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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

Whitney here…

One of my lifelong indulgences is crab meat. Whether it’s vacation at the ocean, a special meal at my Nana’s house, or date night at a fancy restaurant in downtown Greenville, I am always happy to eat crab legs or crab cakes! Last summer my Nana found a recipe for crab cakes in Victoria magazine.  The recipe isn’t available online, so I’ll post it below.

This was our Sunday lunch menu yesterday:
Crab Cakes with Sauce Gribiche
Corn 

Crab Cakes
1 (8 oz) container craw-crab meat
1 (8 oz) container jumbo lump crab meat  (I bought Louis Kemp imitation crab meat on sale B1G1 at Ingles last week, and it tasted great)
1 T minced shallot
1/2 C mayo (here in South Carolina we only use Duke’s mayonnaise!
1 large egg, lightly beaten
1 T fresh chopped chives
1 T  fresh chopped dill 
1 tsp. fresh lemon zest
1/2 tsp. coarse salt
3/4 tsp. fresh ground black pepper
1 1/2 C panko crumbs, divided
1/4 C melted butter
1/2 C vegetable oil

In a medium bowl, combine crab meat, shallot, mayo, egg, chives, dill, lemon zest, salt, pepper and 3/4 cup panko. Stir to combine. Stir in melted butter. Shape into approximately 12 2-inch rounds. (I used a 1/4 cup measuring cup to divide the mixture into even portions) Dredge each round into remaining panko crumbs. Set aside.
In a 10-inch nonstick skillet, heat oil over medium high heat. Fry crab cakes for 3 to 4 minutes on each side, until lightly browned. Drain on a paper towel. Serve immediately. 

Sauce Gribiche (fancy tartar sauce)
3/4 C mayo
1 large hard boiled egg, chopped
1/8 C finely chopped cornichons  (I used pickle relish in place of the cornichons)
1 1/2 T drained and chopped capers 
1 1/2 T Dijon mustard
1 T chopped fresh dill
1/2 T chopped fresh tarragon
1/2 T minced shallot
salt and pepper to taste

Combine all ingredients and serve with crab cakes.

What is your favorite restaurant indulgence? Have you tried making it at home?

Whitney

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Freshen Up Friday

Hey!  Happy February!
It’s time to freshen up the kitchen sink!
Your kitchen sink can hold lots of germs and bacteria. I read an article recently that said you should take the dish drainer out of the sink and put it into the dishwasher once a week.  So last Sunday when the dishwasher drawer was relatively empty, I put the dish drainer in there, turned it on “fast” wash and let it get squeaky clean.  Why did I never think of that before?!  The hot water in the dishwasher gets rid of the the bacteria much more effectively than regular tap water would do!

I’m going to make it my weekend chore to toss the drainer in the dishwasher on either Saturday or Sunday.
If you don’t have a dishwasher, boil water and pour it into the sink and let your dish drainer soak in the steamy water 10 minutes.

Another great way to freshen up your kitchen sink is to fill the sink with hot water, a couple drops of dish soap and about 1/4 cup of bleach. Yes, I use a little bleach.  Just rinse everything well.  It is the best way to disinfection    Throw the dish cloth in the water too.  Let it soak 15 minutes. 

*Note: the use of sponges isn’t recommended due to the bacteria that they hold.

  Drain the water.  Sprinkle the sink with baking soda and scrub the sink and the strainer – top and bottom.  That’s another bacterial grabber!    

Rinse the sink well.  Stand back and admire the shine and clean fragrance!

See you in church Sunday!

Be refreshed,

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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

A little more than a week ago was my husband’s birthday.  As is our tradition, he got breakfast in bed!  I fixed one his favorite meals – Eggs Benedict, set it on a tray, then snapped the picture above and posted it on Facebook with my birthday greetings to my parson.  It wasn’t long before a friend sent me a message saying,

“I see many devotionals right in this one picture Denise, for instance…
the cup that HE would like not just one you thought was pretty.”

I had to smile when I read that because the thought about the cup did indeed pass through my mind.  We have a “Happy Birthday” mug that we always pull out for the birthday honoree’, and I remember lifting my hand up to the cupboard where that mug was stored, but then stopped short, thinking, “I know he’d much rather use his new UK mug than that little cup.”  I withdrew my hand from the cupboard and instead, poured the steamy liquid into his favorite mug.  
It’s just a little thing, but isn’t it all the little things that can add up to big things?  It’s the little irritants that can drive a spouse to distraction, and likewise, the little gestures of thoughtfulness are even more important.  I wish I could say I do that consistently. I don’t. It takes each of us mindfully thinking, 
  • What would he like?
  • How can I serve him today?  
  • What is his favorite (food, leisure activity, movie, dessert, restaurant, gift)?
The world makes us believe it’s all about me, but that’s not what the Scripture says. Instead we are to, (Let each) esteem others better than themselves. Phil. 2:3

These are just little things, but they can change a marriage.  So, what can you do today to show your husband that you care more about what he wants than what pleases you?  
From the parsonage windows,

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Are You Snowed Under?

 

Michigan snows came plentifully in my childhood.  The depths were overwhelming, often measuring more than a yard stick.  Stepping off the porch of our house, I would take a step forward, lifting my booted foot high in the air to take the next stride.  Snow would slide down inside my boot, sending silvery shivers from my heel to my toes.  One winter the snow was so plentiful, that my sweet dad made a tunnel in one of the drifts; creating an igloo out of the depth of the icy precipitation.

These are the kinds of winters that you could call being “snowed under.”  It was plentiful; it was all around us.  We could not escape it.  It hid the green earth for months.  It was our world until the warmth of springtime finally emerged.

Have you ever considered the idea that you might be “snowed under” the focus of a wrong ambition?  Everywhere you turn, This is on your mind.  This is what drives you.  This distracts you from the real goal: –  obedience to the Word of God and eternity.

C. S. Lewis said,

“I must keep alive in myself the desire for my true country, which I shall not find till after death; I must never let it get snowed under or turned aside; I must make it the main object of life to press on to that other country and to help others to do the same.”

You cannot watch someone die without doing a lot of thinking about your own life, and what awaits you, personally, after this life is over.  I don’t want to get “snowed under” so that I’m not realizing that this life is preparation for the next.  Whatever I put my hands to today should be influenced by the understanding that  just as spring is coming soon to the Michiganders, heaven and eternity are just beyond for us.  It is healthy for us to think about heaven – our future home on a regular basis.

As I watched my mother-in-law living out her last days, I asked the Lord to help me to make my days fruitful for His honor and glory.  I want my life to count for the Lord, not so I can gain an entrance into heaven, but because I have His promise that I’m going there some day, and I want to lay up treasures there for His honor and glory.  I don’t want to get “snowed under” all the other stuff of this life and lose my perspective.

Our Sunday school teacher put it this way last Sunday –

Don’t fear failure.  Fear being successful at something that doesn’t really matter.

  • ·        Young woman, don’t spend more time pouring over your phone, Facebook and Pinterest than you do God’s Word.
  • ·  Moms, don’t care more keeping a spotless house than you do teaching your children about the God that loves them and has a purpose for their lives.
  • ·  Ladies, don’t sit and worry about the hurts and heartaches you’re facing – go find someone to pour your life into.
  • ·  Friend, make today count for eternity.  

Don’t get snowed under!

With love,