

Combine ingredients in a bowl. Serve at room temperature with grilled sirloin steak.

I love fresh asparagus, but have never had it fresh from the garden. We have a dear pastor friend who dropped off some for us – wow! What a difference it makes to have it so fresh!

I placed the asparagus on a sheet pan, drizzled it with olive oil, then salt and pepper. Bake it at 400 degrees 6-8 minutes. I like it crisp-tender.

I served a twice baked potato along with it to round out the meal.

For dessert I made Sunflower seed cookies. If you like Pecan Sandies you’ll like these. They’re a little salty mixed with the sweetness of the dough. They’re thin, crispy rounds of goodness!

Sunflower Seed Cookies

1 cup butter or marg., softened

3/4 Cup shortening

2 Cups sugar

1 T water

1 tsp vanilla

3 cups all-purpose flour

1 tsp. baking soda

1 tsp. baking powder

1 tsp. salt

1 Cup roasted salted sunflower seeds

Cream butter, shortening, and sugar. Add water and vanilla; mix well. Combine dry ingredients; add to creamed mixture; mix well. Add sunflower seeds. Shape into 1-inch balls; place 2 in. apart on greased baking sheets.

Flattered with a glass dipped in sugar. Bake at 350 degrees for 11-13 minutes or until lightly browned.

Remove to a wire rack to cool.

Yield: About 10 dozen

I think my husband was pretty glad he came home – even if he did have to grill the steaks!

What’s been cookin’ in your kitchen lately?

With love,

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Prudence

A prudent man foreseeth the evil, and hideth himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished. Proverbs 22:3
Yesterday my husband was on his way out of town and he called and asked me to do for him what I considered a sweet privilege. “Would you please read me the Proverb for today? I need to quiet my heart.” It seems that the traffic going into Asheville was typically busy for the morning hours and drivers were exceptionally rude. It created some tension on the road and and in his heart, and my husband wisely knew the cure – the Word of God.

I read through the chapter then he said, “Read the first three verses again.” When I got to verse three he said, “That’s the one I wanted to hear. Isn’t that wise?” We talked about it a minute before we hung up. I’ve meditated on the verse all day.

We can all probably think of people who didn’t obey this instruction, but I wanted to think about some illustrations of people who have done what this verse says.

One perfect example is Joseph in the book of Genesis. When Potiphar’s wife began speaking seductively to him, Joseph, in prudence, ran from her presence. He could see that the end result would be sin and he “hid himself” from it.

Then it also dawned on me that by calling and asking me to read Scripture to him, my husband was putting into practice the wisdom of which this verse speaks He knew that without the Word of God to calm his heart, he would continue in his frustration and anger. Rather than stewing over the stupidity of drivers, he ran to the Wisdom of the Word to redirect His thinking. How wise.

How will you practice prudence today? Guard your heart against sinful reactions. Stay out of places where the end result would be sin. Turn from temptation. Hide yourself from the evil you see ahead of you rather than passing on – oblivious to the danger in your path!

Have a great weekend,

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Wednesday’s Word to the Wise

Last weekend while at the ladies’ retreat at Kennerly Road Baptist Church in Irmo, SC we enjoyed talking about many foods because the theme was, “O taste and see that the Lord is good.” Psalm 34:8
At one point I made an illustration using one of our family’s favorite cake recipes – Triple Chocolate Cake. It’s a recipe I got from my sister. It’s decadent non-diet food! The first time I ever made this cake I made a horrible mistake…instead of following the recipe for the stabilized whipped cream real carefully, I threw in some of my own reasoning and cooked the unflavored gelatin a bit too long. As my family was eating the cake, we had to pick out unflavored Gummy Worm-type things that were in the whipped cream! It wasn’t too pleasant. However, I’d had this cake at my sister’s and I knew how good it could be, so I didn’t let that first defeat conquer me; I made it again and this time followed the recipe carefully! It turned out great.

The illustration I made from that is when we feel we’ve failed to live the Christian life, we don’t just quit in defeat. Proverbs 24:16 says, The just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again. When we fail or sin, we don’t just lay down and give up – we rise up and keep going, by the Lord’s strength and help. I John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Confession of sins is part of the recipe for living the Christian life, and we must follow it.

After sharing the details of this chocolate cake, many asked me for the recipe, so I promised I would post it on my blog. This cake is rather involved, but I do one part at a time so it will turn out well. It’s truly worth the trouble! My word to the wise is follow the recipe (the Lord’s recipe for victory as well as the one to follow) Things turn out wonderfully when you do!

Here are some pictures of the retreat:

“The backdrop of Psalm 34:8 is I Samuel 22 when David was experiencing one of the most difficult times in his life, yet he could say, ‘O taste and see that the Lord is good.'”
A Kitchen Band playing “Jesus Loves Me”
We made some analogies from herbs to the common things in our lives. O taste and see that the Lord is good!
Here you go, KRBC ladies, enjoy!
Triple Chocolate Cake

Bake a Chocolate Devil’s Food cake mix in two layers. I like to do this early and freeze the layers.
Prepare Stabilized whipped cream (recipe to follow)

Layer cream between the two layers and refrigerate overnight.

Ice cake with buttercream icing.

To apply Ganache:
Place the cake on a cardboard circle the size of the cake pan – not on a cake plate yet! ***Place cake on a cooling rack that is sitting on top of a cookie sheet, then pour ganache over all. (I keep reapplying the ganache that has poured off the cake into the cookie sheet below.) Let cake set in refrigerator before serving.

Stabilized Whipped cream – I make this up the day before I need it and let it set in the refrigerator.
2 cups whipping cream
2 tsp. unflavored gelatin
6 tsp. cold water
1/2 cup powdered sugar
1 tsp. vanilla

Place gelatin in a small saucepan. Dissolve gelatin in cold water and let stand ’til set. Place over low heat just until it dissolves.
In another bowl, whip the cream, sugar and vanilla. Beat until thick (not peaks). Pour gelatin slowly into beaters in steady stream; beat ’til stiff.

Ganache
1 cup whipping cream
Place in saucepan and bring just to boil. Remove from heat and stir in 8 ounces chocolate chips and stir well to combine. Let cool slightly before applying.

I’ve added some of my own personal notes to the recipe to help you have good success with the cake. If something is confusing, leave a comment and I’ll try to explain. Again, if you follow the recipe it should turn out to be the best chocolate cake you’ve ever had!

Enjoy!
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The Real Deal

The preacher’s 5 year-old daughter noticed that her father always paused and bowed his head for a moment before starting his sermon. One day, she asked him why. “Well, Honey,” he began, proud that his daughter was so observant of his messages. “I’m asking the Lord to help me preach a good sermon.” “So, how come He doesn’t?” she asked.

Ouch! Children don’t miss a thing, do they? They observe and take notes of what is going on around them even when we think they’re oblivious.

Young parents that have accepted Christ as their Savior have a desire to be an example that their children can follow. We know that we should let our children see us reading the Bible, praying, depending on God, attending church, and serving the Lord. But why so? I thought when my daughters were home that I was helping them do what I was doing. Perhaps so, but they were also under my roof, and pretty much had to do those things. We set aside time for daily devotions, we prayed as a family, we attended church together and when we served the Lord, we did it as a family.

I didn’t really understand it at the time, but all along, my girls were watching me closely. They were seeing things I didn’t realize they were seeing. They saw my motives; they understood when I did it out of a heart for God, and when I did it in my flesh. They may not have registered all of that when they were small, but now that they’re out of our home, they’re putting the pieces together. They’re connecting what I did with why I did it. Now is the time that the reaping comes; when they continue to follow the Lord. This is when I will know if I’ve passed on to them the real stuff of life – a daily relationship with their Savior that touches every aspect of their lives.

Let me encourage you young moms – be an example and let your children see you doing the right things with the right motives, and do it consistently. They won’t really “get it” until they’re grown. It will click and they will step back and evaluate what they’ve been observing all through the years. Be faithful and be real. Remember – you can’t fool a child!

Under His feathers,