aging

Finding the Golden Years Truly Golden

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I like to think I’m organized, but it seems like more and more, I’m looking for something.  Recently it was a recipe.  “I KNOW it’s in this box.  I’ve always filed it under ‘Desserts,’ but I don’t see it.  I remember that it’s on a recipe card with my mom’s name at the top.  The card looks like watermelon colors.”  I could see it mentally. My eyes were peeled for that color in that box of hundreds of recipe cards of every color. If I could find that recipe I could make some delicious cookies! I did eventually lay my hands on it and found that I was skimming right over top of it because I was looking for the wrong thing.  The card looked completely different than what I pictured.

Growing up, we all heard about “The Golden Years.”  The picture that was painted in my mind was of lawn chairs,, lemonade and leisure! Those senior citizens in my mind’s eye were doing NOTHING except resting or traveling in their RV.  Seemed pretty nice in my youthful mind.  

But as I’ve aged and listened to senior citizens, I’ve heard quite the opposite of that imagined scenario.  I hear Senior Citizens crying, “And these are the Golden years?!  There’s nothing Golden about these years!”  But I’ve come to understand from God’s Word that it isn’t that the Golden years are so horrible, it’s like my search for that cookie recipe, perhaps  the eyes of seniors are missing it because we’re looking for the wrong thing.  

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Embracing a Staycation for Spiritual Renewal and Physical Rest

What a lovely season of ministering this has been. In the last ten weeks we have been to I believe seven different churches/camps/events. We’ve pretty much been home at the front end of each week, and then gone for a long weekend.

How kind the Lord is to grant these opportunities to serve Him, to allow for safe travels, to have the blessing of meeting so many precious people who have become sweet friends and have so much fun while serving! On top of all that, Dale and I get to do it together!

I will admit, however, that it feels nice to know that our spring ministry trips are completed and we have a time of refreshment before summer. Time for a little REST.

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Motherhood

Feeling Like “The Worst Mom Ever?”

Mommy life.  What a blessing!  To be entrusted with a little life (or two or three) is a wonderful privilege that most girls dream of all their childhood.  But it’s tough some moments.  Some days.  Some weeks.  It’s easy to live under the feeling of not being good enough.

When your three year-old smears lipstick all over your mom’s new carpet, or your son throws a fit at the Dollar Store because you wouldn’t buy him the treasure he found, it’s easy to wonder if you’re the worst mom ever.

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The Scenic Route

The Scenic Route of VA, PA and NJ

Last weekend we had the joy of traveling to NJ to Tri-State Bible Camp. My husband chose to drive, and decided it would be smart if we split the trip into two days. This gave us time to meander on “The scenic route,” one of our favorite things to do! It was such a fun adventure! Let me share some of the favorite places where we stopped, shopped and ate on our way their and back.

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Christian Life

The Blurry Vision of People-Pleasing

I remember the day I picked up my new glasses.  I hadn’t had my prescription updated for three years.  At that time, I wore contacts most of the day, so it didn’t seem to affect me that much.  But I knew it was time to make the change when I had my exam and the doctor told me my eyes weren’t working together and that a prism would fix the problem. “Well, let’s do it!” I was fitted and the order was made.

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