When other people step into our homes, they can see things that we cannot see. We can grow accustomed to a pile here or a poorly placed piece of furniture. I recently had an old friend with me for a few days. She happens to have a real eye for decorating. She offered to give me some rearranging advice and I was thrilled to accept! She noticed things that I had overlooked, and her eyes and her touch brought a refreshment to my living and dining room!
Longevity’s Blessings

As a woman ages, there are certain subjects that she is able to address that would have been out of her zone when she was younger. One such subject is longevity. I’ve lived long enough now to say I’ve experienced longevity in:
- Life! Creeping up on 60 years is a blessing from the Lord!
- Marriage! Thirty-seven years and counting!
- Ministry! Thirty-seven years as a pastor’s wife.
I’m not an expert in any area, but I’ve been through much in each. I’m thankful for the things the Lord has taught me.
Recently my husband was asked to come speak at a church on this very subject and I was Continue reading “Longevity’s Blessings”
Fried Green Tomatoes
I recently had the blessing of visiting my parents in Kentucky for several days. Aside from sweet times of chatting and visiting, we also had some great meals, as is always true when I visit them in their home! My mom is a great cook, and is frequently trying new recipes.
The beauties above are Fried Green Tomatoes that she made as a side dish for dinner one night. Oh my goodness! These are the best I’ve ever had, and I’ve tried them at different restaurants as we’ve traveled. The secret is that there is a little sweetness in the breading that comes with the addition of some brown sugar!
Thank You!
Let me end the week of my 10th blogging anniversary by saying a huge thank you to each of you who read, like or comment on my posts. Without you, it would be pretty lonely on this site!

I’ve loved meeting many of you, either here or in person! What a joy to hear that a post has encouraged, helped or inspired you!
If you have a topic you’d like to see addressed here, leave a comment and I’ll see what I can do. I don’t know how long this will continue, but I’ll approach each day with a fresh start and give you what the Lord puts on my heart.
Stay refreshed this weekend by attending a Bible preaching church. If you’re in the area, Boones Creek Bible Church is an awesome place to learn about our awesome God! I’m off to spend a fun weekend with my girls! We’re celebrating birthdays! This might take the sting out of the number!! Happy Friday!

Memorizing the Word of God
As I continue to celebrate the 10th anniversary of RefreshHer this week, I had to stop and share a brief video, because out of my blog came the opportunity to add videos on You Tube. This is an arm off of my site here, that holds the same desire – the refresh the hearts of women. I never set out to begin a You Tube Channel, but it just sort of evolved out of the desire to speak to women on the same platform as my blog, but in a little more personal way.
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Today’s video is a challenge to memorize Scripture. I’ve by no means gotten it down pat! I stumble and falter (as you’ll witness on the video!), but the important fact is that I’m getting His Word in my heart. I share this today, not to boast, but to gently nudge each of you to find a passage of Scripture that you could memorize.
There are no secrets to memorizing – it’s just hard work and a heart to do it. However, we do have the help of the Author! God Himself will enable you and me to remember His Word as we ask for wisdom to do so (James 1:5).
Go here to see the video. You can also search my name, Denise Cunningham and you’ll find the thumbnail above. I pray it will encourage you to keep on memorizing, if you’re working on Scripture memory, or to get started if you’ve been hesitant to begin. It’s a wonderful blessing that you will surely treasure!
Are you memorizing Scripture? What are you working on?
Do you struggle? Start with ONE verse and write it on a card. Get the understanding of the verse in your heart. Pray that verse back to God. Take that card with you everywhere. Put it in your pocket. Put it in front of you when you’re working. Keep saying it over and over until you get it mastered…it make take days or weeks. Just keep at it. That verse will become your dearest friend.
Refresh yourself with Scripture!
