Marriage

New Year Plans for Marriage

A new year is like a new journal; it’s all clean and fresh with no ragged edges on the cover.  Its binding is all in tact and there are no ugly ink smudges on the pages. A new year brings with it lots of promise.  As you consider the year ahead of you, why not stop and also consider the life of your husband as well?  I don’t mean we should track out his life for 2012, but that as we make plans for ourselves, we need to also consider our marriage.  Sit down together and discuss:

  • What areas need to be strengthened?
  • How did you fail to respect him last year?  How can you change that?
  • What kinds of dates could you plan now that will ensure that you have quality time together?  Mark down dates you want to celebrate, then also find time each month to mark out for one another.  If you don’t guard those times, they will get covered over with the “stuff of life.”  Here’s a suggestion to take your dates one step deeper – Get a journal and make it your Date Journal. Use it to record the things dates you and your husband have this year. Keep it a secret and give it to him as a Christmas present next December. It will bring back special memories of your times together.
  • Talk about financial plans for the year – things you need to save for, giving towards Faith Promise Missions, and things you’re dreaming about – like a vacation, or the purchase of a home,
  • How could your marriage reach out to the lost?  Discuss way that you could to minister to others as a couple in this next year.
  • Is there a book you could begin reading together that would be a challenge to you both as you walk with the Lord? 

Each day we are filling in the pages of our life’s journal.  Rather than letting it get marred up with blunders and regrets, make plans to fill it up with marital blessings.  As they say, – “Time’s a wastin’!”  Make your plans now for a year that will find you and your husband walking closer to one another and the Lord.

With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

This weekend I tried a new recipe for breakfast.  Since I was having company (yay!), I wanted to have a breakfast that was ready quickly, but was also warm and hardy.  I had heard about Baked Oatmeal, and was intrigued with the thought of a dish of oatmeal filled with fruit and nuts that was not only healthy and quick, but also delicious! 

This dish whipped together in no time flat the night before. Then in the morning, I simply popped it into the oven to bake while I got dressed. Ta-da! Hot breakfast on the table for my guests, along with fresh Cinnamon-raisin toast made with my sour dough starter.

We were blessed to have my sister and her husband with us this weekend.  I loved having them here so much.  We celebrated New Years together on Saturday as folks in their 50’s would do (which means we did not  stay up ’til midnight!).  We enjoyed a lovely dinner in Asheville, and then went to Grove Park Inn to enjoy the gingerbread houses, as well as the beauty of the inn.

Sunday dinner was also intended to be simple – and it was. 
I repeated a recipe I’ve shared before (gasp!) .

Baked Potatoes
Steamed Broccoli with lemon and butter
Pear/Blue Cheese Salad w/Cranberry Vinaigrette
Assorted Cookies and Ice Cream

The Pork chops are a great Sunday dinner because they’re cooked in under 15 minutes.  To speed the Sunday dinner preparation, on Saturday I:
  • Made the honey-mustard glaze for the pork chops
  • Prepped all the salad ingredients
  • Made the salad dressing
  • Set the table

Company meals and/or Sunday dinner can be a blessing, rather than a stressful event with simple recipes like these and a little preparation ahead of time. 

Sunday night after church we had Cincinnati Chili.  This is my favorite recipe because of the addition of some different kinds of flavors added, including cinnamon and a little cocoa!  With the temperatures falling, it was a great meal to have cooking in the crock pot while we were at the evening service.  Here’s my recipe:

Cincinnati Chili

2 pounds ground beef (I use ground turkey)
1 medium onion
1 Tbl vinegar
2 Tbl chili powder
2 tsp cumin
1/2 tsp garlic
1/4 tsp cayenne pepper (optional)
1 15-oz. can tomato sauce (I add another small can as well)
1 cup water
 2 cans of mild chili beans

Sweet Spices
1 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp allspice
1 tsp unsweetened cocoa

Brown meat and onions in a  pan.  Drain fat.  Add the vinegar, chili powder, cumin, garlic powder and pepper.  Stir and cook 5 minutes.  Add the tomato sauce, chili beans and water.  If you want, add the sweet spices.  Cover and bring to boil.  Reduce heat to low and simmer 1 hour.  Stir occasionally.  Serve with cheddar cheese and/or sour cream.

I loved having guests this weekend!  What a great way to bring in the New Year!

What was cooking in your kitchen this weekend? 

From my parsonage kitchen,

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Freshen Up Friday

We love our sweet iced tea here in the south. I always say I hate drinking my calories. In keeping with that, I have sweetened my tea with Sweet and Low for years.  Last year I switched to Stevia, a natural non-calorie sweetener, but have found that it left my tea with a funny taste.  I thought maybe we’d get used to it, but nope –  we didn’t. 

So, in an attempt to improve my iced tea, I recently tried a product I hadn’t seen before – Domino Light.  It’s half real sugar and half Stevia.  It has half the calories of real sugar and it doesn’t take as much to sweeten as real sugar would.  I used about half a cup in a half gallon of tea.  It tastes like “the real thing” ladies and gentlemen!  Yum!  It is expensive, but I had a coupon, and like I said, it doesn’t take as much as regular sugar.  I’m going to save it just for iced tea. 

If you’re looking for a way to sweeten your tea and save on calories, you need to try this!  This will freshen your tea and your diet plan (we all have one at the end of the year, don’t we?).

Have a glass of sweet tea and
Be refreshed,
Denise

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A Memorial Of Her

Here we stand on the brink of a new year.  Turn around and look behind you.  How will the life you lived last year be remembered by others?  I didn’t ask how your circumstances pleased you, nor how good your year was, but I asked about your life.  How will you be remembered for the way you lived your life last year? 

As I was recently reading through Mark 14, I read about Mary pouring the costly ointment on Jesus’ head.  Judas reprimands her, saying that the ointment could’ve been sold for much and then the money given to the poor.  However, Jesus answers him in verse 9, Verily I say unto you, Wheresoever this gospel shall be preached throughout the whole world, this also that she hath done shall be spoken of for a memorial of her.  Mary will always be remembered for this act that she did for Jesus.  It showed her great love for Him.  That is how we remember Mary of Bethany…she loved Jesus!

This passage made me stop and ask myself, “For what do I want to be remembered?”  Knowing that God’s Word reveals His Son, and that it is the Mind of Christ, my answer is that I want to be remembered as a woman who loved, knew and obeyed the Word of God.  After answering that, I realized that there has to be a plan of action in order to accomplish that goal.  How will I gain a greater love, knowledge and desire to obey the Word?  I am asking God to reveal the process so I can follow through in the year to come.

We can’t do anything about the time that has already passed.  If we have regrets about last year, we must let go of it and look forward to 2012.  We must each ask what we want to be memorialized for in this next year, then set about a plan to accomplish that, with God’s help.  What will be spoken of as a memorial of you next year?  Today is the time to plan for that!

I’ve shared my desire for my memorial, now, tell me – for what do you want your life to memorialized?

With love,

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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

Christmas celebration at The Cunningham’s started the week before Christmas.  We celebrated early with Alli before she left for Antigua.  Here she is getting dishes for the table from the china cabinet…

While we open gifts, Liza Jane always tries to find a box to nest in.  She tried this oblong one, but her size wouldn’t let her inside.  Hmmm, maybe Weight Watchers is in her new year’s resolution….

Even 20 year-olds like getting stockings…
Sisters, but also best friends!

Then, on the 23rd, since it was just my hubby and me, he stole me away for the night.  We enjoyed Dollywood and all their lights!
The 7:00 parade was fun to watch!  Here came a speed boat all decked out…

The next morning we enjoyed a light breakfast at Applewood Farm House.  It was decorated beautifully inside and out!

On Christmas Eve, Liza was excited to have another chance to find a box that was more her size!

It was great having our daughter and son-in-law here for Christmas services at Boones Creek!

We came home from church and finished getting dinner ready.  I don’t know what I would have done without my two assistants – Whitney and her dad!  I’m really good at giving orders asking for help.

At the end of Christmas Day, Whitney and Paul had to head for home, but first, they had to sign the guest book – it’s a tradition for all of our guests!
We’d love to have your name in our book!  We so enjoy having our family and friends here.  Please stop in any time you’re able! 
From inside our parsonage windows,