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Paper Napkin Fold/Arrangement

If you’re having a crowd for dinner and serving buffet style, here’s  a fun way to display paper napkins rather than stacking them in a pile!

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Here’s a video tutorial:

 

I love to make even a simple meal pretty with small embellishments like this.  I love using my cloth napkins, but at an event that you want to make it a little more casual and use paper napkins, it can still be pretty!

paper napkin arrangement

These slipped out of the tea pots very easily.  I had the silverware in Ball mason jars -a tall  one for knives, then smaller ones for the forks and spoons.  I always place the silverware at the end of the buffet so guests don’t have to hold it while filling their plates.

That’s it for me!  Hope you have a great weekend!  We have a really, really special weekend ahead!  I’ll tell you all about it next week!

Stay refreshed,

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Teaching Your Child To Work

What would you do if your child came to you and told you they felt they needed to be doing an hour to an hour and a half of chores during the summer months?  Feel their forehead for fever?  Gotcha!

A friend of mine told me recently that her daughter, did indeed say that to her!  The daughter had it all figured up that if she did 90 minutes of chores, she’d still have 6 hours of free time during the day!

I think sometimes the problems that summer can bring is due to too much time on a child’s hands.  They end up getting “bored,” or into trouble because they need a little more structure in their day.

Giving your child responsibilities will also lighten your load!  The chores they do will, of course, need to be overseen by you, but as they learn, then you can step back further and further.  Here are suggestions for young children:

Preschooler’s chores

  1. Pull the covers up on their bed and smooth it out.
  2. Wipe baseboards with a rag.
  3. Match socks
  4. Put toys into a bin
  5. Set the table
  6. Fold wash cloths
  7. Sweep small messes with a dustpan and brush
  8. Dust
  9. Water flowers with a watering can
  10. Empty small trash cans into larger one

Children 5-7

  1. Make the bed
  2. Feed pets
  3. Wipe the table after a meal
  4. Help prepare a meal or dessert
    1. Place pre-sliced Salad ingredients into bowl
    2. Make a sandwich
    3. Make toast
    4. Place cupcake liners in pan
    5. Help mix ingredients
  5. Fold their laundry – don’t expect perfection
  6. Pick up trash in car
  7. Carry items from the car to the house
  8. Pull weeds – show which ones are the weeds!
  9. Assist in putting away groceries
  10. Sort colors and whites in laundry piles

Children 8-10

  1. Clean the bathroom
  2. Load the dishwasher
  3. Unload the dishwasher
  4. Bring in the mail
  5. Sweep the porch/patio
  6. Fold laundry
  7. Use a vegetable peeler on carrots and potatoes
  8. Shake out rugs
  9. Measure ingredients for cookies or pancakes
  10. Make a simple lunch

10 – 12 Years old

  1. Mop floors
  2. Vacuum
  3. Wash car
  4. Cook dinner
  5. Iron
  6. Watch younger siblings
  7. Mow the grass

You’re doing your child a favor by teaching them to work around the house.  They need these skills, and will have learned in a very profitable way that

The desire accomplished is sweet to the soul!

Proverbs 13:19

After they’ve worked hard to clean the family room or bathroom, they might be a lot more protective of the other family members (themselves included) dropping piles on the coffee table, or leaving the bathroom a mess after bath time! Aaaand, they will be using their day productively with less time to let boredom set in on them!

Enjoy summer and help your child enjoy it, too, by teaching them to work wisely!

What other chores do you teach your children to do?

With love,

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Christian Life

Teamwork

If you’ve followed my blog since last summer or before, you’ll know that one of the loves of my heart is the mentoring ministry, Apples of Gold.  It’s a fun means of mentoring  using cooking, teaching and fellowship.  We meet for six weeks, three hours each session.  I’ve had two full six week sessions in the last two summers, and it has been both a blessing and a blast!

I decided before our next session starts in July that I needed to have a reunion with the first two groups.  So, our first reunion was held this past Monday in my home.  I asked each lady to bring a dish to share and I provided the main dish of Pork Tenderloin with Brown Sugar Balsamic Glaze (one of my favorites of the recipes we made!).

We had quite a spread!  They brought salads, vegetables, rolls, and desserts and they were all so delicious! We enjoyed a great time of fellowship around the table as we ate our supper.

After the meal was over, I asked everyone to bring their chair to the dining room table.  Then we pulled out Jenga.  Are you familiar with it?  Little pieces of wood are all stacked up – one row going one direction, the next row going the other.  The object of the game is to pull or push out a piece and then set it on the top without knocking the stack over!

It gets very quiet when each player takes a turn.  We hardly breathed until the piece was safe and the tower of blocks still from its swaying.  And even though we were each competing against one another, there was a collective sigh and applause when the opponent was successful!

 

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There was even some coaching going on~

“No, don’t move that one, it has no support underneath!”

“You can do it!”

“Careful!  It’s shaking!”

One of the players would playfully say,

“I pass!”

She could see that it was risky and she wasn’t sure she wanted to be the one who caused the crash!  We cheered her on and kept her in the game, however!  And guess what?  She wasn’t the one who pulled the wrong piece out!  I did!  But it was fun and we laughed at even the ending of the game.

Following Jenga, I asked everyone to gather in the living room.  I shared with them that there was a method to the madness of us playing that game.  You see, the real reason I asked all those women over to my home in the first place was to try to encourage them to in their spiritual lives (okay, and I wanted that tasty meal!).  I wanted to challenge their hearts to have a strategy to keep them moving forward in their Christian walk.  I reminded them that, just as we cheered one another on in the game, the mentors and I were cheering them on!  We want to see them succeed in being a  godly woman for the glory of the Lord!  We don’t want to find one of them “dropping out” because the challenge is too great!

We ended by pairing off and praying together for the burdens on their hearts.  It was such a blessing to me.  They’ll never know what a joy it is to see them continuing on faithful and dedicated to growing in God’s Word, in prayer, and in serving our great God.

We all do better when we work as a team.  With whom are you accountable?  Who is cheering for you and challenging you?  If you don’t have someone, pray about it.  The Lord will bring an encourager along for you!  Whom are you encouraging?  Maybe it’s time to check in with them.  Teamwork is better than going it alone!

Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
Ecclesiastes 4:9

Stay encouraged with the help of your team!

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Christian Life · Uncategorized

The Atmosphere of Eternity

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Last Sunday  as my husband began preaching from Revelation 8, the emphasis of the message dealt with living in the atmosphere of eternity.  I’m pretty sure we all had many points of conviction about being so busy we miss out on what is best.  He said If we do live in the atmosphere of eternity, life is simple(r).  Don’t we all long for that?!  I sure do!

As I pondered the message, here are my applications of what that kind of mindset will do for me ~

If I live for eternity every single day:

  • I’ll have a much easier time understanding what I should be doing each day.
  • I will lay aside that which would distract me.
  • I can say “no” to things (or requests) that are outside of what is most important.
  • I will prioritize people, rather than things.
  • I will let that which matters for eternity matter most to me.
  • I’ll be ready to serve the Lord.
  • I’ll be giving others the Gospel.
  • I’ll be becoming wiser in God’s Word.
  • I’ll be more in prayer.

Let that which will matter when we’re caught up matter most.

The great use of life is to spend it on something that will outlast us.

How are you living today in the atmosphere of eternity?

With love,

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The BEST Side Dishes for Summer & a Sweet Frozen Treat

On Memorial Day we planned, like a million others, to grill hamburgers at home.  We invited our family that lives here and some dear friends of ours, from a town nearby.  Now for a menu!

Of course we’d make the famous stuffed burgers I’ve shared here before, but the whole picnic is wrapped around the sides!  If you don’t have something great, it’s just another picnic!

Alli offered to bring dessert – a Peach Crostata – yum!  But she begged asked if I’d make the Triple-Bean Bake with Bacon that I’ve made for about five years now. I’m not a huge fan of Baked beans, but this recipe has changed that!  Our whole family loves this dish, and our guests on Memorial Day raved, too!  I also decided I had to make my favorite potato salad, which is Barefoot Contessa’s recipe.  It’s sooo yummy!

Menu
Herb and Cheese Stuffed Burgers
Dill Potato Salad
Triple Bean Bake with Bacon
Deviled Eggs
Peach Crostata and Vanilla Ice Cream

Here’s a picture of the spread:

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The Triple Bean Bake with Bacon ~

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Triple Bean Bake with Bacon

Ingredients

  • 1/2 pound bacon strips, cut into 1/2-inch pieces
  • 2/3 cup chopped onion (about 1 medium)
  • 1 can (15-1/2 ounces) great northern beans, undrained
  • 1 can (16 ounces) butter beans, rinsed and drained
  • 1 can (16 ounces) kidney beans, rinsed and drained
  • 3/4 cup packed brown sugar
  • 1 tablespoon prepared horseradish
  • 1 tablespoon yellow mustard

Directions

  1. In a Dutch oven, cook bacon over medium heat until crisp. Remove to paper towels with a slotted spoon; drain, reserving 1 tablespoon drippings. Add onion to drippings; cook and stir over medium heat until tender.
  2. Stir in the remaining ingredients; return bacon to pan. Transfer to a greased 2-qt. baking dish. Cover and bake at 325° for 30-35 minutes or until heated through. Uncover and bake until desired consistency. Yield: 8 servings.

I put out small dishes for the beans to be put into…for all those that don’t like their food to mix.  =)

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I have to end with sharing one sweet frozen treat I made for our Bible Club this week.  Since we were finishing the Wordless Book and talking about the Green page, I wanted a green snack.  Well, it turned out yellow, but it tasted so good the children didn’t mind!  Here’s my tweak on a recipe I found.

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Lime Popsicles – Makes 6

1/2 Can Frozen Limeade concentrate
1 1/2 cups water
6 oz. Lemon lime soda
4 oz. Pineapple juice
1 tsp. Lime zest

Mix and pour into molds.  Freeze until set.  Enjoy!wp-1464987979428.jpg

The children and I really enjoyed these last week after having Bible club outside on a hot day!  They’re so refreshing! They only took a few minutes to mix together the night before and they literally cost me pennies!  

I’m anxious to try out some other recipes with my molds.  Does anyone have a great frozen yogurt pop you’ve made and love?  

With love from my country kitchen,

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