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A Peek Inside The Parsonage

All these pictures were from this past Christmas. As I look at our photos through the years, there is one thing that stands out – we’re a very touchy, huggy kind of family! I love that about us!

I grew up in a very affectionate home, so it was only natural that I’d sit in my husband’s lap, throw my arms around my girls, kiss their noggins (as we called it), and in general, just be free with affection; that’s what I was used to! I think affection provides a child with security. When you grow up with that taking place every day, it’s not embarrassing, it’s natural.

Recently I was in a place and position where it was appropriate to give a woman a compassionate kind of a hug. She was stiff, unbending, and didn’t quite know how to deal with this display of empathy. I learned that she grew up in a home where relationships were strained. I nodded in my memory of what had taken place earlier when I reached out to encourage her, and I understood her response. I’m truly sorry for her.

I have a message for you with children at home – LOVE ON THOSE LITTLE ONES! Give hugs. Squeeze their hand in affirmation. Let them see you loving on your husband with a kiss, a hug, holding his hand, taking his arm. Provide the security that family affection brings! If they don’t get it from you, chances are they won’t know how to share it when it comes time for them to marry or parent. Then, also, they’ll be uncomfortable giving (and receiving) Christian empathy to others and showing the love of Christ. Oh, the love and power of a loving family! Be sure you’re displaying it!

Hugs to you!

From the parsonage windows,

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Seasons of Life

I’m thankful to live in an area of the country that sees all four seasons. I enjoy each one for their particular uniqueness. However, even though I love each season, there are things about each one that I have to choose not to focus on. For instance, I love winter because of the holidays it brings, but I’m not crazy about the cold and the barren trees. Spring is a welcomed change with its flowers and green grass, but the rains can ruin a whole week. I love summer for the warm sunshine and the long days, but not the extreme heat. Autumn is beautiful with all the color and cool temps, but it can be a little depressing with dark days and the trees losing their leaves. See what I mean? There’s always a little negative about each season, that could ruin the blessings if I focus on them too much.

I’ve been thinking a lot about the seasons in a different sort of way recently; I’ve been considering the seasons of life. Here, too, there are high and low points; good things and bad. It’s so important, that just as we do with the yearly seasons, to consider the blessings of each season, or stage of our lives, and not be overwhelmed with the negative sides of each one. It could happen easily if we’re not careful.

First, let’s distinguish the “Seasons of Life.”

  • In springtime we have youth and promises of good things to come – jobs, marriage, a family. It can also bring immaturity, little respect from others, feeling like you’re not able to do everything you’d like.
  • Summertime is early adulthood. Little children are often a part of the picture. Strength and agility are yours. However, money is tight because of the growing family’s needs, a new house, or other “starting out” costs. Parents feel the obligation of being responsible to train and teach their children. Discipline can be wearisome. Time together is hard to come by and funds to have dates are non-existent due to educating and preparing their children for growing up.
  • Fall brings the empty nest. Time together as a couple is enjoyed, mixed with the emotions of children leaving home for college and marriage. Responsibilities are in a new area – caring for aging parents and needs of their now adult children, 
  • Winter brings wisdom, from all that has been learned during the earlier seasons. A greater understanding of God’s Word is theirs after years of study. Age, failing bodies and sickness often make service difficult or impossible. Home is the preferred place and the source of comfort.
As I’ve considered the seasons in my life, I’ve thought about how important it is to keep Christ at the center of every day and every season. Without His perspective, despair is all we’d feel throughout our lives and we’d focus only on the negative sides and not relish in the blessings. How do we deal with the hard things realistically yet have a right attitude in each season?

  1. In Springtime, we must study God’s Word and grow in understanding His will. Stay teachable.
  2. In Summertime we must look to Him for wisdom to be a godly wife and building a home that is constantly honoring Him. Glean from older women. Ask questions for the answers about motherhood and child training. Enjoy the days while your children are home and realize that the “leaves will soon fall” from the trees. Realize that it’s not things that make you happy. Make time for your husband with simple dates and times together so you’re not strangers when your children are gone.
  3. In Fall, enjoy the opportunities to serve the Lord. This is the time to be on the go for Him. You have strength and health; use it wisely. Let your marriage be a blessing to one another and others. Enjoy nurturing your relationship and preparing for the winter when you could be confined together.
  4. During Winter, enjoy the “heat” of your home; its comforts and love. Remember that your spouse is your friend, not your enemy. Being together 24/7 can cause conflicts; guard your heart with God’s Word. Apply the truths you know. When you talk with others on the phone or computer, point them to the Savior that you’ve walked with all these years. You’re still a testimony and an important witness at this time in your life! You have a purpose until the day the Lord calls you Home!
What season are you in? Are you only looking at its negatives and not seeing the blessing of this stage? Refocus. The Lord will give grace and wisdom to face each difficulty that comes with this season. Don’t be discouraged; look into His face, draw near to Him, and rejoice because This is the day (season) the Lord has made!

What difficulty are you facing because of your season in life? What new perspective do you need?

With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

 I tried another Pinterest/Crock Pot recipe last week that was a winner!  We love Mexican food in most every form – beef, pork, fish and chicken.  I came across a recipe for Chicken Tacos that were so easy and so good!  

Crock Pot Chicken Tacos
6 chicken breasts
1 pkg. Taco Seasoning
1 jar Salsa – whatever brand you have

Mix the Taco Seasoning and the salsa and pour over chicken breasts in crock pot.  Turn on high 4-6 hours  or low 6-8 hours.  Chicken will be tender and ready to pull apart with a fork.  It will look like this:

Serve with:
Tortillas
Lettuce
Tomatoes
Sour Cream
Cheese
Avocado

You seriously need to make these.  The prep takes all of two or three minutes and the reward is huge!

Is your family Mexican Food lovers?  Would they like this?

From my parsonage kitchen,

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Freshen Up Friday

Yesterday afternoon was “Migraine afternoon.” No fun. No energy. No pizzazz. This one was a doozy. I’m convinced that the Lord gives those whoppers to me to make me STOP. I am forced to rest. I normally push myself, even when I don’t feel terrific, but there’s no pushing when these hit. I’m down for the count. So, I sat on the chaise lounge. I watched Little House on the Prairie. I sat on the back deck on the swing and listened to a message on my phone. I sat on the couch and watched it rain. Then about eight hours later, I was feeling like a human being again.

When was the last time you stopped and rested? We (I) shouldn’t wait until we’re sick to do so. It’s best that we take time each day to just cool it a bit and get refreshed. Hmmm, I think that’s why I started these Friday posts! I guess I’d better start following my own advice. Maybe you need to stop too.

Need a suggestion?

  • Go out on your porch and sit in the cool of the summer evening. Watch the lightening bugs.
  • Take a ride in the country.  
  • Stop for an ice cream.  
  • Go swimming.  
  • Take a ride out on the boat.  
  • Sit and read in a comfy chair
  • Go to the Farmer’s Market this weekend and just enjoy strolling through the vendor’s booths.
  • Play a game with your spouse.
  • Watch a favorite old movie.
  • Look through photo albums.
  • Go to a baseball game in your city.
  • Pack a picnic and go to the park for lunch.
Come apart before you fall apart. Jesus did. We need to follow His example.

Another great way to do that is to attend and participate in your local church this Sunday! Hope I see you at Boones Creek!

Be refreshed,

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Rolling in the Dough

It’s time for the Biscuit Making Video! Hope this encourages you to get out the necessary ingredients and mix a batch either for supper tonight, or breakfast tomorrow!

Here’s a couple of the finished biscuits, hot out of the oven…

Here is where you’ll find the biscuit recipe. The jury is still out on the frozen biscuits. I’ll let you know how they do when I bake them up!

Happy biscuit making!

Love,