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Who Is Chained To You Today?

Friday is here!  You made it through the week!  Let me ask you, where has this week led you?  To the grocery store?  On an airplane?  Waiting in a line at the post office?  Seated in a lobby near strangers? What did those places mean to you?  How aware were you that those places were your opportunities to share the Gospel with others?

As believers, we have all probably been reminded many times that we need to be a witness for Christ.  This is the area  of my Chrisitian life that I feel weakest.  Why is it so hard to tell others of our wonderful Savior?  Many times I get so caught up in what I’m doing that I miss the who of the task.  If I’m shopping for groceries, I’m concentrating on my list, my coupons and the task at hand.  If I’m at the library, I’m thinking about what I’m looking for.  If I’m at home and a delivery is made or a worker comes to the house, I’m concerned about what they’re doing instead of what I can do for them.  I’m truly asking God to change my focus from me to others.  He’s used the Scriptures recently to reveal how to do that.

As I read recently about Paul in the book of Acts, I was struck by this thought – wherever he was, he saw the opportunity, not the task or problem.  His arrests didn’t anger him – he shared his testimony of his conversion!  His imprisonments didn’t stifle his ministry – they became his ministry!  The chains gave him the chance to be very close to a couple of men where he had their undivided attention.  He used those times to give the Gospel.  People’s lives were changed as a result!

So now, I’m asking the Lord to help me to be aware each day of those  who I am “chained to” that day.  If I have to wait in line somewhere, the people near me are “chained to me”!  I need to be ready to share the Gospel!  The girl who cleaned our hotel room this week was “chained to me”.  The person seated beside me on the airplane is “chained to me.”  I must be ready to share Jesus with them.  These folks can’t go anywhere, and a sovereign God put them in my path, and it is His will that I be obedient and tell them the Truth that will change their eternal destiny.  The reuslt?  Absolute joy!  I never go away sorry I told them!  Joy follows obedience!  If they trust Christ they won’t be sorry either!

So, who are you chained to today?  Don’t miss your opportunities to give the Gospel!

See you in church Sunday!

With love,

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Love People – Not Things

Better is little with righteousness than great revenues without right. 

Proverbs 16:8
The world would say, “Oh really?!” to the previous verse, but if you have ever watched a family be destroyed because of misplaced priorities, you would see that the Lord is so gracious to give us this warning.  Things don’t:
  • last
  • love
  • linger
  • listen

but people do!

Many young people don’t understand that they cannot have what their parents have right now.  It took their parents years to have a roomy house, or a second car, or a savings account.  It’s not worth the sacrifice necessary to try to accumulate wealth.  It’s truly crazy unwise to exchange righteousness for things.  They’ll never satisfy.  If the Lord blesses you in years to come with any type of monetary wealth, there’s certainly nothing wrong with that – just use it for Him.

Here’s the perfect illustration of a man whose life wasn’t about things – but people –

“The body of David Livingstone was buried in England where he was born, but his heart was buried in the Africa he loved. At the foot of a tall tree in a small African village the natives dug a hole and placed in it the heart of this man who they loved and respected. If your heart were to be buried in the place you loved most during life, where would it be? In your pocketbook? In an appropriate space down at the office? Where is your heart?”

With love,

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A Peek Into the Parsonage – Companionship in Marriage

Okay, so where was I yesterday? On a sweet get-away with my husband. We went away for Valentines’ day, but the blessing of it is that we don’t have to use Valentines’ to make up for the 364 other days of the year. It’s just another day of enjoying married life.

By that I mean that we date each other – and we do it regularly. It’s not really a novel idea, is it? That’s how we found out we wanted to get married – we dated! Now to stay close and to keep things getting better every day, we continue to date.

Those dates are planned and eagerly anticipated. Sometimes my husband comes up with an idea and sometimes I do the planning. We mark out and set aside time for it. A “real date” is not running to Lowe’s for paint and picking up fast food on the way home. No, it’s time together getting to do what we enjoy.

Sometimes we meander through a small town and its shops…

Sometimes we take a drive on the Blue Ridge Parkway…

Sometimes we find a special place for dinner, or go for a bike ride, or find a neat coffee place and have coffee and dessert. It’s so much fun, but we’re learning that not enough couples are spending the time they need to enjoy the things that brought them together in the first place. Life gets in the way and their marriage gets put on hold. Communication between the couple is about the things that make their lives keep moving – bills, appointments, the children’s schedule, who’s picking the needed gallon of milk, and the intimacy and closeness that was once there is fading faster than a speeding Mustang on the interstate. How sad.

God gave marriage for companionship; so we could be companions for life. Are you and your spouse in that ship together? I know Valentines’ is over, but like I said at the start, marriage is about enjoying being married every day of the year. What do you need to do today to keep things growing in your marriage? Ask the Lord for His help, and then do it.

With love,

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What’s Cookin’ in the Parsonage?

I was reading an old journal recently about a time when my husband and I were on a vacation getaway. I wrote that we’d spent a leisure afternoon reading – he was reading a book for a seminary class he was taking at the time, and I spent the afternoon reading cookbooks! I love them!

My favorite cookbooks are my Southern Living collection. Not only do they all contain delicious recipes, but also helpful hints, substitution charts, pictures of many of the recipes, and entertaining ideas. They inspire me to cook!
Last week before writing up my weekly menu, I pulled out the 1995 issue of Southern Living and found several new recipes to try. This one for Oregano Chicken was very good and would make a great Sunday dinner. You could bake it at a low temperature while at church and it would be moist and perfect for your meal.

Oregano Chicken:

1/4 Cup butter or margarine, melted

1/4 cup lemon juice

2 T Worcestershire sauce

2 T soy sauce

2 t dried oregano

1 t garlic powder

6 skinned chicken breast halves – I used a cut up fryer

Combine first 6 ingredients. Place chicken in an ungreased oblong baking dish. Pour half of butter mixture over chicken.

Bake at 375 for 45 minutes, and pour remaining butter mixture over chicken.

Bake 15 more minutes or until no longer pink.

Remove excess fat from pan drippings with a fat separator, and serve the pan drippings over hot cooked rice, if desired.

Here was another new recipe – Burger Boats. This is good for a quick, easy supper or lunch.

Burger Boats

1 1/2 pounds lean ground beef

1/4 cup chopped green pepper

1/4 cup chopped green onions

1 can cream of mushroom soup, undiluted

1 cup water

1/2 tsp salt

1/2 tsp pepper

1/4 tsp garlic powder

1 16 oz. loaf French bread

1/2 C shredded sharp Cheddar cheese

Brown ground beef, green peppers, and onions in large nonstick skillet, stirring until beef crumbles; drain fat.

Add soup and next 4 ingredients. Bring to a boil over medium high heat; simmer 15 minutes, stirring occasionally; set aside.

Cut a wedge of bread from the top of the bread loaf. Remove pieces of bread from inside of loaf, leaving a 1-inch shell.

Position knife blade in food processor bowl; add bread pieces and wedge. Process until crumbs are fine and uniform in size; spread evenly on a baking sheet.

Bake bread shell and crumbs at 350 degrees until lightly toasted; cool.

Stir 1 1/2 cups toasted breadcrumbs into ground beef mixture; reserve any extra breadcrumbs for other uses.

Spoon meat mixture into bread shell; top with cheese.

Bake at 350 degrees until cheese melts. (For a softer loaf, wrap in aluminum foil before baking) Yield: 4 servings

I made our Valentine Dinner on Saturday because we have plans to be away for “V”Day. =)

Menu

Marinated Steaks

Onion Rings

I used ginger ale instead of beer, since we don’t drink it or buy it, and they didn’t turn out as great as the reviews! Oh, well, live and learn!

Asparagus Gremolata**

Toasted Parmesan Bread

When I made the asparagus, I did NOT boil it. I simply added it to the pan that the breadcrumbs had been cooked in, added a little olive oil and cooked for about 3 minutes. I like my asparagus on the crisp side. This was a good side dish.

And for the Grand Finale’… Chocolate Cherry Cake

This is the easiest and best chocolate cake ever! The cooked icing is like fudge. So, if you need a dessert for your Valentine today look no further! I decorated the top of the cake with the cherries to form a heart. You know beforehand that there are cherries in the cake with them sitting on top of it. Mmmmmm…good stuff!

So, now tell me, what’s been cookin’ in your kitchen?

Happy Valentine’s Day,

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Celebrating Your Love

In case you still need some ideas for Valentine’s Day, here are Twenty-six more good ideas.

Amorous words are not outdated. Write your husband a poem, sing him a song, buy him a romantic card.

Bake his favorite dessert and serve it by candlelight after the children are in bed.

Compliment him – on his looks, his dedication to the Lord, his way with your children.

Drive the next time the two of you go somewhere, and let him relax and enjoy the scenery.

Enumerate his fine qualities, using this modified line of Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s” “Why do I love thee? Let me count the whys.” Tape the list to the mirror.

Fish, golf, hunt with him – or at least read up on his hobby.

Give him the gift of time: do a job usually his.

Hide encouraging Scripture verses or personal notes in his coat pocket, his wallet, his sock drawer, or on the steering wheel.

Indulge him with the luxury of breakfast in bed-served on a decorated tray.

Join him for a day at his work – in his office, classroom, or just for lunch.

Kiss him goodbye when he leaves for work. It’s easy to get out of the habit in the rush of life.

Learn more about him. Do you know his favorite childhood memory? The best Christmas present he ever received? His favorite record? The time he was the most afraid?

Meet him for lunch. Use fast-food coupons. or pack a sack lunch to share.

New photos of the two of you can make the ordinary a day to remember. So get out the camera and frame the results.

Old, cherished wedding pictures can help you remember when your love was new.

Prepare his favorite meal.

Quips and cartoons can lighten his day. Cut them out and give them to him on a day he needs a lift.

Read a book together. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “It is a tie between men to have read the same book.”

Smile when you see him.

Thank him for the routine things you tend to expect him to do.

Uphold him in prayer.

Valentines aren’t just for February. Give him a little gift – a pen, a magazine he likes, a favorite candy bar – along with a love note.

Wash and wax the car for him.

Xercise to keep yourself looking good.

Yes, let’s do it!” Make that your answer when he suggests things to do – a walk, watching the sunset, taking a day to go somewhere, whatever.

Zzzzzzzzzzzz. Let him take a long undisturbed nap while you entertain the children elsewhere.

One great way to celebrate your love is going to church to worship together. I pray you’re making plans to be there this Sunday! See you there!

With love,