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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

We had a super fun ladies activity at church this week.  We had Pinterest party! We have many creative women at church and one of those young moms, Christina, took upon herself the planning and preparing of this fun event. Everyone was asked to bring $5 and a snack.  We enjoyed recipes that had been found or pinned onto Pinterest, but we spent most of the evening creating crafts that were found there.  We had a great time and came home with adorable fruits from our labors!

This was probably my favorite:

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The instructions can be found here.

This is the recipe I took for our snack.  I can’t say I made it because my sweet daughter, Alli, made it for me.  It was a big hit! This is a White Pizza Dip. 

I took a little taste with a tortilla chip (I had to make sure it was good!) and that’s a great dipper.  But when I took it to church, I toasted French bread slices and that was really good with the dip!  A cracker would be good too. 

If you need an appetizer for a Christmas event, this will be a hit!  You might want to make two bowls, though, because you’ll want more than just a taste for yourself!  It’s easy and super good!

From my parsonage windows,

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What Am I To Do Now?

The Christmas cards are almost all made, but need signatures and address.  The laundry is washed and dried, but now sits cold and crumpled in the dryer.  Forty-seven Emails are waiting to be read. It seems that completing a task is impossible right now.  Have you ever been there?  It happens in a variety of settings – a new baby enters the house, you move into a new home and aren’t settled yet, or a crisis comes.  The “normal” routine is replaced with dysfunction.  The plans carefully written out on the planner are now only fleeting thoughts, never written anywhere

This is exactly where I found myself yesterday.  I felt like I was moving aimlessly from one little task to another, yet never really completing anything.  While I was folding the laundry on the unmade guest bed, I whispered in the empty house, “Lord, what am I supposed to do now? Please help me.”  I finished the task at hand, then moved on to cleaning the hardwood floor.  Once I was down on my knees, a song came to my mind,

“No one understands like Jesus, when the days are dark and grim. 
No one is so near, so dear as Jesus.  Cast your every care on Him.”
 
As I sang the song, the Lord brought a thought to my mind to answer the question I had asked earlier.
 
“Lord, what am I supposed to do now?”
Just do the next right thing.
 
That’s what I’m to do!  The next right thing.  I finished the floor.  What was the next right thing?  Fix lunch for me and pack one for my husband who was at the hospital.  And then?  Load the car.  Go visit Mom C.  There was no need to make a list or try to figure out all the details of what I have to do in the next day.  The best advice I could have gotten came whispered to my heart by the One Who understands.  Do the next right thing.  I moved through my whole day reminding myself of that simple thought.  I got everything done that needed to be completed.  My mind was clearer and the burden lighter.  That’s so simplistic, but that’s what I needed!
 
If you’re feeling overwhelmed with just Christmas preparations, this would be a good principle for you to follow too.  It’s really putting the command to, “take no thought for the morrow into practice.”  You’ll be amazed at how much simpler it will make your day!  Look around you and ask, “What’s the next thing that needs to be done?” then do it and keep moving forward.
 
Now, the next right thing is to get off this computer and head back to the hospital where I’ll spend the night.  I’ll talk to you again tomorrow!
 
With love,
 
 

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

To answer the question of this title, What’s cookin’ in the parsonage? I’d have to say, that this weekend, the best thing that was cooked up was encouragement.  Some of that did come in the form of  meals – cooked and presented by my daughters, and other thoughtful people at our church.  But I found encouragement stirred up in clean, folded laundry, and the orders to, “Go to take a nap.”  It came through a verse left on my cell phone’s voice mail, a basket of fruit, an errand run in our stead, or a bowl of soup delivered for lunch. Those that have come by to just pray with us or my mother-in-law have deeply ministered to our hearts. Encouragement also came through people who stopped at my pew in church to inquire how things are going.  It also came simply through a hug or a squeeze around the shoulders. 

I know that all the people that gave the encouragement to us would say that what they did was just a small thing, but often that’s the biggest way to let someone know you care.  I’m sure I would be as Anne of Green Gables today who found herself “in the depths of despair,” if it weren’t for the loving gestures of our friends and family.  Of course, as a child of God, we are never without hope, but in an  emotionally draining situation like sitting with a family member diagnosed with stage four cancer, it’s easy to lose a biblical focus without people cooking up some encouragement in whatever way the Lord puts on their heart.

We are so grateful for every kindness and every prayer on our behalf.  We know that For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities, (Hebrews 4:15), but it’s a special blessing when someone “with skin on” comes along to remind us of God’s love.  Their kindness and words become His hands and His voice. God is at work in each of our lives, and we are truly blessed!

With love,

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Reflections

It was the time of day when the sun was low in the sky.  We had been waiting in the ICU room most of the afternoon, all personal items packed up, ready for my mother-in-law to be moved to a room on another floor.  Her situation had stabilized, and the time had come for her to go to a “regular” room.  She and I were the only ones in the room when the doctor came in to speak with us.  The doctor’s somber face told a story that her mouth would eventually speak – they found cancer, the inoperable kind at a stage four.

Those are words that no one wants to hear, but when they are filtered through the ears of a believer, what they hear instead is, I could be going home to see my Savior very soon.  Those are the very words I heard come from my mother-in-law’s lips as she shrugged her shoulders in surrender to whatever the Lord had planned for her. She added, “He knows what is best for me.”

I write this for your edification and encouragement, but also so I won’t forget.  Watching a mature child of God sift the news of cancer through the Truth of God’s Word that is tucked into their heart is precious.  After the doctor left the room, I hunkered down next to the chair that my mother-in-law had exchanged for her hospital bed. Opening my Bible to Psalm 34 I began reading to her the sweet words of David.

I will bless the Lord at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth.
My soul shall make her boast in the Lord: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad.O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together.
 I sought the Lord, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears.
 
“I have no fears” she said through tears.  Did her tears negate her words?  No.  Tears are the normal emotional response to a sudden jolt.  “I get to go to heaven.  I’m just sorry for you and Dale to have to go through all of this.”  It was my turn to speak now and relieve her worries of her son and daughter-in-law and of how she would travel through the days ahead.
 
“We will take care of you.  If need be, you can stay with us.”
“For no matter how long it takes?”
“Yes.  For no matter how long it takes.”
 
We prayed and read more Scripture, comforting ourselves with Psalm 34, 73, and 91. There was calm, peace, and the Lord’s sweet presence in that room.  It’s the peace only the Lord can give.
 
All of our worlds feel like they’re spinning nearly out of control.  Of all the questions that are pounding in our heads, the question of, “How will we endure what is before us?” is answered by a quote a dear friend sent me.  It is carrying me today.
 
He bears the heavier end
of the Cross laid upon you!”
~Elisabeth Elliot~
 
Our load may seem heavy, but our sweet Savior is carrying the heavier end for us!  What a sweet blessing.  He carries it for you, too, Friend.  We must ease our grip then and “bless the Lord at all times.” Even when faced with cancer.
 
With love,
 


Not sure about why the block of color has appeared!  Oh well, chalk it up to another puzzle in my life!

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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

Hospital rooms. IV drips. Waiting Antibiotics. Oxygen. Scans. Waiting. X-Rays. Lab work-ups. Pills. Waiting.

This has been our world for the last week while we wait to find out what’s going on with my mother-in-law’s heart.

You can’t rush a trial any more than you can rush a lab result or a doctor’s appearance in your hospital room. I’m learning that quite well. How? Well, this week has also held a broken water heater, expired (temporary) tags on my car, a puncture in a tire on my husband’s car, and my dad being diagnosed with an rare retina disease – Hymphema, that required immediate laser surgery and much follow-up.

Trials are necessary. They make me thankful – thankful for the days that aren’t like these hard ones, for vision, the ability to swallow, walk, talk, and eat. I’m thankful for my God Who is strength, power and wisdom, and that He will give me each of those things during this trial. I’m thankful for how He sends along just what we need when we’re weak. I read this today in a daily devotional:

Wisdom is the capacity to see things from God’s viewpoint.

My viewpoint is obscured. It’s clouded with my thinking and my emotions. I must see things from His viewpoint if I’m to be wise.

As we spent eleven hours in the ICU hospital room yesterday, watching my mother-in-law struggling with her breathing, and also praying for my dad having eye surgery, I tried to remind myself of the verses in James that I’ve memorized because the Bible shows me God’s viewpoint of my trial:

My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; – I can still have a deep, settled joy, though I’m hurting.

Blessed is the man that endureth temptation (trials), for when he is tried, he shall receive a crown of life, which the Lord has promised to them that love him – I will be rewarded for enduring in His strength.

But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. – His grace will equip me if I humble myself to realize I need it.

Go to now, ye that say, To day or to morrow we will go into such a city, and continue there a year, and buy and sell, and get gain: Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away. For that ye ought to say, If the Lord will, we shall live, and do this, or that. Only God knows what each day will hold! Consult Him first!

Is any among you afflicted? let him pray. Is any merry? let him sing psalms. Pray for my needs, but keep singing!

These are the things you think about when trial clouds are raining on your head – not when the sun is beaming! His umbrella of grace enables a child of God to endure! Trials aren’t just for the congregation – they touch the parsonage and its occupants, too! Pray we will be wise and see this from God’s viewpoint.

From the parsonage windows,