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A Peek Inside the Parsonage

Starry-eyed brides love every detail about their new husband.  His cute little ways of eating, the way he drinks his coffee in one swallow, the way he needs her to help him pick out his clothes, the pitiful way he pouts when she’s away – it’s all new and precious. 

Then life marches onto the scene – children come, trials pound on their front door, wrinkles are pressed into his forehead and her eyes, and the things that were once “precious” somehow become areas of irritation.  “Does he have to slurp his coffee?!”  “Can’t he do anything for himself, for heaven’s sake?”

Sad to say, it happens in the parsonage too.  I’ve recognized the ugly monster of criticism sitting at our breakfast table, whispering in my ears the irritants that went from my ear into my heart.  For many years now, I’ve realized the importance of asking God to give me a stronger love each day for my husband.  Oh, not that I ever didn’t love him-we have had a wonderful marriage…but I, too often, dwelt on the negatives instead of counting my blessings, which are far greater.

The Lord brought to my mind just recently that He’s answered that prayer of increasing my love for my parson through what I’m calling our “Vision Trial.”  The Lord allowed seeing his physical weakness to tender my heart in compassion.  Who cares about those silly little issues when sight or blindness are the two options before you?  You don’t bother with worrying about the aging process moving in a little too quickly when you’re just thankful you have today to sit together and sip your coffee.

The enemy wants to destroy our marriages.  Pray and ask the Lord to help you to love your husband more and more each day.  If we ask anything according to His will, he promises to hear us!  This is a prayer He will certainly answer!

It’s time to brag:  What do you love about your husband?  I love that my husband has a tender heart.

From my parsonage windows,

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Retreat Notes

I sat down with my notes from our recent ladies’ retreat so I could be reminded of the truths I heard.  Here are some of the highlights that I learned (and was convicted of) from Carol Trahan’s teaching…

  • It’s absurd to give the God of heaven advice and not submission.

  • Every sin grows in a spirit of discontentment.

  • Through the greatest suffering the greatest love was shown.

  • The things that come into my life are Divinely permitted or Divinely prepared.

  • “Best” is anything that brings me to a greater dependence on Christ.

  • A woman walking in pride is prey for the enemy.

  • Dwell on Scripture until it changes you.

  • You want to know the will of God?  Be a thankful woman.

  • Motherhood brings out who we really are.

  • When I saturate my mind with Truth there is peace.

  • The answer to every struggle I face is, “I believe God.”

  • Suffering and glory are two partners that travel together.

  • When you see nothing happening, don’t lose hope.

  • Love  like God’s love can be trusted.

This was teaching that can change a woman’s life and outlook!

For you ladies that attended the retreat, is there another thought that you’ve been dwelling on since the weekend?

With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

Life is busy, isn’t it?  But in between the busyness is the need for food!  That doesn’t mean you need to go out.  A meal at home is so inviting, and many times more tasty, and more conducive to good fellowship!  Thinking, planning, and preparing ahead of time is the answer! 

The meal I had yesterday came after a busy retreat weekend at our church, but I’m so glad I didn’t wimp out and not have guests in my home, or I would have missed out on the blessing!

The week before, I made an apple pie and froze it, unbaked.  I also made a Frozen Waldorf Salad and made homemade rolls to put in the freezer.  Almost half of the meal was done early in the week and tucked safely into the deep freeze!  What a relief food in the freezer is at the end of a busy day or week!

My Menu:
 
Rosemary Pork Roast with Carrots
Green Beans
Mashed Potatoes and Gravy
Frozen Waldorf Salad
Apple Pie with Praline Ice Cream and Caramel Sauce
 
 

Rosemary Pork Roast
 
This roast is really flavorful due to the marinade.  It’s easy and quick to prep.  When you get home from church, you just have to make the broth into gravy!
 
Pork Roast
 
1 Boneless Pork Loin Roast (3 to 31/2 pounds)
1/2 C chopped Onions
1 1/4 C chicken broth, divided
1/4 C cider/red wine vinegar
2 T olive oil
4 cloves garlic, minced
1 T. dried crushed rosemary
1/4 tsp red pepper
1 t salt
 
2 T cornstarch
1/4 C cold water
 
Place Roast in a large re-sealable plastic bag.  Combine onions, 1/4 cup broth, vinegar, oil, garlic, rosemary and pepper; pour over roast.  Seal and shake to mix the marinade all around roast.  Refrigerate 4-8 hours (I did mine overnight).  Remove roast and place with fat side up in an ungreased shallow roasting  pan. 
 
Combine marinade with remaining broth, pour over roast.  Sprinkle with salt. (I added carrots around also.) Bake, uncovered at 350 for 2 to 2 1/2 hours (I did mine on 300 and left for Sunday school) .
 
Remove roast to warm serving platter and let rest at least 10 minutes before slicing.  Meanwhile, combine cornstarch and water.  heat the pan juices in the same roasting dish and stir in the cornstarch and water; bring to boil and let cook, stirring constantly, until juices are thickened. 
 
Serve roast with gravy.
 
 
The Frozen Waldorf Salad is loved by everyone who tries it.  The sauce around the Waldorf’s part of the apple is creamy and yummy as it thaws.  Mmmmm!
 
 

Frozen Waldorf Salad

1 20 oz. Can crushed pineapple
1 cup sugar
2 eggs, beaten
1 cup celery
2 medium red apples, chopped
1 cup chopped pecans
1 cup heavy cream, whipped

Drain pineapple, reserve the juice.  Place juice in a saucepan with sugar, eggs and salt.  Cook stirring constantly over medium low heat until slightly thickened.  Remove from the heat, cool.  Stir in pineapple, celery, apples and pecans.  Fold in whipped cream.  Pour into a 9 inch square pan.  Cover and freeze until firm.  Let stand at room temperature for about 15 minutes before cutting.

I failed to get a picture of our dessert of Apple Pie, but let me just tell you what I did.  I placed a piece of pie on the plate and a scoop of Pralines and cream Ice cream, then drizzled my homemade warm caramel sauce over all.  It takes apple pie to another level!  =)

Did you cook yesterday?  What did you serve?

The winners of my 1,000th post give away were:

Lynne Siglin and Debbie Duncan.  I have sent an email to both ladies.  Congratulations!

From my parsonage kitchen,

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Freshen Up Friday

When was the last time you got out and had fellowship with a friend?  Women tend to be so busy with life that they seldom make time for fellowship that will encourage and strengthen them as a Christian woman.  We need each other. 

I love what Paul says in Philippians 3:17, 18 – Brethren, be followers together of me, and mark them which walk so as ye have us for an ensample. For many walk, of whom I have told you often, and now tell you even weeping, that they are the enemies of the cross of Christ.  This is a warning not to fellowship with the wrong people, as well as an encouragement to fellowship with the right people!  Paul is saying, “Walk with people like me and steer clear of someone who will take you down the wrong path!”  This is a reminder to me that we need the influence of strong believers in our lives. 

What a blessing it is to get together with another Christian woman, who loves God, loves His Word, and loves doing the things that will honor the Lord!  Can I encourage you to schedule time to get with a godly friend in the next week?  Share a cup of coffee and talk about what you’re reading in the Word. Share your burdens with one another.  Pray together.  It will refresh your heart and hers!

Tonight begins our ladies’ retreat at Boones Creek Bible Church!  I am so excited!  If you’re in the area, please join us.  If you click on the link to our church, you will find the details.

See you then!

Be refreshed,

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Thanks for Reading!

Today is my 1,000th post here on RefreshHer!
When I first started this blog in 2008, I had no idea how long I would write nor how often.  I just had found out about this new venue in which to connect with the world, and since it involved writing, I knew it was something I wanted to try!  You see, from the time I was in the fourth grade and had a teacher who stirred my love for creative writing, I have been putting my thoughts on paper (and screen!).  I wrote poems, short stories and diaries from that time until now, leaving quite a stack of journals and folders! 
 
While there are many who are far better at it than I, I love to write, and my greatest pleasure comes from using my experiences and lessons to teach/encourage others.  My first target audience for this blog was my church ladies.  By “my” I mean the ladies that I go to church with.  Yes, they are mine.    =)  I thought this would be a great way to stay connected with them during the week, to reinforce things we were doing at church, and to encourage them in their daily walk with the Lord.  I’m thankful for others who were invited to read, and for those who have simply “found” this simple blog on accident and decided to follow it. 
 
Thanks to each of you for reading.  Thank you for your encouragement.  Thank you for your patience.  I know Blogger has real issues with trying to leave a comment; something that I cannot help, but am praying about how to remedy.  I appreciate you stopping in to read my simple thoughts or ideas. 
 
 
So, on this day of the 1,000th post, I am going to have my first true giveaway! I don’t have sponsors like many bloggers do, so this I decided to share with two readers two of my favorite things.  Years ago I started using  Priority Planner by Linda Dillow.  It is now out of print, but much to my delight, I found a planner that is almost exactly like it!  It has a place to plan for each day, a place for your menu, a perforated sheet for the grocery shopping list, a place for phone numbers, and even stickers to add to the pages as reminders of birthdays, appointments or calls that need to be made.  This book made my life as a Stay-at-home mom so much simpler!  I am giving away one
 
 2013 Mom’s Home Engagement Planner
This is a little hard to see, but there’s a space for each day, a “To do” list on the right, grocery list on far left and This Week’s Menu on far right.
 
Another thing I love is seasonal decorations – especially for fall.  I have lots of it, because it’s so homey and fun.  Recently I was in my favorite store – TJ Maxx and found this adorable wooden picture for fall. 
How cute is that?  Sooooo, another person will win the fall picture above to add a lovely fall touch to their home! 

 
Here’s how you can enter to win:
  1. Go to the Facebook Page and “like” this page (if you haven’t already). Then…
  2. Click here to go to the giveaway page.  It will take you to a form where you will leave your name and email address.
My husband will choose two random numbers to select the winners.  Winners will be notified by email.  Entries will be accepted until midnight Saturday night, Sept. 15,  and will be announced on Monday’s post!
Have a great Thursday!