Friday Favorites – Fall Party

October 7, 2016October 6, 2016 RefreshHer1 Comment

Last weekend we got to have a lovely Fall party in our backyard. It was so much fun to prep and decorate for it, and I couldn’t wait to show you some pictures.

The guests were our recent Apples Of Gold mentoring group and their husbands. The Lord gave us a gorgeous day and evening to enjoy being outside for the entire dinner.

I used mums and small pumpkins, as well as corn stalks out on the patio area. I covered the three round tables where our guests ate with brown butcher paper. Then I wrote the guest’s names on the paper. Each table had a centerpiece that was a mixture of fall items – pumpkins, candles, apples, leaves and other decorative pieces set on a wooden tray or a piece of barn wood (see pic below).

The menu consisted of:

Artichoke Dip and crackers

Veggie Tray and dip

Blue Cheese Crackers

Cream of Wild Rice Soup

Potato Soup

Beef and Barley Soup

Homemade French Bread

Harvest Salad – Greens, apples, red onion, dried cranberries, walnuts and blue cheese with a Balsamic vinaigrette

Pumpkin Crunch Cake

Texas Sheet Cake

The evening turned nice and cool, making the fire a welcomed place to gather to share testimonies of how the Lord has used Apples of Gold in each life, to sing songs and to be challenged by my husband to “Continue” and “Compliment.” I thought the night was a huge success and can’t wait to host another gathering outside this fall!

Other events of the weekend consisted of a morning in Jonesborough with my daughter, Alli. Jonesborough (the oldest city in TN) is always quaint and fun and beautiful, but add a farmer’s market, a library book sale and fall decorations, and you have a perfect morning!

That waffle with blueberries above was my breakfast – fixed by my sweet husband before I headed out to Jonesborough! Okay, I made the waffles and froze them, so all he had to do was toast them, but he thought of me, fixed breakfast, added blueberries and brought it up to me while I was having my Quiet Time! What a great way to start any day!

One last group of photos below will reveal a kitty who curled up in the wooden tray on my chaise lounge – one I used ot hold magazines! I never know where I’ll find her sleeping!

I was on the search for a gray cardigan and I found the one pictured here clearnanced priced for a whopping $5! Double win!!

The fall sunrises have been so beautiful! I feel like Robert Sheffey, the old circuit riding preacher when he would see the sun setting and would take his sheep skin and go pray because he could “almost see heaven peeking through those clouds.” I use my walking time to pray out loud to the Lord. These cool, beautiful mornings have been such a blessing as I cry out to the Lord, walk and pray!

My week and my heart is full of so many of God’s blessings! I am undeserving, but so very thankful! What fun things did you do this week?

Stay refreshed,

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Comforting Sounds of Home

October 6, 2016October 10, 2016 RefreshHerLeave a comment

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As I write this post, the windows are up, allowing the cool morning air to blow in, but the air isn’t the only thing coming in. There are also the sounds of the country drifiting into our house. I hear…

A tractor on the hillside

An occasional car

A bird’s song

Silence

These are all reasons I love living in the country! But there are sounds that happen inside our house, too. Many of them are intentional sounds that I pray will comfort those that enter and give them the sense of rest, and of a haven.

Quiet – How?
Be intentional.
- Turn the television off. Don’t use the television to buffer the silence. In many homes the television is turned on in the morning and plays all day long. The noise of commercials alone creates an atmosphere of confusion and chaos. Sometimes people are afraid of silence. But it’s in the quiet that we hear the Lord speak. In the quiet we can think, plan and concentrate. In the quiet we can meditate on Scripture or hum a song! It’s hard to do any of that if there’s something shouting at us as “background noise.”
Music – When?
- When guests come over – Having quiet doesn’t mean nothing can be on. I will often turn on Pandora Radio on my computer before guests arrive. I have a station of just instrumental music that I turn on softly so we can hear the music, but don’t have to shout over it. I think having on music that people might know will bring the words of hymns to their hearts and encourage them. It’s also a great testimony of your love for the Lord, just as a Bible verse hanging on your wall would do.
- During mealtime – When our girls were home, I usually always turned on a CD during supper. It wasn’t always sacred music, but it was usually just instrumental. There’s a dulcimer CD that when any of us hear it today, we associate it with the midwest home we lived in, simply because of the memory the music evokes! It’s such a reminder that even sounds are a sensory that God gives that can create a special atmosphere.
- At bedtime – If you have little ones at home, playing soft music as they drift off is a great way to quiet their hearts and help them sleep peacefully.
Humming – Who? You! When?
- While you clean, cook, fold laundry, make the bed, or drive.You get the idea. I have never heard my mom sing a solo in church, but even today when I visit her, I’ll hear her singing softly and it’s comforting to me. As she sings, I know that she is reminder herself of the biblical truths of that hymn. Eph 5:19 tells us to speak to ourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord. Singing and humming is reminding yourself of truth, but it is also a message to those that hear you.
Quiet speaking voices
- Bring the volume level down. If you respond quietly, it will set the tone. Proverbs 7 tells us that the strange women has a loud voice. As women, we should speak softly and expect the same from our children.
Laughter
- Give the good medicine of laughter. Learn to laugh at yourself – when you forget to put the salad out for supper and remember it the next morning at breakfast – when you have spinach in your teeth or you trip in front of a crowd. Laughter throws the cares of the world over your shoulder. Have fun and create fun in your home and laugh together!

Let your home be associated with peace and quiet, soft music, quiet voices, humming, and much laughter. What a haven you will give those that enter!

What sounds do you associate with home?

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Be Wise To Satan’s Devices

October 5, 2016October 4, 2016 RefreshHerLeave a comment

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During the early fall it’s common to see many spider webs as I walk in the morning. From bushes, doorways, and fence posts, the spiders have worked hard laying traps for their suspects. I always feel sorry for the bugs that are lured into the web, knowing that a certain doom that awaits them.

Recently as I walked and spotted so many webs, a verse of Scripture came to mind –

Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.
II Cor. 2:11

This passage is speaking of giving forgiveness to others who have wronged us. Paul is telling the Corinthians to let go of anything that others have done to them. If they were offended or hurt, or if he hurt any of them, he reminds them to forgive. Paul wisely knew about the snares, the traps or the webs that Satan lays for believers – things like hurt feelings and unforgiving hearts! The hurts lure you in, then doom comes!

Do you know Satan’s tricks?

Are you aware of how he tries to ensnare you and keep you from moving forward for Christ? One of his tools is to get us offended, hurt and wounded so that we cannot possibly forgive. Bitterness sets in. Anger flows from our hearts. Justice is our demand. And he has us. Trapped. Fallen captive because we aren’t wise to his devices.

Women from our church – and all over the world have begun a five-week prayer vigil for revival. We are crying out to see God move in mighty ways – advancing the Gospel, souls saved, hearts revived. We need to be reminded that the devil is not going to sit idly by while we pray! We had better be wise to his devices! We need to be on the alert for him to set a snare for us!!

If he can cause a strife in your marriage so that cold shoulders and pursed lips trump the Gospel kind of forgiveness, then he has ensnared another home and kept us from evangelizing the lost.
If he can get us hurt at church, so that we throw our hands up with a heart that says, “It’s not worth it!” then he has laid the web perfectly to silence our voices and keep us from praying for revival in that place!
If he can make us think that we are deserving of more than we have been given – more material blessings, more health, more recognition, more love from our God, then we have been lulled into the stickiness of the web of bitterness, spun by the deceiver, liar and hater of our soul, that will bring about a certain spiritual death.

BUT,

if we, like Paul, can be wise to his devices, instead of ignorant, we will see each of these scenarios as Satan’s ploy and we will wisely steer clear of them. We will humble ourselves on bended knee, and forgive as we were forgiven, and pray, and love others because without it, we will be caught in his web.

It’s our choice. Wisdom or ignorance – that’s how Paul put it. Which will we choose today?

Let’s stay right so we can keep praying for revival!

P.S. For today’s reminder about how to make your home a haven, if you cover it with prayer Every.Single.Day. it will be noticeable. Your family will feel it. The enemy will be stopped by it. A watching world will take notice. Guests will recognize it. Prayer is the greatest gift we can give our home. Have you PRAYED for your home and each member of your family today?

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Aromas that Create an Inviting Haven

October 4, 2016October 3, 2016 RefreshHerLeave a comment

Smells and aromas. They can be wonderful or horrible. How would your home be described? What’s the prominent aroma associated with it? Is it inviting or nose-wrinkling?

“Every time I smell bread baking, it reminds me of my mom!”

That’s what a friend told me just recently. Their mother died when they were young, but they still remember her when they smell the fragrant aroma of a yeast bread baking in the oven, because that was her specialty that she made for her family regularly.

When I was a child and I smelled coffee, I associated it with home and family get-togethers. My parents drank coffee each day, but coffee was also always perked when our relatives visited from nearby cities. When we children smelled the coffee being perked, we knew that our cousins would get to stay longer as our parents lingered over steaming cups.

It’s amazing how aromas can bring back sweet memories, isn’t it? A perfume, a candle’s scent, or bacon frying are all simple things, but ones that could be memory triggers. The key to creating a memory with a fragrance is using that aroma with an activity, routine or tradition.

For instance:

If Saturday breakfasts always consist of pancakes and bacon, when your child smells bacon they remember the relaxed, casual family times you shared together on laid back Saturdays.
The lavender sachets you put in your linen closet with your sheets will remind your family of bedtime, your family’s nighttime routine, and home.

What we do is simply make home smell like home. You can’t do that if you’re not there. Brilliant statement, right? But it’s true in its simplicity.

Here are some ways you can add fragrances to your home (or just keep it smelling fantastic).

Burn fragrant candles. It can make your home even smelled like you baked something with a “Sugar cookie” or “Red Velvet Cake” candle!
Plug in a Tart Warmer and you’ll have the fragrance without a flame. Here’s mine:

Use plug-in fragrances. These actually can work when you’re not there! My neighbor has these all over her house and it smells so good! Make sure to use ones that are either the same, or of the same “family.”
Clip car deodorizers to the inside vents inside your home. When the air blows, it makes the rooms smell wonderful.

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Add drawer sachets where you store your sheets and blankets.
Simmer citrus fruits and herbs on the stove. Add cinnamon and cloves for fall and winter.
Slip dryer sheets in your dresser drawers to keep clothes smelling fresh.
Put lemon slices down your garbage disposal.
Bake something (even if it’s tubes of cookie dough or frozen bread loaves) before family comes home.
Add coffee beans around a vanilla candle. The two fragrances are wonderful!

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Add vanilla extract to your clean air filters. Go here to see a simple video.
All you essential oil lovers could also add an oil to your air filter, or hundreds of other places in your home! =)

Those are just a few of my suggestions. Now tell me how you add beautiful aromas to your home!

What is your favorite fragrance from your growing up years?

Make your home smell like a haven!

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Hawaiian Chicken with Pineapple Salsa

October 3, 2016October 3, 2016 RefreshHer3 Comments

Last week I encouraged you to make your home a haven for your husband. It needs to be your haven, too. It could be a one for anyone that would enter your door. Each day this week I’m going to be sharing ways that you can do just that. Maybe you’re a pro at it and these will just be reminders. Perhaps you’ve gotten so preoccupied with other things that you need a refresher. Or maybe you’re new at creating an atmosphere of a refuge and you don’t know where to begin. I pray this will encourage each of you!

Food is a gift from God and is a huge element in home life. Cooking creates delicious aromas. The dishes the meals are served on can create family traditions and carry precious memories, and time around the table creates conversation, care and intimacy.

I believe the meals we prepare need to be thought through so we’re prepared, organized, and allow our families to anticipate what’s coming! I challenge you to plan at least four dinners for this week and post it somewhere. It could be on your planner, a marker board, or a chalkboard. Put it out where your family will see it and know what’s coming for supper this week. You may need to switch the night you chose to make that entree, but that’s okay. You’ll still have a plan.

I often scroll through my blog menu items and make up my whole week of dinners from it. That’s one great reason to blog about my food; I have an on-line record of our favorites! If you keep a list of your family’s favorite things, it will be easier to make a weekly plan.

After you make your plan and post it, then make a grocery list and secure the ingredients needed. Prep ahead and get things started early so dinner will be anticipated by everyone – even you!

Recently I made a recipe I’ve shared here – the Hawaiian Chicken with Pineapple Salsa again and was smitten by the fantastic taste the grill gives the whole meal!

Hawaiian Chicken with Pinapple Salsa

Ingredients:

1/4 cup pineapple juice

2 tablespoons ketchup

2 tablespoons lower-sodium soy sauce

1 1/2 teaspoons minced peeled ginger

2 garlic cloves, minced

4 (6-ounce) skinless, boneless chicken breast halves

Cooking spray
3/4 teaspoon salt, divided

1/4 teaspoon black pepper

2 cups hot cooked long-grain white rice

1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro

Preparation

1. Combine first 5 ingredients. Reserve 1/4 cup marinade; place remaining marinade in a zip-top plastic bag. Add chicken to bag; seal. Chill 4 hours. (I did mine overnight)

2. Heat a grill pan over medium-high heat. Coat pan with cooking spray. Remove chicken from bag; discard marinade in bag. Sprinkle chicken with 1/2 teaspoon salt and pepper. Note: I microwaved the chicken for about 10 minutes to pre-cook it a little. Then we put it on the grill. Add chicken to pan; baste with 2 tablespoons reserved marinade. Cook 6 minutes. Turn chicken over; baste with 2 tablespoons reserved marinade. Cook 6 minutes.

3. Combine rice, 1/4 teaspoon salt, and cilantro.

Pineapple Salsa

Mix:

1 cup finely chopped fresh pineapple (I used canned)

1/3 cup finely chopped red onion

1/4 cup finely chopped fresh cilantro

1/4 cup pineapple preserves

1 tablespoon finely chopped seeded jalapeño pepper

1 1/2 tablespoons fresh lime juice

1/4 teaspoon black pepper

I heated up the salsa and served it over the chicken. This was so delicious! The grilled chicken and the flavors of the marinade and the salsa are perfect!

Grilling makes all the difference! I hope you’ll try this soon. I know I won’t be waiting long before I make this again!

So who’s with me on making a menu for this week? Will you strive to make the haven for your husband and your family with the food you create? Can you plan four dinners you want to make and serve to your family this week? Let me know in the comments below!

With love from my country kitchen,

Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices. II Cor. 2:11

Do you know Satan’s tricks?

BUT,

Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.
II Cor. 2:11